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Title: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: browneyes on Jul 04, 2006, 10:13 AM
Ennis met Cassie in '78, according to the screenplay. Jack met Randall in '78 also. Ennis was involved with Cassie for years as was Jack with Randall (atleast I believe so). HOWEVER!!! We know that Ennis broke it off with Cassie in '83. Could the relationship between Cassie and Ennis be like the relationship with Jack & Randall? Is it possible because of how Ennis felt about Jack with other guys Jack could've possibly broke it off with Randall ("Jack's ideas never come to pass")? Maybe Ennis was preparing to finally accept a life with Jack (thats why he broke up with Cassie, to prepare for his life with Jack). I think if Jack would've lived and they met up in November, Jack would've given Ennis an ultimatum ("either have a life with me or me and this other dude will") and Ennis would've had no choice but to accept it or risk losing Jack forever. We all know he can barely stand finding out Jack has been sleeping with other men ( I think mostly because of fear of people finding out about Jack being gay, Ennis knew Jack had a sex drive and needed it fulfilled sometime) but to have Jack actually live with someone would've killed Ennis. I think Ennis realized at that last meeting he really needs to re-evaluate his relationship with Jack. And really think about the life together that Jack wants. Ennis kept leading Cassie along for 5 years even though he knew he couldn't love Cassie, same with Jack and Randall (even though I think Jack and Randall had an agreement to keep their affair STRICTLY  sexual, unless Jack said otherwise). 
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Post by: Glynn on Jul 04, 2006, 10:31 AM
hiya

erm...who is randall ...can someone show me a pic to remind me...

thanks

glynn
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: browneyes on Jul 04, 2006, 10:41 AM
Randall was the dude who was hitting on Jack at that little dacne. He had the annoying wife who couldn't stop talking. And outside he was talking/hitting to Jack and invited Jack to a cabin.
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Post by: Glynn on Jul 04, 2006, 10:49 AM
i thought it was him...thanks...the thing is he was not given a strong part of the story line...

so in that case it is like what happened...
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Post by: Rønnaug on Jul 04, 2006, 11:10 AM
I like the idea you are proposing browneyes.... this needs thinking over...
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Post by: amtamburo on Jul 04, 2006, 11:21 AM
Personally, I always thought Jack stood a better chance of convincing Ennis to give things a shot if he just basically grabbed hold of him kissed the hell out of him, and said, "Look asshole, I love you... now whatcha gonna do about it?" Hell being aggressive worked once and got pretty good results (FNIT) why not try it again? ;)

Or even better, show up on one of their fishing trips with the shirts in tow... hang em up in the tent and see what Ennis' reaction is to this obvious show of Jack's love. Given his reaction to finding them later, perhaps it might have at least provoked a conversation that led to the 'L' word being used and maybe even a plan to try for that 'sweet life'? My thought always was that Ennis and Jack both knew how the other felt, but actually hearing it said aloud would have packed enough of a punch to wake Ennis up and make him realize what he was missing out on.

Sorry bit OT...

I have often wondered myself if Ennis might not have caved and decided to give Jack's dreams a shot. Perhaps if Jack had lived and tried again after both Ennis' girls were 18 and his child support obligation was no longer there... that really did seem to be the biggest thing holding him back besides the Earl thing.
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Post by: NoReins on Jul 04, 2006, 11:29 AM
Personally, I always thought Jack stood a better chance of convincing Ennis to give things a shot if he just basically grabbed hold of him kissed the hell out of him, and said, "Look asshole, I love you... now whatcha gonna do about it?" Hell being aggressive worked once and got pretty good results (FNIT) why not try it again? ;)

Or even better, show up on one of their fishing trips with the shirts in tow... hang em up in the tent and see what Ennis' reaction is to this obvious show of Jack's love. Given his reaction to finding them later, perhaps it might have at least provoked a conversation that led to the 'L' word being used and maybe even a plan to try for that 'sweet life'? My thought always was that Ennis and Jack both knew how the other felt, but actually hearing it said aloud would have packed enough of a punch to wake Ennis up and make him realize what he was missing out on.

Sorry bit OT...

I have often wondered myself if Ennis might not have caved and decided to give Jack's dreams a shot. Perhaps if Jack had lived and tried again after both Ennis' girls were 18 and his child support obligation was no longer there... that really did seem to be the biggest thing holding him back besides the Earl thing.

I think you're spot on there. They had managed to keep "this thing" going for a long time without anything happening to either of them so maybe if Jack had just said "I want you, I need you and I love you - always have and always will" it might have had the desired effect. Failing that, the shirts would surely have worked - faced with the fact that Jack had felt like that right from the start, Ennis would not have been able to turn him away.
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Post by: welshwitch on Jul 04, 2006, 11:30 AM
In my more pessimistic moods I feel almost certain that Ennis would always have found one more excuse - he could have gone on paying child support wherever he was and whomever he was living with. Ennis is a master of excuses and of avoiding action - whatever Jack proposes he inevitably nixes it.

I'd like to think he's come round, but that''s fan-fic-land, I think.
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Post by: browneyes on Jul 04, 2006, 11:50 AM
But we all know Ennis can't stand the thought of losing Jack. He breaks down the 1st time he think he's never gonna see him again, when they come down from the mountain. Ennis could've fallen in love w/ Cassie and Jack coulkd've fallen in love w/Randall, but they wanted each other. As I said before if Jack gave Ennis an ultimatum what choice would Ennis have? He would have no choice but to take the offer. That why I think he broke up with Cassie, he had to reevaluate his relationship with Jack and what Jack wanted. When Ennis broke up w/Cassie, its possible Jack did the same thing w/Randall. Randall wasn't fulfilling the void and longing he had for Ennis, Randall just helped overcome his loneliness for a little bit. Cassie helped overcome Ennis loneliness too. Thats why I think the two relationships are very similar. When Jack's father said "most of Jack's ideas never come to pass", could that mean maybe Jack knew there was no future with Randall either, so he broke it off with Randall or could it simply mean Jack died before he had the chance to start a life with Randall? But there is no doubt if Jack started to live with Randall, he would see Ennis every chance he got,     
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Post by: amtamburo on Jul 04, 2006, 12:04 PM
Not only can Ennis now stand the thought of living without Jack, but even though he doesn't show it often we can tell by the way he looks at Jack and is holding him in that later tent scene, that Ennis has a very tender side to him. I think that Jack coming right out with his feelings would have made him reevaluate things.

OT but maybe explains some of my optimistic views:

This is the problem I face in my thinking. I am not gay, never have been, so I can quite honestly say that I have no idea what it is like to worry about others finding out, or being fearful of harm because of it. I suppose that makes it hard for me to understand why Ennis was so reluctant to even try to figure out a way for them to be together. If I was that much in love with someone, man or woman... I would want to be with them, and would do everything I could to make it so. But as I said... I am not gay... I was not even alive in the 60's and was only 12 in 1983. I have no clue what being gay was like then or how dangerous it really was and I have (thank god... *crosses fingers*) never been a witness to any hate crime. So it is hard for me to truly understand his fears to the point where I see why he was so scared to even think about it. Not having that experience personally I think makes it hard to truly comprehend just what it was like.  :-[
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: browneyes on Jul 04, 2006, 12:09 PM
I'm not gay either. There was this couple at my school, they had been going out for almost 2 years. And the day after Valentine Day, the guy came out of the closet. His girlfriend was devastated and cried all day at school. But she realized if thats the way he feels then thats just what it is. Now they're really good friends.

But I do believe it Ennis or Jack said I love you to each other it could've changed their whole relationship for the better.

"If u can't fix it u gotta stand it".
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Post by: NoReins on Jul 04, 2006, 01:26 PM
"If u can't fix it u gotta stand it".

Yep, and if you can't stand it, you gotta fix it. Ennis said at the lakeside "I can't stand this any more Jack".....so maybe he would try to fix it?
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: amtamburo on Jul 04, 2006, 02:03 PM
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Yep, and if you can't stand it, you gotta fix it. Ennis said at the lakeside "I can't stand this any more Jack".....so maybe he would try to fix it?

My thoughts exactly... a lot of people took that to mean that he couldn't go on with their relationship... but he did in fact send Jack a card to set up a November meeting, so perhaps he was thinking about 'fixing it'... or at least ready to think about it.
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Post by: welshwitch on Jul 04, 2006, 02:15 PM
Relationships, specially those involving what someone I knew called "sex and separation and suffering", can be repetitive or circular - each of two people is caught in the other's orbit, can't break free, but can't change the relationship either. This I think explains the postcard about Novemev=ber - this was thier pattern and whatever they said neither could break it.
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Post by: Patriot1 on Jul 04, 2006, 02:22 PM
erm...who is randall ...can someone show me a pic to remind me...

(https://ennisjack.com/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi43.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fe359%2FPatriotOne%2FRandall001.jpg&hash=b388e22fadbe0dd042026306daeb82f8cd349b53)
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: Valandil Eluch on Jul 04, 2006, 02:28 PM
Well Browneyes you made an interesting point here! And i think that you are totally right! On my personal point of view something changed on their last meeting in both of them. Ennis realized that his fishing trips were not enough for Jack and after knowing that he was with other men that may have hit him really hard. Besides we know after that that his relationship with Cassie went to a cliff after that. he was changing and going to a new path (I think) this time he was the one offering the time. We know for sure that it was always Jack the one sending the post cards and Ennis was the one that either declined them or accept them, however, this time was Ennis this was a big change this was saying "Hey Jack I'm here, please tell me if you want to continue" probably as many of you think after that trip something would have changed to either better or worst. I'm possitive that it may have being for better since we know that Ennis was changing, now note i say changing not that he realized he loved Jack, to me he realized he loved him when he went to his parents house.
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Post by: Mélanos on Jul 04, 2006, 02:58 PM
I don't think Jack expected anything about Randall, when Randall talk him of the little cabin he does not seem happy or excited, he is sad, melancolic! Since the misunderstanding after the divorce Jack was wounded and never could recover, we never see him happy after, never a smile. Ennis and Jack were in love, deeply in love, but more than that they were life for each other, and Ennis could not bear that. Before their meeting, on Brokeback, they were both nearly dead, they came back to life in fiding that love... After that they were not able to live with or without the other...
Maybe Ennis was realy in love with Cassie, she made him dance! After the last fight, along the lake, Ennis is broken, he is lost for everybody but melancoly. And Jack! what I think it is that the thing he cant bear it is not being able to help his friend, to make him happy. It is not only a question to declare love, they are both unable, they are crippled! Jack was happy as long he thought he made Ennis happy, just look his smile when they they meet at mud lake, just before the ballad in the rain forest! Jack is a worn out man, his last try with Ennis is hopeless. I think he chose to die, he tought he could do in dying what he could not in living. That is how I understand the memory of the happy time in Brokeback, Jack is sure of his love and he is sure of Ennis: he prefer let him go, be free, "see you in the morning!..." Jack was not murdered, he was not stupid, he gave his life and that is what Ennis understand in the closet. When Ennis wisper "I love you" it is not only him, he just came to understand what Jack did for him. Randall is a nothing, Jack talked of him only to get the suspicion out of Ennis... I think the trailer is completly out of the way, love is NOT of force of nature, love between Jack and Ennis was built day after day, love is a bond and there is no greater love than give your life fore someone you love :\'( :\'(
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: Valandil Eluch on Jul 04, 2006, 03:16 PM
I don't think Jack expected anything about Randall, when Randall talk him of the little cabin he does not seem happy or excited, he is sad, melancolic! Since the misunderstanding after the divorce Jack was wounded and never could recover, we never see him happy after, never a smile. Ennis and Jack were in love, deeply in love, but more than that they were life for each other, and Ennis could not bear that. Before their meeting, on Brokeback, they were both nearly dead, they came back to life in fiding that love... After that they were not able to live with or without the other...
Maybe Ennis was realy in love with Cassie, she made him dance! After the last fight, along the lake, Ennis is broken, he is lost for everybody but melancoly. And Jack! what I think it is that the thing he cant bear it is not being able to help his friend, to make him happy. It is not only a question to declare love, they are both unable, they are crippled! Jack was happy as long he thought he made Ennis happy, just look his smile when they they meet at mud lake, just before the ballad in the rain forest! Jack is a worn out man, his last try with Ennis is hopeless. I think he chose to die, he tought he could do in dying what he could not in living. That is how I understand the memory of the happy time in Brokeback, Jack is sure of his love and he is sure of Ennis: he prefer let him go, be free, "see you in the morning!..." Jack was not murdered, he was not stupid, he gave his life and that is what Ennis understand in the closet. When Ennis wisper "I love you" it is not only him, he just came to understand what Jack did for him. Randall is a nothing, Jack talked of him only to get the suspicion out of Ennis... I think the trailer is completly out of the way, love is NOT of force of nature, love between Jack and Ennis was built day after day, love is a bond and there is no greater love than give your life fore someone you love :\'( :\'(

Mélanos I have to disagree with you with Cassie Ennis didn't loved her at all you can't love  two persons at the same time and He wasn't the type either Ennis was actually trying to have the life people wanted him to have not his real life remember Cassie came years after his dinner with Alma where he realized Alma knew about Jack and him.

About Jack choosing to Die well to be honest I don't think that Jack fitted that profile either, I do agree that he let him go as it was on his memory but remember that book states "Nothing fixed, nothing ended" so we know that Jack was able to give his life for ennis but i don't think that he was going to make him kill not in that way at least that would make Ennis suffered and i don't think he wanted that.
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: Mélanos on Jul 04, 2006, 04:36 PM
Mélanos I have to disagree with you with Cassie Ennis didn't loved her at all you can't love  two persons at the same time and He wasn't the type either Ennis was actually trying to have the life people wanted him to have not his real life remember Cassie came years after his dinner with Alma where he realized Alma knew about Jack and him.

About Jack choosing to Die well to be honest I don't think that Jack fitted that profile either, I do agree that he let him go as it was on his memory but remember that book states "Nothing fixed, nothing ended" so we know that Jack was able to give his life for ennis but i don't think that he was going to make him kill not in that way at least that would make Ennis suffered and i don't think he wanted that.
I completly agree with you... most of the time! I just remember what Bumbaluna said in the weekly letter, Cassie was, maybe, something like Jack in a woman, I think he is not playing with her, but he does not know where he goes... there is no opposition in his mind between Jack and Cassie, all the contrary and he is proud to talk about her with Jack. Ennis does not want to choose and underestimate the deepness of the bond between him and Jack.
And Jack, I understand what you say and that is the most difficult point of the film. First of all Jack of the film is not Jack of the SS, and Ennis no more, Jack is even not Jack of the screenplay! Ang Lee and Jake made made a much more complex character and the endings are differents: in the SS the end is pure despair, Ennis is taken between grief and madness (that is quite a frequent end in "Close Range"), in the film there is some hope. I believe we are not compelled to have a realistic reading: nothing is shown directly of the death of Jack... in the legends death represent the passage from childhood to adulthood. Jack did not want his friend to suffer, but he ha to... like a doctor do, sometimes, to heal, to let him be a man? :s)
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Post by: browneyes on Jul 04, 2006, 04:40 PM
Thanks Carlos for saying that I made an interesting point! I do believe Ennis would've came around eventually. I mean they were both approaching middle-age. That's usually when everyone takes a good, hard look at their life. I think Ennis used Cassie as a cover-up and Jack used Randall to feel that sexual and lonely void (even if it didn't help Jack overcome him loneliness and longing for Ennis). There is no doubt Jack would've met up with Ennis either to continue the relationship as it is or give Ennis an ultimatum. These 2 people were in love from 1963 to 1983 (the screenplay is so messed up when it comes to the dates!), I don't think Jack would've replied to Ennis' postcard by "I found someone who wants a life with me". Jack wouldn't do that and if he did Ennis would drive to wherever Jack was and fight for him!
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Post by: CherryCake on Jul 05, 2006, 12:10 AM
Thanks Carlos for saying that I made an interesting point! I do believe Ennis would've came around eventually. I mean they were both approaching middle-age. That's usually when everyone takes a good, hard look at their life. I think Ennis used Cassie as a cover-up and Jack used Randall to feel that sexual and lonely void (even if it didn't help Jack overcome him loneliness and longing for Ennis). There is no doubt Jack would've met up with Ennis either to continue the relationship as it is or give Ennis an ultimatum. These 2 people were in love from 1963 to 1983 (the screenplay is so messed up when it comes to the dates!), I don't think Jack would've replied to Ennis' postcard by "I found someone who wants a life with me". Jack wouldn't do that and if he did Ennis would drive to wherever Jack was and fight for him!
Yes, browneyes, I agree with you. and I enjoyed you 'what ifs..' from the other posts.  It was Ennis who was changing for Jack.  And I think he would have come around to be with Jack.  But as Jack prophetized, 'never enough time, never enough.'  I think that last fight... especially Jack's "I did once...' line really got to Ennis.  I can see where Ennis would somehow feel guilty and somewhat responsible, though unjustified, for Jack's death.  Sorry for being OT. 
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Post by: tpe on Jul 05, 2006, 07:10 AM
Thanks everyone for the great thoughts.  I find the proposed comparison quite interesting and very intriguing.

Not exactly sure how I feel.  If you are a believer in the theory (implied by the screenplay dates) that there was about a full year between their last meeting and thr proposed meeting in November, then it would be hard to think that Ennis would have waited that long to make his move in accepting Jack's way of looking at things.  Then again, it does not totally discount the possibility of Ennis setting the stage for this turnaround in the November meeting that never happened.

Did Ennis have sex with Cassie?  This is a detail that I am not sure of, but it is plausible.  The white wine shared between father and daughter was supposedly something left behind during the Cassie period.  (Considering that he broke up with Cassie in 81/82 and the last scene was in 84, that bottle of white wine must have already turned into vinegar -- but I digress...)  This suggests that he did invite Cassie over to his old place (not the trailer) during the time they were seeing each other.  Hard to think that if just stuck to drinking white wine during those visits, so I would think that they indeed had sex. THis strengthens the comparison with Jack and Randall, as I have always assumed that these two did have an affair right before jack died.

Just a few thoughts about this subject...

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Post by: browneyes on Jul 05, 2006, 07:18 AM
Well, I think the screenplay is wrong with a couple of the dates. I believe it was '83 the last time Ennis and Jack met up. I think it makes more sense. When Jack asks Ennis "what the hell ever happened to August?" I think its a safe bet that it was May of '83. And Jack died sometime during the spring or summer. Ennis probably knew about the death around October, when he got the postcard back. The whole thing with Ennis and Cassie, Jack and Randall really confuses me. Sometimes I get so upset that Jack was cheating on Ennis with another man for 5 years (I believe)! But Ennis was with Cassie for 5 years too and since Ennis was still in denial, he could've fallen in love with Cassie. Jack could've fallen for Randall. But they couldn't because they still wanted each other.
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Post by: tpe on Jul 05, 2006, 07:27 AM
Well, I think the screenplay is wrong with a couple of the dates. I believe it was '83 the last time Ennis and Jack met up. I think it makes more sense. When Jack asks Ennis "what the hell ever happened to August?" I think its a safe bet that it was May of '83. And Jack died sometime during the spring or summer. Ennis probably knew about the death around October, when he got the postcard back. The whole thing with Ennis and Cassie, Jack and Randall really confuses me. Sometimes I get so upset that Jack was cheating on Ennis with another man for 5 years (I believe)! But Ennis was with Cassie for 5 years too and since Ennis was still in denial, he could've fallen in love with Cassie. Jack could've fallen for Randall. But they couldn't because they still wanted each other.

This I think matches the short story timeline (than the screenplay timeline).  I do think that the timeline set in the screenplay was quite deliberate, although I don't really know the reason behind it -- other than it gave Jack a greater reason to be upset about Ennis in the last meeting, plus it gives Jack time to set his plans with Randall in motion. 

And as I did mention in the above post, even a wait of a full year would not have discounted the possibility of Ennis turning around.  There is a certain deliberateness in Ennis that would make the scenario plausible. 

It is an intriguing possibility.   In my more pessimistic moods, I feel that maybe Ennis did not consider it.  But I certainly cannot discount it outright.



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Post by: Mélanos on Jul 05, 2006, 07:30 AM
Chronology in the film (and the screeplay) is completly a mess! For instance look at the pregnancy of Alma, she is waiting for the baby in Thanksgiving 1977 and in 1979 Junior talk about the newborn! As for the sexuality of Jack, did he had sex in Mexico? and with Randall? all we see is one travel in Mexico (it is not a happy one!) et all we know is what Jack say: "somethin' I don't hardly never get". I think we can believe him, Jack does not say all the truth but he never lie to Ennis.
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Post by: tpe on Jul 05, 2006, 07:32 AM
A bit OOT here. but for those interested in a comparison between screenplay and short story timelines, you can refer to a table posted in the old thread on the Timeline of the Last Scenes.

It is an interesting tabulation...

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Post by: tpe on Jul 05, 2006, 07:35 AM
A bit OOT here. but for those interested in a comparison between screenplay and short story timelines, you can refer to a table posted in the old thread on the Timeline of the Last Scenes.

It is an interesting tabulation...

I do find this invaluable:  http://www.ennisjack.com/index.php?PHPSESSID=1c5fadc32732df0871aabc6ddb07229c&topic=968.msg10477#msg10477
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Post by: browneyes on Jul 05, 2006, 07:46 AM
Thank you for that. But when Jack said "needin' somethin' I don't hardly never get", it does give me doubts. But then he said "I can't make on a couple of high-altitude f**ks once or twice a year!". That tells me he tried to stay faithful but when the urges got to bad he went to see Randall. That tells me he rarely saw Randall. So even thought he knew Randall for 5 years, he rarely had sex with him. Remember, Randall had his own life too. So they were more than likely just f**k buddies. When Jack told his father about "another fella", I think he was speaking out of anger and frustration.
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Post by: tpe on Jul 05, 2006, 07:52 AM
Thank you for that. But when Jack said "needin' somethin' I don't hardly never get", it does give me doubts. But then he said "I can't make on a couple of high-altitude f**ks once or twice a year!". That tells me he tried to stay faithful but when the urges got to bad he went to see Randall. That tells me he rarely saw Randall. So even thought he knew Randall for 5 years, he rarely had sex with him. Remember, Randall had his own life too. So they were more than likely just f**k buddies. When Jack told his father about "another fella", I think he was speaking out of anger and frustration.

Yes, I did also feel that Jack tried to be faithful to Ennis, in spite of meanigless lapses (such as the one in Mexico).  I do think that he porbably had a fling with Randall before the last meeting, but yes, I do think if this did ever occured, it was not really a serious thing.  In fact, I thought his veiled reference to it in the last meeting was sort of a cry for help.  That was why I think he started his beautiful confession of love with these words: "Truth is..."

 
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Post by: Twisted on Jul 05, 2006, 07:58 AM
"..Sometimes i miss you so much i can hardly stand it.. :\'( :\'(
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Post by: tpe on Jul 05, 2006, 08:00 AM
"..Sometimes i miss you so much i can hardly stand it.. :\'( :\'(

 :\'(

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Post by: browneyes on Jul 05, 2006, 08:12 AM
Yeah, I know. Thats why if he knew Ennis wanted to meet up in November he would be there. That's why I think Jack knew he couldn't really have a life with Randall because he wouldn't be happy. So do most of you think that it is possible to have like a 5-year affair with someone and it not be a serious thing?
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Post by: NoReins on Jul 05, 2006, 08:34 AM
Thank you for that. But when Jack said "needin' somethin' I don't hardly never get", it does give me doubts. But then he said "I can't make on a couple of high-altitude f**ks once or twice a year!". That tells me he tried to stay faithful but when the urges got to bad he went to see Randall. That tells me he rarely saw Randall. So even thought he knew Randall for 5 years, he rarely had sex with him. Remember, Randall had his own life too. So they were more than likely just f**k buddies. When Jack told his father about "another fella", I think he was speaking out of anger and frustration.

Yes, I did also feel that Jack tried to be faithful to Ennis, in spite of meanigless lapses (such as the one in Mexico).  I do think that he porbably had a fling with Randall before the last meeting, but yes, I do think if this did ever occured, it was not really a serious thing.  In fact, I thought his veiled reference to it in the last meeting was sort of a cry for help.  That was why I think he started his beautiful confession of love with these words: "Truth is..."

 

That's it in a nutshell. Whatever lies he may have told Ennis both in the past and at that time, the truth was that he missed Ennis and didn't ever want to be apart from him. It's echoed in his speech the next day too - he may have wished he knew how to quit Ennis but the truth was, he didn't.
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Post by: browneyes on Jul 05, 2006, 08:45 AM
Good point. Do u guys know that supposedly that when Jack said "sometimes I miss you so much I can hardly stand it", Ennis was supposedly going to say "I know the feeling". I think that should have been in the film.
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Post by: NoReins on Jul 05, 2006, 09:30 AM
Good point. Do u guys know that supposedly that when Jack said "sometimes I miss you so much I can hardly stand it", Ennis was supposedly going to say "I know the feeling". I think that should have been in the film.

I'd never heard that but I do wish Ennis had said something in response to Jack's declaration of love. I know he does respond physically by holding Jack as they sleep, but it would have been nice if - just once - he'd been able to give Jack something more to go on.
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: tpe on Jul 05, 2006, 09:36 AM
That's it in a nutshell. Whatever lies he may have told Ennis both in the past and at that time, the truth was that he missed Ennis and didn't ever want to be apart from him. It's echoed in his speech the next day too - he may have wished he knew how to quit Ennis but the truth was, he didn't.

NoReins,  there are no words to match this.  Thank you.

A wonderful, difficult topic.

 
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 05, 2006, 09:47 AM
OT but the time-line is wrong or ? dubious. If Ennis marries Alma in Dec '63 and has her pregnant by January '64, then Alma Jr's 19 in '83, till October anyway, Ennis has already finished paying child support for her and is within a year of doing so for Francine/Jenny too.
When Jack arrives in June '67. he says Bobby's eight months. so he was born in Oct ' 66 and would hardly have needed a tutor to teach him to read at the time given, nor would he be driving a tractor in '72 ( even helped by Jack) unless he's unbelievably precocious.

I agree Ennis takes his time, but if the confrontation meeting is in May '83, then Jack dies in the summer ( ironically aroung the time he would have been meeting Ennis if Ennis hadn't said he couldn't make it) then Ennis sends the pc in ? October, the meeting referred to in the confrontation would be in November

AND WE HAVEN'T A CLUE WHAT ENNIS WOULD HAVE SAID AT THAT POINT. And I like it that way - ambiguity again.
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: tpe on Jul 05, 2006, 09:54 AM
AND WE HAVEN'T A CLUE WHAT ENNIS WOULD HAVE SAID AT THAT POINT. And I like it that way - ambiguity again.

Things never said.  They are like songbirds singing in winter.  They are like worms feasting on the tender heart.
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 05, 2006, 10:08 AM
                           Heard melodies are sweet, but those unheard
                           Are sweeter.
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: tpe on Jul 05, 2006, 10:14 AM
                           Heard melodies are sweet, but those unheard
                           Are sweeter.

 The one vain longing,—through all journeyings,
 The one:  in every hushed and hearkening spot,—
 All the soft-swarming dark where you were not,
 Still longed for!  Yes, for sake of dreams and wings,
 And wonders, that your own must ever make
 To bower you close, with all hearts’ treasurings;
 And for that speech toward which all hearts do ache;—
 Even for Music’s sake.

(Josephine Peabody -- 'The Nightingale Unheard')



Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: Mélanos on Jul 05, 2006, 11:27 AM
                           Heard melodies are sweet, but those unheard
                           Are sweeter.

Thanks welshwitch, that's beautifull and I think that is exactly what Jack is hearing in his last moment of quiet memory, the unheard melody of Ennis' love for him. Ennis, certainly, was trying to come back in his last postcard but nothing could have changed. The death of Jack was the only clash strong enought to move out of his fears, of his customs... Look how he is old and worn out with Jack, along the lake, and look how he is strong and beautiful when he come to Lightning Flat, with the spirit to face the dreadfull John and to face the disclosure of his sexuality. Ennis did came back... maybe the end could have been different, it would not have been so beautifull
"Les chants les plus tristes sont souvent les plus beaux
J'en connais d'immortels qui sont de purs sanglots" (Alfred de Vigny)
(The sadest songs are often the most beautiful
I know some immortals ones that are pure sob)
That is for TPE and sorry to be OT!

Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: tpe on Jul 05, 2006, 11:49 AM
                           Heard melodies are sweet, but those unheard
                           Are sweeter.

Thanks welshwitch, that's beautifull and I think that is exactly what Jack is hearing in his last moment of quiet memory, the unheard melody of Ennis' love for him. Ennis, certainly, was trying to come back in his last postcard but nothing could have changed. The death of Jack was the only clash strong enought to move out of his fears, of his customs... Look how he is old and worn out with Jack, along the lake, and look how he is strong and beautiful when he come to Lightning Flat, with the spirit to face the dreadfull John and to face the disclosure of his sexuality. Ennis did came back... maybe the end could have been different, it would not have been so beautifull
"Les chants les plus tristes sont souvent les plus beaux
J'en connais d'immortels qui sont de purs sanglots" (Alfred de Vigny)
(The sadest songs are often the most beautiful
I know some immortals ones that are pure sob)
That is for TPE and sorry to be OT!

Not so OOT.  Thank you Mélanos.  Wonderful.   :\'(


 
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: edgar on Jul 05, 2006, 12:52 PM
I have a few rather humdrum things to say on this topic, referring to things mentioned upthread.

1. I cannot imagine that the screenplay dates are correct: the last meeting was May; the references are to August and November of the same year. They would have said "next year" otherwise. As ww points out, it would not be the only timeline difficulty in the screenplay. Anyway, it just seems ridiculous to me that they would have said goodbye in May  and Ennis hear nothing at all, say nothing at all until autumn of the following year. No, no, no.

2. I certainly think Cassie and Ennis had sex. I don't think Ennis lies to Jack (though Jack lies to Ennis). And Cassie is not a "nice girl" type who would stick around a reltionship a long time without sex... She just oozes sexuality, has Ennis give her a footrub right there in the bar...

3. Jack and Randall had known each other for approx five years. However, Jack may have waited some time before he began a sexual relationship with Randall. And maybe they just got together once or twice a year. And I don't think their relationship was emotionally that deep.

At the risk of sounding sexist, I think Ennis' (sort of) long-term affair with Cassie and Jack's (maybe sort of) long-term affair with Ranall show one of the differences between men and women. Women tend to make emotional commitments when they have sex; men, not so much.

 ~)  for the generalization.
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: tpe on Jul 05, 2006, 01:07 PM
I have a few rather humdrum things to say on this topic, referring to things mentioned upthread.

1. I cannot imagine that the screenplay dates are correct: the last meeting was May; the references are to August and November of the same year. They would have said "next year" otherwise. As ww points out, it would not be the only timeline difficulty in the screenplay. Anyway, it just seems ridiculous to me that they would have said goodbye in May  and Ennis hear nothing at all, say nothing at all until autumn of the following year. No, no, no.

2. I certainly think Cassie and Ennis had sex. I don't think Ennis lies to Jack (though Jack lies to Ennis). And Cassie is not a "nice girl" type who would stick around a reltionship a long time without sex... She just oozes sexuality, has Ennis give her a footrub right there in the bar...

3. Jack and Randall had known each other for approx five years. However, Jack may have waited some time before he began a sexual relationship with Randall. And maybe they just got together once or twice a year. And I don't think their relationship was emotionally that deep.

At the risk of sounding sexist, I think Ennis' (sort of) long-term affair with Cassie and Jack's (maybe sort of) long-term affair with Ranall show one of the differences between men and women. Women tend to make emotional commitments when they have sex; men, not so much.

 ~)  for the generalization.

Hello edgar.  To be sure, I think the screenplay timeline would probably suggested Fall for their last meeting, and not spring.  To wait for more than a year would have been improbable. I do think the old thread about the timeline does provide a reasonable set of deductions.  It would probably work, although it may not fit comfortably with many of us.

And yes, I do assume that Ennis and Cassie had sex.  It was certainly implied that such relations were accepted by both Ennis and Jack as something that did not eddanger their relationship.

Finally, I do agree that the relationship with Randall was a reluctant one.  Perhaps born out of desperation...



Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: browneyes on Jul 05, 2006, 01:15 PM
I agree with Tpe and Edgar. I think it took a while for Jack to even think about having sex with Randall. It's different than when he was in Mexico. And the way Randall came on to Jack so quickly made me think he was in it for sex too. He didn't even take the time to get to know Jack. He was just like "there's a little cabin". For all he knew Jack could've been a serial killer! I don't admire that at all. Thats why I don't think he really wanted to be with Jack 24/7. He didn't want to share a life with Jack (in my opinion). 
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: Mélanos on Jul 05, 2006, 01:28 PM
I have a few rather humdrum things to say on this topic, referring to things mentioned upthread.

  I don't think Ennis lies to Jack (though Jack lies to Ennis). 

I maybe a little provocative but I think that Jack NEVER lies to Ennis: he only says a part of the truth and let the other part unsaid. His questionable answers are always built in three movement. See, for instance, in the motel, after the questionof Ennis about the punch, Jack does not answer immediatly:
With Randall, it is exactly the same:
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: tpe on Jul 05, 2006, 01:49 PM
I have a few rather humdrum things to say on this topic, referring to things mentioned upthread.

  I don't think Ennis lies to Jack (though Jack lies to Ennis). 

I maybe a little provocative but I think that Jack NEVER lies to Ennis: he only says a part of the truth and let the other part unsaid. His questionable answers are always built in three movement. See, for instance, in the motel, after the questionof Ennis about the punch, Jack does not answer immediatly:
  • Swear to God I didn't know we was going to get into this again: that is the opposite of the truth, that is provocative!
  • Hell, Yes I did, Red lined it all the way... that is the truth.
  • Wat is unsaid is that Jack is afraid of Ennis after "that punch" and he will take care of what he says, he will say only what he think Ennis can hear
With Randall, it is exactly the same:
  • I kinda got a thing goin' with a ranch foreman's wife: that is the opposite of the truth but it what Ennis want to hear
  • sometimes I miss you so much... that is the truth
  • what is unsaid is probably not Randall which is of no importance, it is that Jack is afraid to be shot by Lureen: Jack tell the important thing within a joke and Ennis does not see it!

I think I know what you mean here.  Technically, people can argue that he was lying.   But you are right to point out that there is truth hidden just underneath the surface obfuscation.

 
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: edgar on Jul 05, 2006, 01:54 PM
Sorry, Melanos (and sorry I can't do the accent in your name), but Jack lies quite a bit.

He's still a vibrant, amazing  person with lots of great qualities, but he lies. Besides the examples you list above, he also says to Ennis: "I ain't (queer) either." [Ennis didn't know what he was saying; Jack did.]

If you want to go into the short story, in the motel Ennis says somehting like, "You ever think of doing it with another man?" and Jack, who had been riding more than bulls, said, "Hell no."

To paraphrase the sagacious *tpe*, we love them with their faults. And not just in spite of their faults, but because of their faults.

Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: Mélanos on Jul 05, 2006, 02:22 PM
Sorry, Melanos (and sorry I can't do the accent in your name), but Jack lies quite a bit.

He's still a vibrant, amazing  person with lots of great qualities, but he lies. Besides the examples you list above, he also says to Ennis: "I ain't (queer) either." [Ennis didn't know what he was saying; Jack did.]

If you want to go into the short story, in the motel Ennis says somehting like, "You ever think of doing it with another man?" and Jack, who had been riding more than bulls, said, "Hell no."

To paraphrase the sagacious *tpe*, we love them with their faults. And not just in spite of their faults, but because of their faults.



Thanks edgar... but I don't agree with you!
 Jack is a vibrant, amazing person, OK, but, above all, he is a very sensitive one and he always try to tell the truth of the desire, of the deep part of himself, he is never cheating. Jack talk, so he takes risk; Ennis, most of the time, does not say anything of himself, of his desire: that is easier. In the SS we see a very different Jack... a lier, always cheating and rather ugly: nothing to do with our Jack.
Ang Lee and Jake Gyllenhaal made a very rich and complex character (worth an Oscar, is not it?), Ang Lee always insist on this "they are innocents" i.e. they are children. You can't lie when you don't know the truth. On Brokeback Jack does not know his sexuality, so he does not lie, and Ennis no more! What Ennis says, it means "there will be no bond between us" and Jack agree, that is not a lie, that is a mistake.

Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: edgar on Jul 05, 2006, 03:16 PM
Okay, Melanos, we will agree to disagree...

We have profoundly different views of the film. I do not see Jack as an innocent.

Maybe when I was younger, I would have see him that way....
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 05, 2006, 03:24 PM
Don't agree - think Jack's much more worldly-wise/savvy than Ennis, and quite capable of lying if it suits him. "Who'd been riding more than bulls" gives that way.

As far as Edgar's "sexist" comment is concerned, I agree. Women pick up the slightest thing, tranlate it into a sign of commitment, let their emotions become engaged and start picking out a wedding dress and writing a list of guests. Men can ( don't always but can) simple screw; not without affection or liking perhaps, but without deep emotional commitment and certainly without any intention of making or implying anything long-term/permanent.

Which is why women complain that men are bastards and men complain that they can't understand women - "What did I say? What did I do? "
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: Mélanos on Jul 06, 2006, 12:09 PM
Thank you for your opinions and also for some beautiful words I didn't knew: obfuscation, thanks TPE, that is such a dark thing! and welshwitch thanks for savvy, that is savory! Welchwitch, that is a little gift for you, from Annie Proulx, a portrait of Jack:

"At first glance Jack seemed fair enough with his curly hair and quick laugh, but for a small man he carried some weight in the haunch and his smile disclosed buckteeth, non pronounced enough to let him eat popcorn out of the neck of a jug, but noticeable."

 Nice enough, is not it? but nothing to do with Jake/Jack!

And no I'm not OK with you Edgar and Welshwitch, men are not always like that! It is true that many men look only for sex but there is no love without bond... is not that the message of BBM? and they are men!
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: tpe on Jul 06, 2006, 12:52 PM
I think there is good exchange of ideas here.  It is certainly food for thought.  I find myself reassessing my view of Jack, in the light of the above opinions.  It makes you think.

Thanks everyone.

Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 06, 2006, 01:51 PM
Thank you, Melanos. Don't take any notice of me, I'm old and cynical. I wasn't implying that all men were the same, but I think many of them can dissociate sex from love, while rather fewer women can.

Obfuscation means covering things up, deliberately hiding things you don;t want others to see. The sort of thing governemnts do with information that does them no good so they try to hide it in a lot of words/ statistics/ jargon.
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: Mélanos on Jul 06, 2006, 02:05 PM
Thank you, Melanos. Don't take any notice of me, I'm old and cynical. I wasn't implying that all men were the same, but I think many of them can dissociate sex from love, while rather fewer women can.

Obfuscation means covering things up, deliberately hiding things you don;t want others to see. The sort of thing governemnts do with information that does them no good so they try to hide it in a lot of words/ statistics/ jargon.

O Welshwich, not so old and never so cynical... maybe you are a little too young, most of the men are cheating with their feeling, they try to ignore or they pretend not to care. In question of love, basicaly, they are cowards! Maybe, on the opposite, women are not carefull enought, they are dreamy, sometimes a little lost between dream and reality... Men are parlysed by fear and women blinded by the intensity of their feelings! ;D
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 07, 2006, 03:55 PM
Somewhere between recklessness and cowardice, then, it may be possible to find some equilibrium. If Ennis had retreated a little less determinedly and Jack had been a little less impetuous, by not leaving immediately after the divorce scene perhaps, then who knows?
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: Mélanos on Jul 07, 2006, 04:09 PM
Somewhere between recklessness and cowardice, then, it may be possible to find some equilibrium. If Ennis had retreated a little less determinedly and Jack had been a little less impetuous, by not leaving immediately after the divorce scene perhaps, then who knows?

They were crippled, little witch, half broken... Ennis is becoming more and more parano and Jack, of course he was quick, he saw his friend in pain, he thought he could be the cure and realise he was the cause... everything breaking down! They were children, the could not stand... Something hard is frome times to times necessary to grow up and become adult, and stand. Something that has to do with death.
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 08, 2006, 07:20 AM
Love and death, eternally linked and circling each other.
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: gimmejack on Jul 10, 2006, 07:15 AM
I choose to believe that Ennis was coming around.  Perhaps not too openly "out" but his actions where leading in that direction...very slowly! 
By keeping his daughter at arms length, just in case... by the break up w/ Cassie, the make up letter about November..."for you, november".  Most importantly, the make up letter was sent after he pretty much cut it off...saying he cant stand it no more.  Ennis is not the type to go back on his word.  Then to write Jack back saying, okay...I can stand it, lets meet up again...November... I dont want you goin back to Mexico Jack...I want to be the one to give you what you need.  He was giving in, then...CRASH  :\'(
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: Mélanos on Jul 10, 2006, 07:33 AM
I choose to believe that Ennis was coming around.  Perhaps not too openly "out" but his actions where leading in that direction...very slowly! 
By keeping his daughter at arms length, just in case... by the break up w/ Cassie, the make up letter about November..."for you, november".  Most importantly, the make up letter was sent after he pretty much cut it off...saying he cant stand it no more.  Ennis is not the type to go back on his word.  Then to write Jack back saying, okay...I can stand it, lets meet up again...November... I dont want you goin back to Mexico Jack...I want to be the one to give you what you need.  He was giving in, then...CRASH  :\'(

completly OK, sure he was! he could not have done otherway... he never had a word of breaking down with Jack, just that he could not stand it anymore... he was so worn out by his inner struggle... but he was driven to him, and nothing would have changed, or so few... Jack chose the only way to get out of this circle of misunderstanding: I think Ennis is going to follow: "see you in the morning... I swear you Jack!" Do you see sometimes in the sky Castor and Pollux? They were two young lovers of mythology, they are now together every night "anything interesting up there in heaven?"
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: gimmejack on Jul 10, 2006, 03:44 PM
This was the most peaceful scene to me...happily reunited under the heavens and stars.  Except for the No way part.
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: Mélanos on Jul 12, 2006, 02:17 AM
This was the most peaceful scene to me...happily reunited under the heavens and stars.  Except for the No way part.
Gimmejack, without the no way part BBM would have been a boring romance and Ennis would have been another man! He was not an easy one but don't forget Jack loved to have some sport, his passion was rodeo! In the end he decided to open himself, some will say it is too late, I don't...
Title: Re: This makes a lot of sense. Maybe Ennis was about to come around.
Post by: gimmejack on Jul 12, 2006, 03:55 AM
Of course it would have been a boring romance and...over.  It was a most peaceful scene...minus the "no way".