I have just read the marvelously long but very 'in-depth' explanation of Jack's death written by Jack_ME (on the pervious page) and I can just about start to cry. Until now, I've not come across anyone who could put down in such a clear and understandable manner, my thoughts exactly! Thank you Jack_ME! Wonderfully put, and I agree with you wholeheartedly. My words exactly!
Just a few additional thoughts:
Considering the historical context in which Annie Proulx wrote her short story dealing with male homosexuality (cowboys or not!) in the 'time frame' of America in just that exact 20 year range...it would be simply ludicrous for us to even surmise that Jack's death was purely 'accidental'. In fact, by doing so, would create a disappointing 'anti-climax to this poignant tale, which I am sure, is not the original intention of this wonderfully brave and inspiring writer.
Anyone getting killed in such a vile and hateful manner is not the stuff most people would want to hear about in 'graphic' detail. We always try our best to keep things 'sanitary' and 'acceptable' when speaking of such disdainful subjects... "But the truth is..." such useless acts of human hate and violence have always existed (continue to exist?). And sadly...even more often than not, in that 'All-American Epic Cowboy Milieu' that Ennis and Jack lived in.
Everything in Proulx's short story, McMurty and Ossana's screenplay, and Lee's film, slowly, but intelligently lead up to this. All three gently, but skillfully broach the subject in such a way that both forces us to open up our eyes and forces us to think about such a contemptful situation.
And in real life, the tragic death of Matthew Shepard in Wyoming and the now ongoing backlash of 'anti-Brokeback Mountain/anti-homosexual film' leading up to the Oscars of 2006 are certainly proof of this... :'(
My personal thoughts on Lureen, is as follows...
I agree with several of the previous postings...I believe that she (in her own way), truly loved Jack. Certainly not in the same way that that Ennis did/does....but...
If she didn't, the marriage would have broken up a long time ago. Lureen is presented to us as a strong and willful type of gal who actively 'gets up and goes' for what she wants. ( "What're you waitin' for? A mating call?" & "You don't think I'm too fast, do you?"). Also, she came from a well-to-do family (hundred thousand dollar tractors), and was used to getting what she wanted. It would be out-of-character for her to have stayed married to Jack for such a long time, if she didn't love him. She didn't come across to me as the type that would simply just lay down and willfully accept a 'goddamn bitch of an unsatisfactory situation'...
It amazes me to discover that so many of you found her to be 'cold' and a 'snow queen'. I've watched the entire film more than 10 times now, and I never got that impression. My feelings are that she was simply a woman who loved the man 'Jack'. Quietly, yet dearly, and of course sadly.... Like Ennis said to Jack earlier in the film about Alma: "...it's not her fault."...it was also not Lureen's fault that she loved a man who could only give her 'so much'... She was just a woman in love with Jack trying to make the best of what she had...with what Jack could give her... Life doesn't always give us what we want. Lureen might have wanted more, but she made do with what she had. She might not have been thoroughly "HAPPY" about it, but she accepted Jack for who he was, and let him visit Ennis throughout the years...
Her lifeless and 'seemingly' cold tone of voice in that last telephone conversation with Ennis, was in my opinion just her way of protecting herself from the pain and sadness she felt over Jack's tragic ending. (Which also signifies the ending of her own love of many, many years for a man who could only love her back 'so much'...) She had this 'prepared speech' of what she would say to anyone inquiring of his death....and would deliver it automatically, almost robot-like to anyone that would ask. You see, I am sure, that many people besides Ennis, would have wanted to know from her, how Jack died...
In the phone conversation with Ennis, she begins her 'prepared speech' in the cold and automated manner she was accustomed to, but when she finally realizes who she really has on the other side of the phone line ("Well ma'am, we ...we was herdin' sheep on Brokeback one summer. Back in '63")....she let's out the first small, almost inaudible gasp, and her eyes only then, slowly start to fill with tears...
The text which follows is poignant as it is an extremely good example of how people often refuse to say what they really mean...fumbling around by saying one thing...but really meaning 'another'. For us to really understand what is being said...we have to very carefully 'read between the lines'...
Ennis says: "Well ma'am, we...we was herdin' sheep on Brokeback one summer. Back in '63."
Meaning: "I'm Ennis. "The" Ennis from Brokeback Mountain, you know...(the one Jack loved all these years...)"
Lureen let's out a small gasp meaning: "Oh, so YOU are Ennis! Jack's secret love..."
Lureen says: "Well, he said it was his favorite place...I thought he meant to get drunk. He drank alot."
Meaning: "Brokeback Mountain was his favorite place... it was his favorite place to see you. He loved seeing you. You were his favorite...He loved you."
Ennis says: "Well, I thank you for your time...I sure am sorry...We was good friends..."
Meaning: "Thank you for 'telling' me that he loved me...I know that you loved him too and that his death is ALSO a great loss for you too. I surely did love him..."
Here, Lureen lets out her second small gasp meaning: "It's hard for me to accept that I was 'second place'...but okay, I know that you loved him too."
Her eyes saturate to the brim with tears...
And...in an extremely difficult, but unselfish way, she FORCES herself to say the following:
Lureen says: "Get in touch with his folks...I suppose they'd appreciate it if his wishes was carried out...'bout the ashes, I mean..."
Meaning: "I KNOW what Jack must have meant to you. I understand how BAD this is for you. Visit his folks...'bout his ashes...it might be but a small thing, but it might somehow help you to grieve..."
She then slams the phone back on the hook. Not in anger...but because it took every ounce of her strength and willpower to say all that needed to be said to Ennis (Jack's Main Love) during this extremely difficult last few minutes of the conversation. She has made the grand gesture of telling Ennis to get in touch with Jack's folks... And finally, the effort simply overwhelms her with emotion, and she ends it to stop feeling the pain. There's nothing more to be said. She has said everything of importance. And so has Ennis...
Each must now go their separate ways to deal with Jacks death...each of them, alone. Each of them lonely and filled with grief.
Sam: "God! The perfection in this film....it overwhelms me...!!!!"
Brokeback Mountain...I Love You!