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Title: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: lamusica on Jan 22, 2007, 07:49 PM
How much of the meaning of BBM is in non-verbal form?
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: lamusica on Jan 22, 2007, 07:52 PM
After all our discussion on this forum, I have begun to wonder just how much of the meanings of the stories and the characters is found in non-verbal form.  How much is said by one riased eyebrow, one lick of the lips, etc.  I think so much comes through body language.  Is this Ang's superb direction?  Is it the innate ability of our boys and girls to act well?  Or is it due to something else?  I'd be interested in hearing what you think.
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: manhattangirl on Jan 23, 2007, 12:24 AM
Do you mean like in the very first scene:  There were no ones spoken,  but you could tell right away the personality of the two.  Ennis's withdrawn nature, and Jack's animated persona.   Ennis looks away from Jack, shoving his hands in pockets, almost afraid Jack would actually speak to him.   Jack looking straight at him. Leaning against the truck, confident as if saying "yeah check me out."   I love the way Jack stared at Ennis's reflection in the mirror while he was shaving.  (Was he shaving for Aguirre, doubt it ).  

You knew the personality of each man, in that first scene, and without a word spoken.  I'm not a film expert, I won't presume to comment of Ang Lee's directions.   We are not hit first with eventual heartbreaking story of these two men.  But are introduce to them as two men who total polar opposite of each other, and are guided through their ensuing friendship, and then their love for each other.
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: aintfoolin on Jan 23, 2007, 06:40 AM
Great thread lamusica! I am immediatley drawn to a study in non-verbal communication . It is SNIT. My fav.  Ennis finds the courage to enter the tent. His  tentative movements suggests nervousness to the max. He's really not sure how he would be received and then...OMG Jack places a comforting, accepting hand on his arm.  His eyes focus on Jack's for a few seconds then looks away. They convey a wanting like I've never seen. Saying to Jack that he wanted and needed to be led by him .  The eyes said it all. They said that Ennis wanted Jack to take him and just let him drown in his love. TO feel and discover freely these new found feelings. He is awaiting the let down, the judgement, the rejection. But instead his eyes search Jack's and sees  nothing but acceptance and love.with even imo a little surprise thrown in. A deeply touching scene,excellently communicated without words.
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Jan 23, 2007, 08:18 AM
Yes, thank lamusica for starting this thread.

I believ that the bulk of BBM is left pretty much unsaid.  Even the word LOVE is mentioned only twice -- at the end of the movie.  And yet, there was no doubt in our minds, I'm sure, that love was the force driving Ennis and Jack.

A lot of the FEAR is also very much implied.  The exception is of course the episode involving Earl and Rich.  And yet, throughout the movie, the tension of being found out and ostracized is ever present.

Lastly, SADNESS blankets the story all throughout, even in the scenes where we find them most happy.  Even in the scenes when they don't cry, we feel the transience of human happiness, even as they wordlessly acknowledge the power of lover over us all.


Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: jacks_key on Jan 23, 2007, 11:18 AM
Do you mean like in the very first scene:  There were no ones spoken,  but you could tell right away the personality of the two.  Ennis's withdrawn nature, and Jack's animated persona.   Ennis looks away from Jack, shoving his hands in pockets, almost afraid Jack would actually speak to him.   Jack looking straight at him. Leaning against the truck, confident as if saying "yeah check me out."   I love the way Jack stared at Ennis's reflection in the mirror while he was shaving.  (Was he shaving for Aguirre, doubt it ).  

You knew the personality of each man, in that first scene, and without a word spoken.  I'm not a film expert, I won't presume to comment of Ang Lee's directions.   We are not hit first with eventual heartbreaking story of these two men.  But are introduce to them as two men who total polar opposite of each other, and are guided through their ensuing friendship, and then their love for each other.

So true; you know right off the bat what type of people they are. 
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: lamusica on Jan 23, 2007, 12:14 PM
Manhattan girl, I never really thought about the opening scene being so important, but you are absolutely right, I feel.  The way Ennis and Jack walk tells they are different.  Ennis slouches when he walks; Jack walks more erectly and more purposefully.  Even something as simple as a walk can tell worlds about them.  The first looks they take at each other lead us to believe right off the bat that Ennis is distant, cool, doesn't want to make friends with anyone, is shy; whereas Jack in confrontational, wants to talk, wants to meet Ennis, is not shy, cares about his appearance (evident throughout the whole movie).  Good observation, MG.
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: lamusica on Jan 24, 2007, 02:15 PM
The very first time I saw the film, I was struck by the look in Alma's eyes when she opened the screendoor and saw the guys kissing.  She didn't do any of the things we might have expected: hand flying to her open-with-shock mouth, or hand to her broken heart, or go fying down the steps to confront them.  Instead, she did absolutely nothing.  Everything was said in her eyes.  I could feel her world crashing in on her at that moment of realization that there were things about Ennis that she didn't know and maybe didn't want to know.  These are the non-verbals that spell out the meaning of the story to me.
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Jan 24, 2007, 04:41 PM
The very first time I saw the film, I was struck by the look in Alma's eyes when she opened the screendoor and saw the guys kissing.  She didn't do any of the things we might have expected: hand flying to her open-with-shock mouth, or hand to her broken heart, or go fying down the steps to confront them.  Instead, she did absolutely nothing.  Everything was said in her eyes.  I could feel her world crashing in on her at that moment of realization that there were things about Ennis that she didn't know and maybe didn't want to know.  These are the non-verbals that spell out the meaning of the story to me.

It is interesting to note that in those intense scenes where nothing really is said, it is the music (la musica) that informs us of the emotional context, no?  Especially in this scene with Alma after she catches sight of Jack and Ennis kissing -- there is a lull and uncertainty in the melodic line (as if only a drone or a continuo in strings is heard) in that part where Alma tries to recover from what she had just seen.

There is one scene where there are words but no music, and theo words are completely at odds with what we see.  That scene is Jack's murder.  In the middle of that scene, we hear Ennis pause, precisely at the moment when Jack's face is being brutally crushed.  That scene and that silence is beyond music and words.

Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: manhattangirl on Jan 24, 2007, 04:53 PM
I've wondered about that too, if that was me I would be kicking Jack's butt, as my initial reaction.   But why didn't she say anything?   I can understand her,  she loved Ennis, had his children, lived in crappy places, only had the bare essentials, not even a washing machine, she scrub her clothes on a washboard, brilliant move convincing him to  move over the laundrymat.  She was married to him, and loved him.    Gees after all that, you  see your husband suck face with a guy outside your door.  Its enough to make you go insane.   It must have been like a gut-punch,  your dazed and confused, your trying to catch your breath. It was something so incomprehensible for her to deal with, its like waking up and seeing a green sky.  

Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Jan 24, 2007, 04:57 PM
I've wondered about that too, if that was me I would be kicking Jack's butt, as my initial reaction.   But why didn't she say anything?   I can understand her,  she loved Ennis, had his children, lived in crappy places, only had the bare essentials, not even a washing machine, she scrub her clothes on a washboard, brilliant move convincing him to  move over the laundrymat.  She was married to him, and loved him.    Gees after all that, you  see your husband suck face with a guy outside your door.  Its enough to make you go insane.   It must have been like a gut-punch,  your dazed and confused, your trying to catch your breath. It was something so incomprehensible for her to deal with, its like waking up and seeing a green sky.  

I suspect that it was completely beyond her comprehension.  It was like seeing a Martian, I suppose.  Her brain had no way of processing what she saw.  Her defense mechanism seemed to have been to pretend that she had seen nothing -- and I think her silence must have taken a horrendous toll on her.  It made her all the more bitter.  It made the hate deep inside grow.



Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: lamusica on Jan 24, 2007, 07:43 PM
It is interesting to note that in those intense scenes where nothing really is said, it is the music (la musica) that informs us of the emotional context, no?  Especially in this scene with Alma after she catches sight of Jack and Ennis kissing -- there is a lull and uncertainty in the melodic line (as if only a drone or a continuo in strings is heard) in that part where Alma tries to recover from what she had just seen.

There is one scene where there are words but no music, and theo words are completely at odds with what we see.  That scene is Jack's murder.  In the middle of that scene, we hear Ennis pause, precisely at the moment when Jack's face is being brutally crushed.  That scene and that silence is beyond music and words.



I have never noticed the music in either of these scenes.  I am so caught up in the tragedy of both of them, that the visuals have overridden the audio in my mind.  This gives me another excuse to watch BBM again ( as if I needed an excuse!) LOL
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: chameau on Jan 24, 2007, 10:38 PM
Interesting thread indeed.

There is one scene who impressed me from the first viewing and all the viewings afterwards... The phone call, I mean Ennis calling Lureen.  Lureen all of a sudden teary eyes relating Jack's death and this scne ending with this polite, but cold as snow voice.  She knew who was calling and she knew WHO was Ennis don't you think?  Anne was under rated for this scene IMO.
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Jan 25, 2007, 08:11 AM
I have never noticed the music in either of these scenes.  I am so caught up in the tragedy of both of them, that the visuals have overridden the audio in my mind.  This gives me another excuse to watch BBM again ( as if I needed an excuse!) LOL

It is interesting that the two-note theme that begins the entire movie is an obvious leitmotif  for BBM and the love between Ennis and Jack.  When the scene moves back to Ennis and Jack after Alma sees them kiss, we hear this 2-note leitmotif.  Words have become unnecessary, and only the two notes suffice to fill us emotionally.

The same goes at the end of the scene where Ennis received the first postcard.   After he says "We were fishing buddies" to Alma, he walks away, and there is a momentary silence before we hear -- after  a long absence -- the same 2-note motif.  Again, the boundary between silence and music is skillfully managed such that no words were necessary.

Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Jan 25, 2007, 08:17 AM
Interesting thread indeed.

There is one scene who impressed me from the first viewing and all the viewings afterwards... The phone call, I mean Ennis calling Lureen.  Lureen all of a sudden teary eyes relating Jack's death and this scne ending with this polite, but cold as snow voice.  She knew who was calling and she knew WHO was Ennis don't you think?  Anne was under rated for this scene IMO.

Yes!  The acting and the unspoken meanings underneath this entire scene were so subtle that I would not be surprised that the masjority of the viewers didn't catch it.  I think this is both the strength and weakness of BBM: it demands much from the viewer in filling out and grasping the unspoken meanings that the average viewer -- interested only in a few hours of brainless entertainment -- is confused or at least caught of-guard.  When someone says he found BBM "boring", I know immediately that the movies this guy watches would not be of any interest to me....

Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: lamusica on Jan 25, 2007, 03:12 PM
Interesting thread indeed.

There is one scene who impressed me from the first viewing and all the viewings afterwards... The phone call, I mean Ennis calling Lureen.  Lureen all of a sudden teary eyes relating Jack's death and this scne ending with this polite, but cold as snow voice.  She knew who was calling and she knew WHO was Ennis don't you think?  Anne was under rated for this scene IMO.

This is one of my favorites, also.  Lureen tried to keep the tears from falling while talking with Ennis.  Her eyes darted to her left in an effort to contain the tears.  This indicated to me that her feelings for Jack were much deeper than we may have suspected.  You don't cry for someone you don't care about.  Hearing Ennis and knowing he was a friend of Jack's, brought Jack back to her and she teared up.  She must have loved him to some degree and certainly missed him.  (And I do not think she fully realised what the two men meant to each other. -Just my opinion.)
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: lamusica on Jan 25, 2007, 03:15 PM
It is interesting that the two-note theme that begins the entire movie is an obvious leitmotif  for BBM and the love between Ennis and Jack.  When the scene moves back to Ennis and Jack after Alma sees them kiss, we hear this 2-note leitmotif. 



Do you realise that none of us brokies will ever hear those two notes in any context without thinking of BBM?  They are so ingrained in us.  To me, they are the saddest, most mournful two notes in the world.  I tear up when I hear them.  AHHHH, the power of music.
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Jan 25, 2007, 03:16 PM
Do you realise that none of us brokies will ever hear those two notes in any context without thinking of BBM?  They are so ingrained in us.  To me, they are the saddest, most mournful two notes in the world.  I tear up when I hear them.  AHHHH, the power of music.

And it's wordless, no?  And yet to us, it says everything. 
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: jackster on Jan 25, 2007, 05:06 PM
ENNIS’S RAISED EYEBROW
Jack - “Unless you want to tie knots all day”
Ennis looks right at the camera (i.e. audience) and flexes his eyebrow. Only point in the film, I think, where anyone looks directly into the camera’s eye when no one is supposed to be at that point of view. He’s looking at YOU. What’s Ennis thinking? To me it’s “What’s the story with this guy? Mr. Know It All”. No words, just a small inflection of a beautiful eyebrow says what he’s thinking.
jackster
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Jan 25, 2007, 05:52 PM
Coupled to the above is the scene when Jack gulps and tigtens his jaw as he peels spuds and sees Ennis undress from the corner of his eye...

Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: lamusica on Jan 26, 2007, 03:07 PM
Jack's face is so emotive in so many scenes.  When he drives away from Ennis after coming all that way to see Ennis after his divorce and we see him crying in the truck on his way to Mexico, the way he wipes away the tears and flicks them to the side made me think their relatiionship was going to change soon.  It was as if Jack said, "The hell with this crap.  I don't mean anything to him.  It's over."  Of course, that didn't happen.  Still, I think it was the first time I saw some real dissatisfaction with their whole situation on Jack's part.  Kind of the first time Jack indicated he was getting tired of this meeting a few times per year out in nowhere land
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Jan 26, 2007, 03:26 PM
Jack's face is so emotive in so many scenes.  When he drives away from Ennis after coming all that way to see Ennis after his divorce and we see him crying in the truck on his way to Mexico, the way he wipes away the tears and flicks them to the side made me think their relatiionship was going to change soon.  It was as if Jack said, "The hell with this crap.  I don't mean anything to him.  It's over."  Of course, that didn't happen.  Still, I think it was the first time I saw some real dissatisfaction with their whole situation on Jack's part.  Kind of the first time Jack indicated he was getting tired of this meeting a few times per year out in nowhere land

In this scene, Jack's heart grew hard.  There were tears and determination in his eyes.  No amount of words can do as well as it was realized in this heartbreaking scene.

Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: welshwitch on Jan 26, 2007, 04:21 PM
The same holds true of the following scene, where he walks into the alleyway in Mexico, towards the man he's going to allow to pick him up. There's a look on his face as he walks away from the square that illustrates perfectly the expression "the iron entered his soul".
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Jan 26, 2007, 05:03 PM
The same holds true of the following scene, where he walks into the alleyway in Mexico, towards the man he's going to allow to pick him up. There's a look on his face as he walks away from the square that illustrates perfectly the expression "the iron entered his soul".

I love that expression.  With Jack, it is as if he carried in his heart his love for Ennis with an iron yoke.

Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: chameau on Jan 26, 2007, 10:59 PM
The grocery scene, when Ennis takes the girls to Alma because he has to go to work.

Ennis:  I can't afford to be there when them heifers calve.  Be my job if I lose any of 'em.

Alma:  What about my job?

Then, there is some look on Ennis face and Alma gives up.  From the very first viewing this scene amazed me.  This is one strong unspoken meaning of Ennis I would say.
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: welshwitch on Jan 27, 2007, 01:26 PM
I've always thought he looked almost murderous at that point - clearly he didn't need to say any more; just the expression on his face was enough to make Alma back down. For me it ties up with the "those things I don't know...." comment where he appears to be threatening to kill Jack or get him killed. Ennis has a strong streak of violence in his makeup - look at the July 4th and Thanksgiving sequences.
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: lamusica on Jan 27, 2007, 08:57 PM
Yes, I've always felt that look of Ennis's was all it took to get his way with Alma.  She recognised something in that look and responded just as he wanted her to.  She gave in.  Was she afraid of him becoming violent?  I don't think so.  But, it WAS a reminder to her to stay in her place -- the subservient wife.  His job was more important to the family (in his opinion and that of society at that time), so her job had to some second.  His look reminded her of her place in their marriage -- definitely less important than the husband -- him.
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Jan 29, 2007, 10:00 AM
The grocery scene, when Ennis takes the girls to Alma because he has to go to work.

Ennis:  I can't afford to be there when them heifers calve.  Be my job if I lose any of 'em.

Alma:  What about my job?

Then, there is some look on Ennis face and Alma gives up.  From the very first viewing this scene amazed me.  This is one strong unspoken meaning of Ennis I would say.

Wonderful!!!

Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Jan 29, 2007, 10:04 AM
Yes, I've always felt that look of Ennis's was all it took to get his way with Alma.  She recognised something in that look and responded just as he wanted her to.  She gave in.  Was she afraid of him becoming violent?  I don't think so.  But, it WAS a reminder to her to stay in her place -- the subservient wife.  His job was more important to the family (in his opinion and that of society at that time), so her job had to some second.  His look reminded her of her place in their marriage -- definitely less important than the husband -- him.

I had thought that his look was not particularly angry.  But I did feel that he was challenging her to say that her job was more important than his own job.  It was a matter of pride, I suppose.  Alma probably realized the implications and backed down.  It must have been a touchy thing -- especially if Alma was the source of much of their income.

I had assumed that by moving to town, Ennnis had compromised with Alma, and this meant that he was further from the ranches where he worked.  He therefore expected that Alma would acknowledge the sacrifice by being cooperative whenever he was called out to work...

Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: jackster on Jan 29, 2007, 05:07 PM
I've always thought he looked almost murderous at that point

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I'd always thought this scene was just a kind of pleading look until you said this, so I went back and reviewed the scene (tough work) and by gosh you're right! There's actually TWO looks here, the first is his wide-eyed pleading look (oh, Ennis), then when Alma says "What about my job", his eyes narrow and he takes on the violent Ennis look (aka, biker scene, all them things I don't know scene, etc.). Man, Heath how'd you do that! Really, subtle but it all comes across with great beauty.

jackster
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: CrimsonSky on Jan 30, 2007, 06:24 PM
It is interesting to note that in those intense scenes where nothing really is said, it is the music (la musica) that informs us of the emotional context, no?  Especially in this scene with Alma after she catches sight of Jack and Ennis kissing -- there is a lull and uncertainty in the melodic line (as if only a drone or a continuo in strings is heard) in that part where Alma tries to recover from what she had just seen.

I'd never really noticed the music in that scene before, but I've just watched it again, and you're so right. I don't know what the technical term for it would be, but it sounds like a kind of "spinning" sound (I can't think of a way to describe it properly) similar to what I imagine Alma would be feeling, like her head was spinning and her world was spiralling out of control. Maybe that's why I never noticed the music, cause it's so much part of the scene...it's another example of the subtleties in the film, and how all the elements of the scenes blend together so well and make everything so real and intense.

Another unspoken moment I just adore is after Ennis says "That's the most I've spoke in a year", and there's a pause while Ennis's words sink in, and they're both lost in their thoughts, but thinking the same thing, realising what a huge deal it is for Ennis to have opened up like that, and what it means that it's Jack he's opened up to. Jack is just so pleased to see that Ennis likes and trusts him enough to confide in him, and Ennis is pleased to have found someone who he can trust and feel comfortable enough to talk to, it's such a sweet moment, both of them silently acknowledging the connection between them  <^( But then Ennis shifts uncomfortably and seems kind of puzzled, or maybe even a bit scared by it too, as if he's wondering what it is about Jack that made him open up to him, and he's worried about what the answer might be. Ennnis then changes the subject back round to the rodeo thing, and the moment is lost, but that silent pause shows them both realising that their feelings for each other were growing deeper <^(
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Jan 30, 2007, 06:31 PM
I'd never really noticed the music in that scene before, but I've just watched it again, and you're so right. I don't know what the technical term for it would be, but it sounds like a kind of "spinning" sound (I can't think of a way to describe it properly) similar to what I imagine Alma would be feeling, like her head was spinning and her world was spiralling out of control. Maybe that's why I never noticed the music, cause it's so much part of the scene...it's another example of the subtleties in the film, and how all the elements of the scenes blend together so well and make everything so real and intense.

Another unspoken moment I just adore is after Ennis says "That's the most I've spoke in a year", and there's a pause while Ennis's words sink in, and they're both lost in their thoughts, but thinking the same thing, realising what a huge deal it is for Ennis to have opened up like that, and what it means that it's Jack he's opened up to. Jack is just so pleased to see that Ennis likes and trusts him enough to confide in him, and Ennis is pleased to have found someone who he can trust and feel comfortable enough to talk to, it's such a sweet moment, both of them silently acknowledging the connection between them  <^( But then Ennis shifts uncomfortably and seems kind of puzzled, or maybe even a bit scared by it too, as if he's wondering what it is about Jack that made him open up to him, and he's worried about what the answer might be. Ennnis then changes the subject back round to the rodeo thing, and the moment is lost, but that silent pause shows them both realising that their feelings for each other were growing deeper <^(


That was a wonderful silence.  It was the first true admission of intimacy, no?  I had the impression that both of them relished that moment. 

A related silence in the same scene is when Ennis tells Jack how his dad never thought much of rodeo cowboys -- all this time, Jack takes a swig of the whiskey, but we see his quizzical eyes.  Then, right before he does his rodeo impersonation, we also have a silence that is a bit tense.  The release was so heartwarming.  :)

Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: CrimsonSky on Jan 30, 2007, 07:03 PM
That was a wonderful silence.  It was the first true admission of intimacy, no?  I had the impression that both of them relished that moment. 

A related silence in the same scene is when Ennis tells Jack how his dad never thought much of rodeo cowboys -- all this time, Jack takes a swig of the whiskey, but we see his quizzical eyes.  Then, right before he does his rodeo impersonation, we also have a silence that is a bit tense.  The release was so heartwarming.  :)



I have to say I never thought of that silence as being tense, I thought it was just Jack teasing Ennis, making him think he'd offended Jack, but either way, I love Jack fooling around and making Ennis laugh, it's such a rare sight to see them having fun :)
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: aintfoolin on Jan 30, 2007, 08:52 PM
I'm wondering about another of my fav scenes. It's the scene with the bear . When Jack tries to help Ennis by placing his scarf on his injured head , Ennis takes it away and does it himself and there is a pause on Jack;s part where he just stares at Ennis for a moment. Any explainations on what's up with this? Jack seemed kind of hurt that Ennis would'nt let him help.I think Ennis could have been a little more grateful. I know he was hurt but..wtf?
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: welshwitch on Jan 30, 2007, 11:18 PM
I wondered if maybe that was his first overt caring gesture and he'd hoped there would be a more favorable response from Ennis. The way Ennis pushed  his hand way showed how difficult it was going to be to approach him. And what could Jack say? "It's all right, I'm only trying to touch you" ? If he'd said "I was just trying to help" it would have sounded petulant and childish. Just for once I don;t think Jack knows what to say.
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Jan 31, 2007, 10:36 AM
I have to say I never thought of that silence as being tense, I thought it was just Jack teasing Ennis, making him think he'd offended Jack, but either way, I love Jack fooling around and making Ennis laugh, it's such a rare sight to see them having fun :)

It's funny to realize that a connection between them had been made in this scene, and yet nothing explicit about this in this scene.

I think it was Jack's eyes narrowing down that gave me a sense of tension.  What Ennis said could have been taken as an insult by someone less atuned to the context.  Certainly, the way Ennis looked after Jack said "Is that so" (or something like this) revealed that Ennis was indeed teasing Jack. 
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: jacks_key on Jan 31, 2007, 11:28 AM
^^That is such a cute, sweet scene.  I love when Jack starts clowning to make Ennis laugh.   <^(
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: lamusica on Jan 31, 2007, 08:24 PM
That was a wonderful silence.  It was the first true admission of intimacy, no?  I had the impression that both of them relished that moment. 

A related silence in the same scene is when Ennis tells Jack how his dad never thought much of rodeo cowboys -- all this time, Jack takes a swig of the whiskey, but we see his quizzical eyes.  Then, right before he does his rodeo impersonation, we also have a silence that is a bit tense.  The release was so heartwarming.  :)



I don't see Jack's look in that way at all.  I think it is momentary aggravation ( the silence).  I think Jack is weighing what Ennis means by that remark of his dad's and is deciding how to react.  He chooses silliness and proceeds with acting goofy.  His other choice, which I think he was considering, was getting major pissed at the insult.  He rejected that idea and went with the playful reaction.  There's something in Jack's eyes that makes me see the scene this way.  They get cold for a second -- distant -- while he weighs his options.  (IMHO)
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: lamusica on Jan 31, 2007, 08:28 PM
I wondered if maybe that was his first overt caring gesture and he'd hoped there would be a more favorable response from Ennis. The way Ennis pushed  his hand way showed how difficult it was going to be to approach him. And what could Jack say? "It's all right, I'm only trying to touch you" ? If he'd said "I was just trying to help" it would have sounded petulant and childish. Just for once I don;t think Jack knows what to say.
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I agree with your interpretation,WW.  I see it, too, as the first attempt at intimacy on Jack's part.  Ennis is skittish- not used to affection - not used to being helped or touched, perhaps?  The scene also shows Ennis's temper.  He could have been nicer at Jack's attempt tp help him, but he was still PO'd at Jack's attack when he first arrived back at camp (Where the hell ya been, Ennis?)
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: aintfoolin on Jan 31, 2007, 09:43 PM
Yeah, but Jack was  only concerned for his saftey, and was was a little angry thinking Ennis had deserted him and any other horrible situation imaginable probably went through his mind. When he saw that Ennis was hurt, ( which Ennis made sure he did) He immediately tried to tend to em. Ennis was being an ass. He tasks me. Soon after this is when they traded jobs which was good.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: lamusica on Feb 01, 2007, 12:41 AM
Yeah, but Jack was  only concerned for his saftey, and was was a little angry thinking Ennis had deserted him and any other horrible situation imaginable probably went through his mind. When he saw that Ennis was hurt, ( which Ennis made sure he did) He immediately tried to tend to em. Ennis was being an ass. He tasks me. Soon after this is when they traded jobs which was good. 


Yes, I believe Jack just wanted to help Ennis, but in the long view, as we analyze the movie, I think this can be seen as an overture towards closing the gap between the two men.  When you minister to someone who is hurt, you get closer to them.  I think that Jack wanted to help Ennis, but he also wanted to show concern and empathy; however, Ennis wasn't ready for that.       

Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Feb 01, 2007, 08:52 AM
I had just written a short post in another thread relating to the almost wordless Dozy embrace.

Is there not a whole world of meaning attached to this scene?  We who knew the story beforehand appreciated how the cinematic version captured so beautifully Proulx's wonderful description of Jack's reminiscence.  For those of us who were not familiar with the short dtory beforehand, was the meaning of this scene transparent?

So few words; and in the midst of this scene: an ecstatic wordless quiet reigns.


Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: lamusica on Feb 01, 2007, 02:37 PM
I know this was discussed in another thread, also, but it is Ennis's looking at Jack in the dozy embrace scene that does me in.  He is looking at him sideways, is fully aware of who it is he is holding, and sings to him.  That look says it all to me.  Also, when Ennis leaves Jack after holding him, Jack turns around and watches Ennis mount and ride off.  He can't break the reverie; he's not ready to let Ennis go.  This indicates to me the satisfaction he got from being held by Ennis, as if that didn't happen too often.  Jack wanted and welcomed the affection of that embrace besides the heat of actual intercourse.  Jack was IN LOVE with ENNIs at this point, for sure.
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Feb 01, 2007, 02:42 PM
I know this was discussed in another thread, also, but it is Ennis's looking at Jack in the dozy embrace scene that does me in.  He is looking at him sideways, is fully aware of who it is he is holding, and sings to him.  That look says it all to me.  Also, when Ennis leaves Jack after holding him, Jack turns around and watches Ennis mount and ride off.  He can't break the reverie; he's not ready to let Ennis go.  This indicates to me the satisfaction he got from being held by Ennis, as if that didn't happen too often.  Jack wanted and welcomed the affection of that embrace besides the heat of actual intercourse.  Jack was IN LOVE with ENNIs at this point, for sure.

Yes, most of the time, we see Jack caressing or touching Ennis, but the Dozy Embrace is special.

Incidentally, there is that scene when Jack touches Ennis's face at the end scene of the Reunion fishing trip.  There is no dialogue between the two of them -- just the film music.  That quiet moment is so intense.  Nothing said, but the full meaning is so clear...



Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: jackster on Feb 01, 2007, 05:54 PM
But the Dozy Embrace is special.

Very Special. Possibly full of more unspoken meanings than any other scene in the movie. At the risk of being repetitive, see this great slo-mo YouTube clip which combines the Embrace with the very music that Annie Proulx said inspired her description of this scene. You'll watch it a hundred times.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yi6i8bfwV-w (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yi6i8bfwV-w)

jackster
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Feb 01, 2007, 05:58 PM
Very Special. Possibly full of more unspoken meanings than any other scene in the movie. At the risk of being repetitive, see this great slo-mo YouTube clip which combines the Embrace with the very music that Annie Proulx said inspired her description of this scene. You'll watch it a hundred times.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yi6i8bfwV-w (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yi6i8bfwV-w)

jackster

Yes, I did see that clip.  The music is quite different from the one in the film, but I feel that both understood the essence of that scene.   "Spiritual" is almost like a wordless mantra -- it reflects the trance-like stillness of the embrace.

 
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: jacks_key on Feb 01, 2007, 07:39 PM
Very Special. Possibly full of more unspoken meanings than any other scene in the movie. At the risk of being repetitive, see this great slo-mo YouTube clip which combines the Embrace with the very music that Annie Proulx said inspired her description of this scene. You'll watch it a hundred times.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yi6i8bfwV-w (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yi6i8bfwV-w)

jackster

That was just...beautiful.   :\'(
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: lamusica on Feb 01, 2007, 07:42 PM


Incidentally, there is that scene when Jack touches Ennis's face at the end scene of the Reunion fishing trip.  There is no dialogue between the two of them -- just the film music.  That quiet moment is so intense.  Nothing said, but the full meaning is so clear...


I just can't place this scene. Is this another reason to watch the DVD again??????




Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: NoReins on Feb 02, 2007, 03:27 AM
Incidentally, there is that scene when Jack touches Ennis's face at the end scene of the Reunion fishing trip.  There is no dialogue between the two of them -- just the film music.  That quiet moment is so intense.  Nothing said, but the full meaning is so clear...

Oh I love that little bit of affection from Jack after Ennis tells him "long as we can ride it...ain't no reins on this one". It's normally Ennis who says things with gestures and touches rather than words but here Jack gets his feelings across perfectly without ever saying a word. It's like the physical version of the SNIT "s'alright"....Jack "saying" to Ennis it's ok, I understand. I know you feel the same way as me but what you saw as a child stops you from being able to live it. I'll take those few meetings a year in the middle of nowhere because I can't live without you.
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Feb 02, 2007, 08:32 AM

I just can't place this scene. Is this another reason to watch the DVD again??????


NoReins . look at NoReins post above this one.  It situates this scene beautifully.

 
Title: Re: Unspoken meanings in BBM
Post by: tpe on Feb 02, 2007, 08:36 AM
Oh I love that little bit of affection from Jack after Ennis tells him "long as we can ride it...ain't no reins on this one". It's normally Ennis who says things with gestures and touches rather than words but here Jack gets his feelings across perfectly without ever saying a word. It's like the physical version of the SNIT "s'alright"....Jack "saying" to Ennis it's ok, I understand. I know you feel the same way as me but what you saw as a child stops you from being able to live it. I'll take those few meetings a year in the middle of nowhere because I can't live without you.

NoReins, you said this so beautifully that I am  :\'(

Don't forget the way Ennis receives the caresses.  He bows his head slightly and seems to savour the moment.  Encouraged, Jack repaeats the gesture more forcefully, almost nudging Ennis with his hand...

Again, the scene goes beyond words.  This is what I mean when I posted at the American Film Institute thread that BBM's beauty lies in everything that is not said.