Hi, All ~
I absolutely agree with Jamie's interpretation of the wrestling scene on BBM. In fact, I was rather confused by the tenderness Ennis displays toward Alma both when they get married (he takes her face in his hand before kissing her) and during sledding (when he puts snow on her head and laughs). Was that the only time he smiled with her? I still don't have the script-movie copy yet, so I haven't read the motivations. I really do want to read the script, because the move adds so much (well, obviously), but some scenes, to me, run counter to the emotional personas created in the short story.
In terms of guessing about Ennis' emotions, the fight at the July 4th picnic, as well as Ennis' determination to hand off of the girls at the grocery store, both elicited frightened looks from Alma, which also made me wonder whether Ennis showed a temper at home. Not a stretch, considering the way he grabs Alma's wrist in the kitchen after Thanksgiving. His threat to her, in the ss, was much stronger, that he would make her and her new husband "eat the floor" or something to that effect. However, the girls never seemed scared of him at all.