I have see a lot of gay films, both American and Non-American, and the only one I can think of that depicts gay people in a non-urban setting has been Deliverance (a what a blessing it was-not) until now. Oprah pointed out in her interview that there was not one swish, not one lisp in the whole movie, and she is right. I think one of the positive points of the film is its depiction of average people caught in an extraordinary situation.
Never did they say they loved each other, not that they had to.