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The Last Gay Word
« on: Apr 26, 2006, 09:53 AM »
An insightful article from: http://www.afterelton.com/columns/2006/4/lastgayword.html

And Ebert and Roeper did not get this?  Ahh, I expect too much from their tiny Neanderthal brains...

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The Last Gay Word: The Land Beyond Brokeback Mountain
by Brent Hartinger, April 26, 2006


 
Before Brokeback Mountain, most gay-themed entertainment projects were...how do I put this charitably?

They were crap.

Portrayals of gay characters on television have alternated between outrageous, usually offensive stereotypes, and noble victims meant to transmit some preachy message to the apparently completely heterosexual audience. In books, we've had an endless stream of self-hating gay men who screw their friends and mess up their lives with irresponsible sex and indiscriminate drug use.

And movies? Don't get me started.

Too late, I'm started. In addition to outrageous stereotypes and noble victims, the big studios have also given us an unending parade of simpering gay and/or effeminate villains in movies like Rope, Diamonds are Forever, In Cold Blood, Looking for Mr. Goodbar, Psycho, Jeepers Creepers 2, The Silence of the Lambs, Dreamcatcher, The Lion King, Basic Instinct, Stargate, The Passion of the Christ, Strangers on a Train, Die Hard, Suddenly Last Summer, Aladdin, and Constantine.

And the low budget independent movies–- the ones ostensibly told from the point-of-view of an actual gay person to an actual gay audience? They've often been laughably acted, incomprehensibly written, or both.

Oh, sure, there have been some fine gay projects, especially lately: TV shows like Six Feet Under, Xena: Warrior Princess, and Buffy, the Vampire Slayer; movies like Trick, Big Eden, Priscilla: Queen of the Desert, Mambo Italiano, Summer Storm, and Beautiful Thing; and books like The Year of Ice by Brian Malloy, Leave Myself Behind by Bart Yates, the “Silent Empire” series by Steven Harper, My Lucky Star by Joe Keenan, and How I Learned to Snap by Kirk Read.

But let's face it, they've been too few and too far between.

I didn't used to care about whether or not a gay project was “good.” I was just so starved to see myself represented on screen or in the pages of a book that I took whatever I could get.

Okay, so maybe Brokeback Mountain didn't change the world, but it did change me. And I don't just mean in a love now or you'll spend the rest of your life sitting in a crappy trailer park staring at a faded photograph and sniffing a bloody flannel shirt kind of way.

I mean the way I view gay-themed movies, books, and TV shows.

Regardless of whether you think Brokeback Mountain deserved to win Best Picture -- and if you don't, you're JUST PLAIN WRONG!
-- there is no denying it was a quality project. Great writing, incredible acting, stellar cinematography, even a distinctive, understated score.

That's why I tuned in regularly to watch horrible sitcoms like Love, Sidney, a 1981 series with Tony Randall as a gay man living with Swoosie Kurtz, but who never actually mentions the fact that he's gay.

That's also why I went to all those gay film festivals and sat through all those terrible movies by Gregg Araki (who supposedly did a good job on Mysterious Skin, which I won't see solely because Araki made me sit through all those earlier, horrible movies).

I didn't even care that so few of these projects were told from the point-of-view of the gay person. Even the first big AIDS movie, 1993's Philadelphia, was told from the POV of a homophobic straight person. And in 1987, the ABC Afterschool Special series did a program called “What If I'm Gay?” Despite the provocative title, it was more about the reactions of straight people to their gay friend (though it did have a great twist, where the “gay” person of the title doesn't turn out to be the person everyone, including the audience, thinks it is! Alas, unlike other Afterschool Specials, “What If I'm Gay?” is not yet available on video or DVD).

I didn't even care when the portrayals of gay people were, uh, unorthodox. When I first read Anne Rice's “Vampire” books, I was transfixed, not just because the first few at least are incredible reads, but because I was reading about actual passion between men. Granted, there was no sex, and the characters in question were vampires who were usually sucking the blood out of their male victims. Hey, you can't have everything, right?

But suddenly I've seen that it doesn't have to be that way. Brokeback Mountain was a quality project told from the point-of-view of its gay characters, about a uniquely gay situation (despite all the people who mistakenly proclaimed it to be a “universal” love story). The characters weren't stereotypes, villains, or noble victims.

In short, I don't have to accept vampirism as a metaphor for gay love anymore. I can tell tenth-rate filmmakers like Greg Araki to go take a flying leap. And I can accept that we've passed the time for well-intentioned movies like Philadelphia, which were designed to “educate” the heterosexual audience, but which had virtually nothing interesting to say about the central truth of being gay.

Now that I've seen a truly great gay project like Brokeback Mountain, I'm suddenly much less willing to accept anything less. Already I can feel it in myself: a welling anger with offensive or condescending gay portrayals, and a growing impatience with obviously inferior movies and books that survived in the marketplace solely because nothing better existed.

In short, now that I've seen Paree, why the hell would I stay down on the farm?

I suspect a lot of other gay guys are feeling this way too, eager to explore the land beyond Brokeback Mountain.

Here's hoping it's fertile.

And that is the last gay word.

Brent Hartinger is the author of the gay teen novel, Geography Club, which is currently being adapted for the movies. The sequel, The Order of the Poison Oak, is just out in paperback, and his latest novel, Grand & Humble, is in stores now. Explore "Brent's Brain," his website, at www.brenthartinger.com.



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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #1 on: Apr 26, 2006, 10:09 AM »
wow - thanks so much for sharing this article with us, tpe! i just read it and even though i haven't watched any of the movies that he talked about, i looked at the stuff they recommend to you on amazon when looking for stuff on BBM... and i thought "what the heck? these movies amazon's recommending don't even closely compare to BBM!!!" well, anyways, when i saw who wrote this article, i was kinda startled(well, i don't know any better word right now), because i read the book "geography club" and didn't know it was being made into a movie! so, that's something to look forward to. =)

again, thanks for posting this, tpe!
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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #2 on: Apr 26, 2006, 10:15 AM »
Mr Brent Hartinger, you are so wright, but yes, I can confirm, Araki did a MARVELOUS  job on Mysterious Skin  ;)

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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #3 on: Apr 26, 2006, 10:17 AM »
Mr Brent Hartinger, you are so wright, but yes, I can confirm, Araki did a MARVELOUS  job on Mysterious Skin  ;)



right...sorry  ;D
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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #4 on: Apr 26, 2006, 10:17 AM »
Mr Brent Hartinger, you are so wright, but yes, I can confirm, Araki did a MARVELOUS  job on Mysterious Skin  ;)



Yes.  So I now know that at least you and Lost_Girl have seen this.  ;)

It was a good thing it came out before BBM, or else I would have missed it.  :)




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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #5 on: Apr 26, 2006, 12:11 PM »
Thanks for posting the article tpe.  I harbor the same sentiments regarding expectations of gay-themed films, post-BBM...

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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #6 on: Apr 26, 2006, 01:19 PM »
Thanks for posting the article tpe.  I harbor the same sentiments regarding expectations of gay-themed films, post-BBM...

dirtbiker, what annoys me most is when a lot of people (like our Chicago critics) keep on saying that how can AMPAS be homophobic when they awarded best actor to 'Capote'.

My response: there is a whole world of difference between the T Capote in 'Capote' and Ennis and Jack in Brokeback Mountain.

One is a portrayal of preciousness.  The other is almost flesh and blood.

They are afraid of flesh and blood.


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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #7 on: Apr 26, 2006, 03:24 PM »
So many thanks Tpe!  Like always, amazing article.
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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #8 on: Apr 26, 2006, 04:11 PM »
Thank you Pierre.  I think a lot of attitudes have indeed changed -- post-BBM.


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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #9 on: Apr 26, 2006, 04:14 PM »
These are the lines I second most :




Portrayals of gay characters on television have alternated between outrageous, usually offensive stereotypes, and noble victims meant to transmit some preachy message to the apparently completely heterosexual audience. In books, we've had an endless stream of self-hating gay men who screw their friends and mess up their lives with irresponsible sex and indiscriminate drug use.


My candle burns at both ends / It will not last the night / But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends / It gives a lovely light (Edna St. Vincent Millay)

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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #10 on: Apr 26, 2006, 04:17 PM »
These are the lines I second most :




Portrayals of gay characters on television have alternated between outrageous, usually offensive stereotypes, and noble victims meant to transmit some preachy message to the apparently completely heterosexual audience. In books, we've had an endless stream of self-hating gay men who screw their friends and mess up their lives with irresponsible sex and indiscriminate drug use.


We are worlds away from "3's Company", and yet...


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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #11 on: Apr 26, 2006, 06:05 PM »
Nice article, Thomas. Will I be able to settle for anything less now, after BBM ? No way !   :-\

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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #12 on: Apr 26, 2006, 06:14 PM »
Nice article, Thomas. Will I be able to settle for anything less now, after BBM ? No way !   :-\

Indeed, for us and for friends of GLBT people everywhere: we certainly deserve better.

Thanks stephan:)

 

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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #13 on: Apr 26, 2006, 06:17 PM »
The real life "Truman Capote" fit into the stereotypical homosexual mold and that was why people knew he was "gay."

But, the fictional Ennis Del Mar and Jack Twist are more like the average closeted homosexual who does not fit into a mold. They don't have any of the stereotypical "gay" characteristics.

Other than being OUT of the closet, the average (or the norm) for gay men and how they act in public is just like what is the norm for "straight" men.
(Ennis) is suffused with a sense of pleasure because Jack Twist was in his dream . . . lets a panel of the dream slide forward . . . it might stoke the day, rewarm that old, cold time on the mountain when they owned the world and nothing seemed wrong.

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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #14 on: Apr 26, 2006, 06:25 PM »
The real life "Truman Capote" fit into the stereotypical homosexual mold and that was why people knew he was "gay."

But, the fictional Ennis Del Mar and Jack Twist are more like the average closeted homosexual who does not fit into a mold. They don't have any of the stereotypical "gay" characteristics.

Indeed this is so.  And Ebert and Roeper are too thickheaded to see the difference...

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Other than being OUT of the closet, the average (or the norm) for gay men and how they act in public is just like what is the norm for "straight" men.

Although I do know a lot of friends who are out and are very straight in their normal behavior, I am sure a lot of GLBT people everywhere still feel the need to conform and blend in, irrespective of their natural composure.  Am I being pessimistic?  We still have a long way to go...

Thanks TJ.


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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #15 on: Apr 26, 2006, 06:32 PM »
The portrayal of gay caracters in many of todays telly shows has moved on a lot since the days of John ("I'm Free") Inman in Are you being served. In the examples given above, it mentions Buffy the Vampire Slayer. When the character of Willow first came out as a lesbian in the show I was flabberghasted. Here was a show directed at young adults and teens which was known to be watched by a far younger audience.

My niece at the time was 8 years old and loved the show ( some would say she was too young, but hey her mother allowed her to watch...not my decision). Her favourite characters were Willow and Tara.  I thought that the show was very brave to show such positive gay role models. I originally thought that they would only run with this for a short time and then revert back to "normal" Willow. I was so pleased that they kept with this.

More and more shows in the UK, Soaps, Casualty and many serials have gay characters where being gay is not the be all and end all of the character. That the characters have all the same problems as other straight characters says a lot for what people want to see on television. 
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« Reply #16 on: Apr 26, 2006, 06:39 PM »
Thanks Tom. 

That the characters have all the same problems as other straight characters says a lot for what people want to see on television.

This is indeed meaningful to me.


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« Reply #17 on: Apr 26, 2006, 06:48 PM »
When the character of Willow first came out as a lesbian in the show I was flabberghasted. Here was a show directed at young adults and teens which was known to be watched by a far younger audience.


However thay chose a lady homosexual... why? because a lesbian isn't so threatening to ...well...mainstream america I guess...as a gay MAN... just my opinion :)

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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #18 on: Apr 26, 2006, 10:28 PM »
John Inman of the BBC comedy, "Are You Being Served," is not even homosexual.

Dan Butler, who played "Bulldog" the sports commentator who was also a womanizer on "Frasier," is openly gay in real life.

I don't "act straight." I just try to be myself and people just assume that I am like the average guy. Most professional actors who are exclusively homosexual their sexual orientation don't even have to be taught how to "act straight."

When I was a regular at the Rawhide, a C&W club for gays and lesbians and guests in North Hollywood, CA, most of the regulars would have passed as "straight" out on the street. They didn't act any different in public. Oh, some of my friends who were regulars at the Rawhide were actors.

I have met heterosexual men and homosexual men who were somewhat effeminate in their mannerisms and they were just being themselves. For them to act "butch" would have been contrary to their nature.
(Ennis) is suffused with a sense of pleasure because Jack Twist was in his dream . . . lets a panel of the dream slide forward . . . it might stoke the day, rewarm that old, cold time on the mountain when they owned the world and nothing seemed wrong.

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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #19 on: Apr 27, 2006, 12:45 PM »
John Inman of the BBC comedy, "Are You Being Served," is not even homosexual.



Yeah and I'm 145lbs and 6ft tall!

TJ Where do you get your facts?. Here's a real one for you...

On 27 December 2005, Inman entered into a civil partnership with his partner of 33 years Ron Lynch in Westminster under a new British law giving official recognition to same sex relationships, which had come into effect the week before .

As a Registrar in the UK I hear of these showbiz "gay marriages regularly". In the TV show Mr Humphries was outrageously camp, but his actual sexual orientation was never ever confirmed.
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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #20 on: Apr 27, 2006, 04:11 PM »
Another article that makes reference, among others things, to gay-themed movies before BBM



Men in Love


By Matthew Kennedy


“ I wanted eternal union with a man too: another kind of love,” he said.
“I don’t believe it,” she said. “It’s an obscenity, a theory, a perversity.”
“Well —” he said.
“You can’t have two kind of love. Why should you!”
“It seems as if I can’t,” he said. “Yet I wanted it.”
“You can’t have it, because it’s false, impossible,” she said.
“I don’t believe that,” he answered.

— D. H. Lawrence, Women in Love



Men in love is not new to art. With Gilgamesh and Enkidu, it’s as old as poetry. Jonathan and David, Achilles and Patroclus, and Plato’s Symposium comport with readers looking for the ancient ennobling of same-sex love. But leaping from myth or literature to the big screen is huge in a culture that suckles on visual media.

Brokeback Mountain, first the New Yorker short story now the film, takes recognizably western icons and turns them askew. To hear people talk, the story of two cowboys falling in love in the summer of 1963 while sheepherding in Wyoming, then sustaining that love for 20 years, is heresy. It is one thing for movies to question our traditions of violence and capitalism, quite another to confront forbidden lust. Can we just ignore it, as we have in American movies for the last century? What, pray tell, would John Ford have to say?

Ironies are not lost. Brokeback Mountain is the creation of heterosexuals: director Ang Lee, actors Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal, story writer Annie Proulx, and screenwriters Larry McMurtry and Diana Ossana. Collectively they blasted through the squirm-in-your-seats problem of male homosexuality in mainstream American films. No movie has accomplished this with more finesse. Revisit Cruising, Making Love, Longtime Companion, Philadelphia, or The Birdcage for the evidence. Brokeback Mountain redresses the shortcomings of yesteryear with exceptional grace, depth, and intelligence. The affectations of sexuality are gone, and in their place are the affectations of a pernicious machismo.

Brokeback Mountain is so much more than a daring reinvention of the modern western. It is a shrewd and moving exploration of empathy that recalls the great forbidden love troika of Sirk’s All That Heaven Allows, Fassbinder’s Ali: Fear Eats the Soul, and Todd Haynes’ Far from Heaven. Rodeo rider Jack and itinerant ranch hand Ennis are constricted not just by society’s lethal hatred, but by self-destruction. Ennis’s anxiety over a more permanent commitment to Jack is both real and imaginary. He is a hurt animal prone to violence as an ineffective cure for his sexual desires. It is rational self-defense, and a wholly human response, yet it will doom him to purgatory.

The open glory of the scenery is in absolute contrast to the social entrapment that fates Jack and Ennis to loveless marriages and negligent, ineffectual fatherhood. It is after their agonizing first summer farewell that the movie skillfully treats time like an accordion. The early scenes languish on the epic majesty of craggy peaks, electric storms, and endless horizons dotted with conifers. Searing life memories are made for Jack and Ennis. After their first thrilling, urgent animal coupling, we don’t see much more of their private affections. The years whiz by in the film’s middle, signaling that nothing will be as special, or as holy, as the idyllic first days of their romance. We see the evolution of their lives — the comings and goings of girlfriends, marriages, children, and facial hair — but we don’t see what becomes of the physical expression of their love. Their lusty kissing after a four-year separation clinches their lasting passion, but the scene quickly turns into a voyeuristic nightmare for Ennis’ wife Alma.

Brokeback Mountain is blessedly free of Hollywood condescension, despite the presence of outsized belt buckles and press-on nails. There is not one character, major or minor, that devolves into caricature. The movie is a triumph of spare dialogue, as actors communicate reams with their faces and bodies. Credit Ang Lee, who here exceeds his already excellent work with actors in Sense and Sensibility and The Ice Storm. Note, for example, how Gyllenhaal as Jack wills himself not to catch a sideways glance of his naked comrade. The stricken face of Michelle Williams as Alma conveys the seismic catastrophe of love that must not exist but will not disappear. The moment she knows her marriage is over is a miracle of economic acting. Lureen’s (Anne Hathaway) bitterness at husband Jack can be measured by the amount of peroxide in her hair. Finally, Ledger’s sterling last moments on screen are a validation of the entire bold enterprise.

As rendered in Proulx’s story, Jack had “some weight in the haunch and his smile disclosed buckteeth,” while Ennis had a “high-arched nose and narrow face . . . scruffy and a little cave-chested.” In the film’s major concession to commercial viability, both Gyllenhaal and Ledger are decidedly prettier than Proulx’s inventions. That in no way minimizes their performances. As a man rendered inarticulate by childhood miseries, Ledger’s words crawl down his throat before they are off his tongue. His eyes look scalded from seeing too much cruelty; His mouth grows crooked and thin over the years. As an actor, Ledger has a great understanding for Ennis, and the widespread praise he has enjoyed is merited. But the margin of excellence between his performance and Gyllenhaal’s is narrow. Jack is the more outgoing and impulsive of the two, but his hurt cuts just as deep. His coltish enthusiasm is all the more devastating by its inevitable end. And it is Jack’s simple dream that lends Brokeback Mountain its aching poignancy. It joins a great tradition of yearning already captured in “Somewhere” from West Side Story, Lenny’s rabbits in Of Mice and Men, and that bus ride to Florida in Midnight Cowboy.

Brokeback Mountain is a landmark American film because of its unique devotion to two men. Nothing before it has been so unselfconsciously and compassionately homosexual. Ennis’ conflict of following his desire or being a part of the larger, homoerotically denied world is both heartbreaking and familiar. His is a tragedy born from a society that rejects love in unfamiliar variations, and by the time its leisurely 134 minutes have passed, it has become a cri de coeur on the sad truths of human nature. How many Jacks and Ennises are out there watching the embers fade on their campfire, still hoping the world will grant their love a bit of dignity?
My candle burns at both ends / It will not last the night / But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends / It gives a lovely light (Edna St. Vincent Millay)

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« Reply #21 on: Apr 27, 2006, 04:18 PM »
As rendered in Proulx’s story, Jack had “some weight in the haunch and his smile disclosed buckteeth,” while Ennis had a “high-arched nose and narrow face . . . scruffy and a little cave-chested.” In the film’s major concession to commercial viability, both Gyllenhaal and Ledger are decidedly prettier than Proulx’s inventions. That in no way minimizes their performances. As a man rendered inarticulate by childhood miseries, Ledger’s words crawl down his throat before they are off his tongue. His eyes look scalded from seeing too much cruelty; His mouth grows crooked and thin over the years. As an actor, Ledger has a great understanding for Ennis, and the widespread praise he has enjoyed is merited. But the margin of excellence between his performance and Gyllenhaal’s is narrow. Jack is the more outgoing and impulsive of the two, but his hurt cuts just as deep. His coltish enthusiasm is all the more devastating by its inevitable end. And it is Jack’s simple dream that lends Brokeback Mountain its aching poignancy. It joins a great tradition of yearning already captured in “Somewhere” from West Side Story, Lenny’s rabbits in Of Mice and Men, and that bus ride to Florida in Midnight Cowboy.

Brokeback Mountain is a landmark American film because of its unique devotion to two men. Nothing before it has been so unselfconsciously and compassionately homosexual. Ennis’ conflict of following his desire or being a part of the larger, homoerotically denied world is both heartbreaking and familiar. His is a tragedy born from a society that rejects love in unfamiliar variations, and by the time its leisurely 134 minutes have passed, it has become a cri de coeur on the sad truths of human nature. How many Jacks and Ennises are out there watching the embers fade on their campfire, still hoping the world will grant their love a bit of dignity?

These 2 paragraphs move me so much.

...a cri de coeur on the sad truths of human nature.



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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #22 on: Apr 27, 2006, 04:24 PM »
How many Jacks and Ennises are out there watching the embers fade on their campfire, still hoping the world will grant their love a bit of dignity?

My candle burns at both ends / It will not last the night / But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends / It gives a lovely light (Edna St. Vincent Millay)

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« Reply #23 on: Apr 27, 2006, 05:39 PM »
Thank you Frances, that was a wonderful piece. Very true and moving.
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Re: The Last Gay Word
« Reply #24 on: Apr 28, 2006, 11:18 AM »
An insightful article from: http://www.afterelton.com/columns/2006/4/lastgayword.html

And Ebert and Roeper did not get this?  Ahh, I expect too much from their tiny Neanderthal brains...
[And that is the last gay word.

Brent Hartinger is the author of the gay teen novel, Geography Club, which is currently being adapted for the movies. The sequel, The Order of the Poison Oak, is just out in paperback, and his latest novel, Grand & Humble, is in stores now. Explore "Brent's Brain," his website, at www.brenthartinger.com.


Thanks tpe,that was interesting and he is right about nothing comparing to BBM.It all pales into insignificance.So far.

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« Reply #25 on: Apr 28, 2006, 11:47 AM »
Thanks also Jennis.  I think most of us here in this forum have always known how different it was from the very beginning.  After my first viewing of it in December, I knew there was a difference, but I could not articulate it so.  That's why I had to see it again and again...


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« Reply #26 on: Apr 28, 2006, 02:37 PM »
Thank you tpe and frances, for posting these wonderful articles.
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