My previous post is more about pinpointing the actual flashback scene to a specific day. I guess I veered off into what I thought was going through Jacks mind but, it's not so much about the symbolism of the two scenes but, rather about placing the actual flashback scene in the movie. The first time I watched the movie I thought it was some random scene of some night before Ennis went back to the sheep and saying "see you in the morning" but, by about the 3rd time watching, it hit me that it must have been their last night before the big snow. So, I wonder, if they were to put that flashback scene in sequence in the movie, if the very next scene would be the next morning when Ennis came out of the tent and saw all the snow, and came down to the camp where Jack was taking everything down. Which I think is symbolic in itself.
There is that hackneyed saying that still speaks true to many of us: "If you love somebody, set him/her free."
I think this is what Jack did. It is an expression of the greatest love.
After reading these last few quotes, I don't know who originally said it,but I get it now. For me, this is the answer. It makes the whole movie even more sad even more beautiful, if that's even possible. Before just now, I wasn't sure if Jack had really quit Ennis, but now, I believe he did but, not because it was hard on himself but, because he saw what it was doing to Ennis and he loved him more than himself. Whew, I'm a mess now. :'( :'(