Hello again LuvJackNasty and Tom.
I know how important it is to declare one's love for all to hear and see. I am sure we three cherish such a declaration in real life. But I am also sure we three agree that as one grows old in love, silent actions take the place of words.
I am getting ahead of myself here, as this is a key element in my next write-up about the role of Jake's Jack Twist: you can see the deepening of that love between Ennis and Jack even as frustration and recriminations pile up between them over the years. And in most cases, those instances that tell you that the love is growing ever deeper is tinged by so much sadness and regret. This admixture is not a contradiction. It is how it is in real life. In bitterness and in hope, love forever deepens. In that end of all ends, there is silence: a knowing silence, a comforting silence, a silence that rings out louder than any sound on earth or in heaven. In that silence, love is deepest. In that deep silence, the voice of love can at last be heard.
We weep for him. We weep with him.