Has to be the great Jake of course!
Jennis, your thought about the thanksgiving scene was really interesting, I'd never thought about it like that...but knowing what we know about all the symbolism in this film, you're probably right.
It breaks my heart to see Ennis sitting at the table with his pregnant ex-wife and her smug husband. The only saving grace for him are his two girls (his "angels"). He tries to be cheery, "doesn't want to be a sad daddy". God, I love that line in the story/screenplay...don't know why, but it just says so much.
Then again later on in that scene, with Alma confronting Ennis in the kitchen....you can feel the tension between them, and if you keep your eye on Ennis during this exchange, you can see him firing up, the tension mounting, his body stiffen.....amazing acting from Heath Ledger, yet again.
I always wondered why she didn't confront him with the kiss she had witnessed on their 4-year reunion......but now realise how brilliant Annie Proulx was to bring in something not even the reader was aware of.....of Alma sneaking around, checking up on Ennis behind his back, to confirm what she already knew. So when her time came to reveal what she knew to Ennis, the reader/viewer was as stunned as Ennis....inspired.
Sorry, I've mentioned quite a few things here, but you know how it is when you start thinking about something, leads on to something else.....but at least it's all related to the thanksgiving scene.....imagine, just all that from one scene!