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BBM released in Singapore
« on: Feb 09, 2006, 12:16 AM »
Singapore is a tiny island sandwiched between south of Malaysia Peninsula and Indonesia. Though small, its a very cosmopolitan and at the same time conservative society. Gay sex is illegal but seldom enforced. Singapore used to belong to Malaysia but is now a sovereign country.

What I understand from my friends is that BBM has been passed uncut  :D, given that gay movies in the past have either been banned or severely censored, especially on man-to-man kissing and simulated homo sex scenes, despite given a "restricted Artistic aged 21 only" rating which means only audience aged 21 years and above are permitted. Such movies are only allowed to be shown in the Central Business District.

BBM has started yesterday with an AIDS charity event and will continue with sneaks this weekend. It opens officially next Thursday. It is expected to draw huge crowds given the huge success in Taiwan. One distributor initially signed on with one screen but given the hype and success, 2 more distributors have signed on, greatly increasing the number of screens.

Will let you guys know how it does.
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« Reply #1 on: Feb 09, 2006, 06:40 PM »
Thank you for posting this, cybernaut. Please do keep us updated.  :)
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« Reply #2 on: Feb 10, 2006, 10:27 AM »
9 screens will be showing BBM sneaks this weekend.

A gay Asian portal website, Fridae.com hosted a charity event for Action For AIDS in Singapore on Wednesday, Feb 9th.
This is their report:

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Brokeback Mountain charity screening raises S$25,000 for AfA
By News Editor
 
More than 700 people were the first in Singapore to watch acclaimed Taiwanese director Ang Lee’s tale of two cowboys who fell in love in the mountains of Wyoming. 
   
Organised by Fridae, the Brokeback Mountain charity screeningheld on Wednesday night raised S$25,000 (US$15,300) for Action For AIDS. The film was named best film and bagged three other awards at the 63rd Annual Golden Globe Awards held in Beverly Hills in January.

The 17-year-old non-governmental organisation provides S$60,000 a year to help patients access anti-retroviral therapy. The monies raised will go towards its Medical Subsidies Fund and supporting the education and MSM Counseling program.

Assoc Prof Roy Chan, President of AfA, said: “Action for AIDS is very grateful for the generous and spontaneous support from private individuals and organisations in the battle against AIDS and against stigma and discrimination. Tonight's full house at the gala premiere of Brokeback Mountain is hopefully an indication that community spirit and interest in confronting difficult issues is alive and well.”

Asia’s largest gay and lesbian network, Fridae is “proud to support the pioneering work that Action for AIDS does in keeping HIV infection rates in Singapore one of the lowest in Asia," says its CEO, Dr Stuart Koe.

"Brokeback Mountain is an extremely important movie in how it succeeds at breaking down stereotypes and portrays a love that defies social conventions. That it has been both a critical and commercial success means that society is ready to address such themes."

The movie, which has been banned in China and decided against being shown in Malaysia by its distributor, was passed uncut and rated R21 in Singapore. Until recently, the Singapore Media Development Authority has been more strict against gay content, banning films such as Forever 17 and censoring gay and lesbian sex scenes in films. Lan Yu, which was banned four years ago, had its ban reversed late last year when a distributor re-submitted it and was screened with an R21 rating, uncut.

Fridae thanks all attendees and sponsors for their generous support of the event. 
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An interesting sidenote: Fridae.com used to host several "gay parties" in Singapore, contradicting a "conservative" image that Singapore projects. It was until last year the Singapore government rejected the applications linking the increased number of seroconversion cases with the parties.

Action for AIDS was also criticized for not doing enough and giving out free condoms at gay parties as inducement for casual sex, DESPITE not getting any cent from the government.

An attendance of 700 at that theatre is almost considered full-house, given the tickets are priced SGD $30 (USD $18.18) for circle seats and SGD $60 (USD $36.36) for premium seats. The average price per seat on a normal day would be around SGD $9 (USD $5.45).
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« Reply #3 on: Feb 10, 2006, 10:28 AM »
Wonderful news. Thanks, cybernaut.
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« Reply #4 on: Feb 10, 2006, 10:37 AM »
Fridae.com's "competitor", sgboy.com, a popular forum frequent by adolescent teenagers questioning their sexuality, wrote this review. While I tried to "correct" them about the love between two guys, not overt glorified celebrity gay sex, I was slammed down. For me, I never thought the movie is made for kids anyway!  :)

But both camps have been in competition with each other taking swipes and even banning the word, so I am a little surprised that they would belittle the film, despite the heavy advertisements on the website. I offered to give a small review but rejected and posted a small "what would Ennis write to Jack" reply, and again I get hammered by angry bitchin queens!  :-[

Oh well!! ;)

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SGBOY catches the much hyped Brokeback Mountain as it rides into town for an exclusive charity premiere.
 
Not since the days of Lone Ranger and his faithful “partner" Tonto has the world of classic Westerns seen a more homoerotic depiction of the cowboy archetype than the pairing of Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhall in Ang Lee’s evocative Brokeback Mountain.

Set in 1963, this Oscar favourite tells the tale of two Malboro Men - Ennis Del Mar (Ledger) and Jack Twist (Gyllenhaal) - who are hired by local rancher Joe Aguirre (Randy Quaid) to herd sheep up at Brokeback Mountain and who end up falling head-over-stetsons in love with each other.

Out in the desolate Wyoming wilderness, the love story on horseback unfolds languidly as Ennis and Jack play house together with the former staying at base camp to do domestic chores (read: prepare barely edible meals) and the latter keeping a watchful eye over the grazing sheep (read: use bemused coyotes as target practice).

With stunning vistas of open skies and majestic mountains as backdrop and a restrained elegiac music score as accompaniment, Brokeback Mountain traces the growing attraction of the two cowboys as they engage in heart-to-heart talks, exchange yearning looks and bathe in the nude.

One freezing night, Jack invites Ennis to share his tent and some awkward unbuckling of belts later, Brokeback Mountain puts the poke in cowpoke and the two cowboys partake in what could be the first onscreen simulation of doggy-style penetration (which Heath and Jake were made to repeat 13 times by director Ang Lee according to an Entertainment Weekly report).

Despite the fact that Ennis and Jack trade dialogue lifted from the gay man’s most dreaded post-coital conversations (Ennis says: “I ain’t no queer" and Jake replies: “Me neither!" Ennis mumbles: “This is a one-shot thing we got goin' on here" etc.), the attachment between them grows and Brokeback becomes a haven of private happiness for the two men, an Eden free from societal judgment.

Unfortunately, once Ennis and Jack get off Brokeback, they choose to go their separate ways: Ennis marries Alma (a mournful Michelle Williams) and engages in re-enactments of more doggy-style sex while Jack moves to Texas and marries rodeo princess Lureen (Anne Hathaway who finally sheds her Disney Princess image by exposing her left breast).

When Jack finally contacts Ennis four years later, the first thing they do when they meet is to lock lips and grope each other with wild abandon - much to the shock of Alma who happened to chance upon the scene. Following their reunion, Ennis and Jack continue to get together for private “fishing trips"(read: illicit trysts) as they attempt to recreate and recapture that incandescent period of time up at Brokeback.

In one of their stolen moments together, Jack proposes that they purchase a ranch, settle down and spend their lives together. Unfortunately, Ennis, scarred by how his father once showed him the corpse of a gay cowboy who was dragged by his penis until it was torn from his body, turns him down and warns: “This thing gets hold of us at the wrong time and wrong place and we're dead."

In a world where the feelings they have for each other cannot be articulated, acknowledged or accepted, there can be no riding-off-into-the-sunset type of happy ending for Ennis and Jack. And as the years pass, they continue to live double lives as their marriages and personal lives disintegrate around them - that is, until Jack’s predictable death-at-the-hands-of-redneck-homophobes.

The quiet closing scenes of Brokeback Mountain when Ennis visits Jack’s parents and learns of Jack’s plans and when he inhales the scent of the shirt Jack wore at Brokeback are heart-wrenching because they depict Ennis' pain of love lost and convey his realization - which comes too late - that his last chance at happiness has already passed him by.

With moving performances by its cast, Brokeback Mountain does more than leave a lump in the throat and an empty ache in the heart of its audience - it also nudges the audience to consider if a society which impinges its rules on personal choice and sexual preference and forces its inhabitants to deny who they are and what they feel is one that is worth living in.
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Re: BBM released in Singapore
« Reply #5 on: Feb 11, 2006, 07:28 AM »
OOOOOhhhhhh can't wait for this movie to be release islandwide in Singapore,...*jumping-up-down*..  ;)

It's really great to know that finally after soo long Singapore has finally tone down abit and let their hair down by allowing BBM to be release uncut,.. ;D

Singapore has finally relax abit and not be soo stiff about such things ne??.. ;)

And to think this is gona be my first taste of watching an RA21 rating,..oohh i'm soo happy,..*big-grin*.. ;D
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« Reply #6 on: Feb 11, 2006, 10:34 AM »
Enjoy it, and come back quick to tell us how it went!!! :-*
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« Reply #7 on: Feb 22, 2006, 09:28 PM »
Hey guys!

Brokeback Mountain has been listed as the number 4th movie in the top ten box office in Singapore from February 12 - 19, 2006.

Considering that the official release for Brokeback in Singapore is on the Feb 16, that means there has been quite a substantial earnings during the sneak peeks on the weekends alone!

A few of my friends saw the movie on the big screen and they bawled their eyes out.  :'( Some of them are willing to watch the movie again.  :)
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« Reply #8 on: Feb 22, 2006, 09:37 PM »
cybernaut, thanks so much for the update. GO BBM.
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« Reply #9 on: Feb 23, 2006, 01:52 AM »
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Brokeback Mountain has been listed as the number 4th movie in the top ten box office in Singapore from February 12 - 19, 2006.

Considering that the official release for Brokeback in Singapore is on the Feb 16[/color]


Since Brokeback Mountain's been banned in Malaysia, let us know if people from Malaysia could easily go to Singapore to see it? The two countries are only a Strait apart, right?
Thanks, Cybernaut.
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« Reply #10 on: Feb 23, 2006, 01:53 AM »
Please forgive me for posting the articles from Singapore instead of "News Coverage". I would like to keep them topical.

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Life! - Life People
The Brokeback factor
Tay Yek Keak , stars n gripes
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Straits Times
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(c) 2006 Singapore Press Holdings Limited
Like it or not, there's a little bit of Brokeback Mountain in everything around us

I'M GOING to talk about Brokeback Mountain today of course. First of all, I like and respect the movie, a really good film, but it's about two gay cowboys, not two grey cowboys, so the hell with respect for now.

Like everyone I know, I have many, many jokes, all of which cannot see the light of print here or I'll end up in jail where somebody might do a Brokeback Prison on me.

I'll just say this then - watching Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal, two very heterosexual-looking guys, taking the shirts off their backs and enjoying each other's company in the movie is actually very liberating for me because I can now freely express myself without sending all the wrong signals.

There are so many things I desire of all the guys I love and hang out with.

I want their CDs, I want their cars, I want their credit cards, I want their fishing rods and, yes, sometimes I even want the shirts they are wearing because they're better than mine. And now I can come out and say all this without them going Brokeback on me.

The show has a line that goes, 'I don't know how to quit you', which is sure to challenge Memoirs Of A Geisha's 'A true geisha can stop a man in his tracks with a single look' for Funniest Immortal Line at the Oscars.

Using variations of it, I can look my good buddies longingly in the eye and confess: 'I don't know how to quit your DVD', 'I don't know how to quit your refrigerator' and 'I don't know how to quit those pants I borrowed yesterday'.

A more memorable variation however would be a combo - 'A true cowboy can stop a man in his tracks with a single look' - which would be very effective for, say, Brokeback Geisha, an idea so tantalising I shall be peddling it to every film-maker I see.

Somebody told me that Brokeback director Lee Ang has said that there is a Brokeback Mountain in every one of us.

I don't think he means everybody should climb a mountain but that we all have our own secret longings.

I totally agree with him although I think there is a Broke Debt Mountain in many of us too, which is why we'll be getting so much free money this election year.

Now, because I've been waxing lyrical about the movie to many people, some have seen it, loved it and promised to name their next child after me, while others, finding it full of empty hot air, have put a contract out on me after cursing 'what the fog'.

The Fog, by the way, is a new horror flick about departed spirits who come out of the mist to go after some folks in a seaside town.

In a way, there's something very Brokeback about that show because it's about attachment too.

I realise this: If you want to, you can find a Brokeback in every movie.

I'm so amazed by it because it's such a fantastic concept.

I hadn't understood, for instance, that Lee Ang's green-skinned Hulk which he made back in 2003 was actually the first instalment of this marvellous notion because it involved two people who couldn't stay away from each other while getting the shirt ripped off too.

The fact that those two people were stuffed into the same person was just incidental.

Brokeback Hulk had one heck of a time being both in proximity and in agony with himself.

That goes for Brokeback Gladiator, Brokeback Psycho, Brokeback King Kong and definitely Brokeback Football too when Frank Lampard of Chelsea goes to Ronaldinho of Barcelona to suggest that they take off their shirts in the middle of the field to exchange them after the game.

Lee Ang is a genius.

His film has completely changed the way I look at things.

The other night I saw an event at a sports meet on TV where one fella lay on top of another in a little sled that skidded down a curvy icy track in a competition called the doubles luge.

That meet is referred to as the Winter Games.

I'm a changed man now.

I call it the Brokeback Olympics.

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« Reply #11 on: Feb 23, 2006, 02:02 AM »
There was an unusual 2 page spread on the broadsheet Strait Times devoting just on the movie Brokeback Mountain. The movie is certainly making waves on that small island!


Life! - Life Movies
Ain't no mountain higher
Ong Sor Fern , Film Correspondent
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You cannot choose who you fall in love with and Lee Ang's movie about two gay cowboys is a masterclass in film-making, even as it shows the endurance of love and thwarted desires

BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN (R21) 134 minutes/ Opens tomorrow/****

A LOT of Brokeback Mountain happens in the wide open spaces of Wyoming. But the story is really all about enclosures.

In fact, for a movie set in big sky country, it feels downright claustrophobic.

And that is a compliment to this quiet film, which has been nominated for eight Oscars. In its deliberate pacing and spare style, it dares to trust the audience will follow where the story leads.

Director Lee Ang's tender adaptation does justice to E. Annie Proulx's unsentimental 1997 short story about two gay cowboys.

Here, credit must be given to the terse Oscar-nominated script by novelist Larry McMurtry and Diana Ossana. They spin out Proulx's evocative 55-page story into a two-hour feature while staying astonishingly true to both its plot and its sensibility.

In the summer of 1963, monosyllabic Ennis del Mar (Best Actor contender Heath Ledger) and the more voluble Jack Twist (Best Supporting Actor nominee Jake Gyllenhaal) are ranch hands who bond over baked beans, whiskey and a campfire on Brokeback mountain.

But one night, when the weather turns frosty, they share a tent and more. Their sexual union is shot discreetly, cloaked in the shadows.

The next morning, Ennis grunts, 'I'm no queer' and Jack replies, 'Me neither'. Yet they have sex again and again.

They part company when the summer ends.

Ennis gets hitched to Alma (Best Supporting Actress nominee Michelle Williams), they have two daughters and life is a hard slog. Jack, meanwhile, marries pampered rodeo princess Lureen (Anne Hathaway in a breakout performance) and has a son.

But it is evident that neither man can forget the other. When Jack sends a postcard to Ennis four years later and they meet, their bottled feelings erupt in a passionate embrace.

Unable to deny each other, they continue to meet sporadically on hunting and fishing trips. The 20-year affair both sustains and destroys them as well as the people around them.

Alma, who sees the couple's tempestuous kiss, is shattered. Lureen, though unaware, matures into tight brittleness without ever fully understanding the causes of her husband's neglect.

People and desires

THIS movie will be beloved by film students and teachers in years to come as a masterclass in film-making.

Every directorial decision, from the visual language to pacing and editing, is made with clear-eyed vision and cinematic intelligence.

While this may suggest a certain cool calculation, Lee never forgets that his stories are about people and their thwarted desires. His all-embracing empathy means there is melancholy and regret, but no rancour nor recriminations, that feels all the more devastating because of its quietude.

The masterfully languid opening sets the restrained tone. A truck reduced to the size of a toy travels across a yawning landscape of green hills to the twang of an acoustic guitar.

The introduction of the two main characters takes place in a five-minute silent sequence - an eternity in screen time - carried solely by the stars' performances.

The actors deserve all the praise. Ledger disappears under the tough skin of the anguished, guttural Ennis. His childhood memory of a gay man bashed to death prevents him from trying for happiness with Jack.

Gyllenhaal maximises his liquid puppy dog eyes to convey Jack's open vulnerability, which morphs from youthful hope to middle-aged weariness and despair.

One can quibble that these two poster-beautiful actors are far from Proulx's gnarled, weatherbeaten ranch hands.

In the story, Jack is short, bucktoothed and a bit portly. Ennis is even further from the hunky Ledger, with Proulx describing him as possessing a 'high-arched nose and narrow face, a little cave-chested, with a small torso, and long, caliper legs'.

Besides this departure, the women who remained mainly in the background in the story are allowed more screentime in this film version.

This makes all the difference to the film. Williams and Hathaway's sympathetic portrayals make clear that they are neither judge nor jury, but also victims of a society which defines love in strictly exclusive terms.

The women provide crucial context for what is really a tragedy about the gay man's experience of the closet.

Ennis and Jack have grown up in a society which allows no room for alternative gender orientations. Unable to give voice to their very essence, unlike a straight couple who can get married, have children and live together, their relationship instead poisons everything around them.

The women in their lives are wrecked, sometimes without knowing why.

The most powerful scene in the movie draws directly from the book's most poignant image.

Ennis finds a pair of shirts in Jack's closet - an old shirt he thought he had lost is tucked neatly into Jack's shirt. These two inanimate objects, wrapped in an embrace their owners cannot acknowledge in public, convey more than words the tragedy of lives spent, literally and metaphorically, in the closet.

The reason Brokeback Mountain has been hailed as such a breakthrough is precisely because the scriptwriters and Lee have depicted such a central gay experience in the language of straight romantic cinema.

It is no accident that the movie's poster, with the two leads posed pensively against each other, recalls the poster for Titanic.

Casting pretty actors to play doomed lovers also follows the long-standing Hollywood tradition of putting beautiful people on the big screen to suffer in the name of passion.

The rowdy sex play in the story, described as 'quick, rough, laughing and snorting', is translated tactfully onscreen in the arty equivalent of soft-focus photography.

Lee's restraint in presenting such a potentially explosive story plays a big part in the movie's success.

But some reviewers have also criticised this aspect of the film. Ezine Salon.com, for example, noted that 'the filmmaking itself, self-consciously restrained and desiccated, is inert and inexpressive'.

But the movie's singular lack of stridency partly explains why it has not generated as much controversy as it might have.

In fact, other than the usual conservative grumbles and one Utah cinema which banned the movie from its halls, Brokeback has been making headlines more as a spectacular commercial success.

The US$14 million (S$22.7 million) independent film opened on only five screens in the United States on Dec 11 before expanding slowly and steadily through word of mouth and prize buzz. So far, it has made US$51 million.

In a relatively weak year for films, with small independents garnering all the positive reviews despite flaws, Brokeback is also ahead of the pack in terms of all-around achievement in writing, directing and acting.

More than that, the movie's liberal slant and humane tenor make it one of those movies which liberals love.

As the Chicago Reader newspaper's caustic critic, Jonathan Rosenbaum, commented: 'This is the kind of tasteful tearjerker that's often overrated and smothered with prizes because it flatters our tolerance and sensitivity.'

But this opinion does an injustice to Lee's very palpable achievements in the movie, although one does suspect the film has attracted more than its fair share of raves because it is the perfect pop cultural success story to flaunt in the face of President George W. Bush's conservatism.

To be fair to Lee, he did not make the movie with the intention of becoming a cultural lodestone.

All this sound and fury is rather ironic considering the film at the centre of this brouhaha is all about understatement.

Brokeback makes its case for inclusion with such lowkey gravity that it packs more of a wallop than any soapbox rant ever can.

Its hushed heart will make this an enduring, if minor, classic in the film canon in time to come.

Brokeback Mountain is nominated for eight Oscars in the following categories: Best Actor, Best Supporting Actor, Best Supporting Actress, Best Director, Best Adapted Screenplay, Best Picture, Best Cinematography and Best Music.

The Oscars will be held at the Kodak Theatre in Los Angeles on March 5.

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Once I had a secret love

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A straight guy like me wept buckets at this movie about the sweet romance between two cowboys. Er, any girl fancy the shirt off my back?

I CRIED. At the end of Brokeback Mountain, I broke down.

Let me tell you this. I haven't cried at movies where boy breaks up with girl. Not even when boy breaks up with girl and the dog dies, the car is repossessed and the ship sinks.

I haven't cried when one gender aches for another gender so much it hurts in the cold, lonely nights.

I didn't even shed a tear when it happened to me. But this story, about two men who loved one another to pieces - it really moved me.

I need to clarify my credentials first.

Throughout my years of chummy camaraderie with my fellow men, in school, in the office, in the army, in the toilet at the football stadium, and on the one occasion I went fishing, anywhere, I've never felt an impulse to share anything with a guy in a bodily sense except maybe drink from the same can of Coke.

I'm as straight as an arrow.

But Brokeback Mountain has touched the liberal core in me, the part which says that ultimately what a person wants is entirely up to him whether it is pink, green, blue or Martian.

Sure I make the jokes about different kinds of people and I snigger at their ways, but the movie has humanised its subjects with such a beautiful, fatalistic love story I would probably, I hope, become a better man out of it.

It is, as many commentators have pointed out, a gay movie for straight people.

As I was watching the show, I kept messaging a friend to say that I have never seen two huggy, kissy fellas so happy together before.

Not even when Ben Affleck and Matt Damon won an Oscar together.

Here is where the idealised magic of cinema comes into play.

Lee Ang, the Hollywood outsider from Taiwan, that masterly auteur of the introspective, has said that in looking for the outsiders in his movie, he stopped casting once he saw Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal together.

Partnered up, they are Greek gods in Stetsons. Paired up, they are truly terrific actors.

Young, handsome, rangy, strapping and equal in height, they are the Marlboro Men not so much of cigarettes, but of the morning after pill.

A friend, who loved the film as much as I do, wondered if she would feel so much for it if it were about two old geezers in less photogenic heat.

She doubted it. Those two bucks are exactly the sort of guys I would want to look like or at least be with to corral the chicks in.

But they have eyes only for each other.

Love is a strange, unpredictable thing. It is already tough enough to read into the deep mysteries of girls, it's well nigh impossible to probe into two fellas' hidden, unspoken feelings.

In watching the shyer, repressive Ledger react to the more openly expressive Gyllenhaal, there is a mournful recognition of fate as well as a joyful celebration of the unexplained.

What they have, pointedly etched on their faces and the looks they give out of their forbidden confinement, is something that literally has no word for it.

In this tale of sad intimate destiny and sadder ultimate consequence, in the way you'd believe a man can fly in Superman, you'd believe the tender mercy of love soaring here.

Longing and loss are such erratic vagaries in life. They are completely out of our hands. If you are of a certain age, as I am, you would see Brokeback as wistful nostalgia.

You would need to understand regret and imperfection, and to regret the imperfection of perfection.

That every time Ledger's character Ennis Del Mar looks away and refuses to articulate in words the soul of his feelings, he is verbalising the fear of uncertainty and the pain of tentativeness.

I am moved by all this because it is so human and so believable.

Lee Ang understands tentativeness. He understands the tentativeness that comes from not knowing what is going to happen the next day, the next time.

That's why, as he has explained in interviews, when you see the show, the first act of love between both men is about passion.

The second is about commitment.

It's a commitment that slow-burns two decades in the story, able to rear its flourish only when given the rare chance to, a factor that sways you to feel pensively for these guys.

Suppression is such an emotive force.

Despite the hurt that it causes to the families in the story around them, it is an emotion blameless where men meant for each other only have the shirt in the closet to remember themselves by.

This groundbreaking film about manly, lonesome gay cowboys, thunderous in its daring, has made me look inward.

It actually makes me, as I write this on Valentine's Day, want to look for a girl to give a shirt to.

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Lee's angst

Tay Yek Keak

THE sensitivity Lee Ang puts into Brokeback Mountain is the culmination of craft, experience, detail, refinement and an understanding of the human condition that he has been exploring in his movies.

The 51-year-old Taiwanese director, who is based in New York, is an outstanding, observant film-maker.

In all his films, he loves probing the vague abstractions that lie just beneath the normal veneer of society. In the evolution of art, he is a master.

Pushing Hands (1992)

A retired Chinese taiji master, who speaks no English, moves into the suburban New York home of his Chinese-American son and American daughter-in-law. Lee's first feature,

a cosy little culture clash about family and unfamiliarity, is raw but keenly observed with humour and humanity.

The Wedding Banquet (1993)

A gay Chinese American and his female tenant in Manhattan agree to a marriage of convenience to fool

his old-fashioned parents from Taiwan. Essentially about the father-son relationship, Lee's first foray into a gay theme (between the son and

his white boyfriend) is funny and light, but still laced with a few truths about acceptance.

Eat Drink Man Woman (1994)

A master chef lives with his three unmarried daughters in Taipei. The ingredients of life are stirred into their sumptuous dinners at home. A charming, delectable tale of family, love and tradition, Lee's change from father-son to father-daughters offers insightful portrayals that allow female viewers to identify with the women.

Sense And Sensibility (1995)

Lee's first venture into a big-time all-Caucasian film is driven by a ready-made Jane Austen romance

and scriptwriter Emma Thompson's propensity to take imperious charge. Still, it is a fine thespian's dramedy and its basic premise of two sisters - one impulsive and flirty while the other practical and suppressed - is the sort of human dichotomy that fascinates him.

The Ice Storm (1997)

Lee's most emotionally dispersed film, this is a populated drama set during an ice storm in upscale Connecticut, and is a study of suburbia angst. Against the background of a changing political and sexual landscape in 1973, two dysfunctional families cavort in an interlude of adultery, sex, drugs and moral decline.

The foibles and failings exposed in each role here form a little treasure trove for Lee's later characterisations.

Ride With The Devil (1999)

His penchant for internal turmoil is taken to the extreme as a small community near the Kansas border is torn apart by conflicting loyalties during the American Civil War.

As friend squares off against friend in a struggle over ideology, violence and revenge, the epic pretensions of this effort subsume Lee's quieter instincts making it rambling and unfocused.

Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon (2000)

Amid the sensational fight scenes on bamboo trees, in courtyards and a teahouse, there is a meditative rhythm to this wuxia classic that bears all the hallmarks of a Lee Ang film.

Hulk (2000)

In this raging beast simmering inside a tortured man, Lee should have found a perfect vehicle for his preoccupation with repression and duality.

Alas, in this summer outing, he could never penetrate the thick green skin of the almighty blockbuster dollar to make it the soul searcher that he wanted.

Brokeback Mountain (2005)

As the two young bucks embark on their forbidden union, this gay drama becomes Lee's most human story yet, a culmination of the compelling human condition which he has been examining throughout his films.

I'm saying a prayer of thanks... that you didn't bring your harmonica!