And good huh's. I haven't thought about these ones in a while. In fact, I don't know that I've properly heard the one in the post-divorce scene when Jack comes. Oh boy -- must do research with the DVD. Thanks. Oh, but that scene is so poignant. Jack is so happy, but Ennis is held back...and then the sad ending to it. I want to smack Ennis for not having Jack in for at least a little while.
kathy
I think a lot of people want to smack Ennis for turning Jack away. 
As much as I adore Jack, and my heart breaks for him in that scene, I can't be too harsh on Ennis there. He didn't know Jack was going to turn up, and it must have made him really panic when he saw him turn up out of the blue,his two separate worlds coming together like that. Also, he only got to see his daughters once a month, I don't know how I would cope if I could only see my daughter once a month, and I wouldn't put any man, not even Jack/Jake before her.It might not have been as simple as just taking the girls back to Alma, maybe she and Monroe had gone away for the weekend, and Ennis had missed the previous month's visit, so he may have worried it would seem to the girls like he wasn't that interested in seeing them, or if Alma was being difficult, that she might use it as an excuse to limit him even more from seeing them.And what excuse could he give her, he could hardly say he couldn't have the girls cause he wanted to spent time with his "fishing buddy".Maybe I'm just seeing it from a parent's pov, but I think the fact his daughters were there goes a long way to explaining why he reacted that way to Jack.And there's no doubt Ennis feels bad about rejecting Jack, the way he says "I'm so sorry, you know I am", and his muted "Jack..." when Jack turns to leave... :\'(
Having said that,he should have asked Jack to get a motel room somewhere and come back when the girls were asleep, or the next day when they went back to Alma, and if that wasn't an option, then arrange to see him the following weekend, or something. At the very least, he should have invited him inside for a coffee (unless he thought Junior would remember he told Alma Jack was from Texas and didn't drink coffee

) and something to eat, after driving all that way