After 27 times, still things leaping to mind that hadn't been so clear the first 26 ...

FNIT - when J & E are kneeling up facing each other, grabbing shoulders, forehead to forehead (the most intense part of this whole scene imo) it first appears as though Ennis was trying to keep Jack slightly away from him, and fighting his own self in the bargain ... but there is one point where his hand goes up to hold the side of Jack's head ... and it doesn't look so much like he's fighting, anymore ... I love it because it's a gesture they both share with each other over the years they're together ... *sigh*
Mailing postcard to Jack ... when Ennis comes out of the post office after mailing "you bet", looks for a second like he's fiddling with this wedding right ... already feeling guilty, or trapped??
Reunion kiss ... Again with hands holding each others heads ... and you get a glimpse of Jack's ornate, obviously expensive wedding ring, then from the other side a glimpse of Ennis's plain gold wedding band. A sign of their different financial and social circumstances.
Motel scene ... after Jack asks "what are we goin' to do now?", watching Ennis's face it struck me that he really takes his time replying ... and it looks like he's trying not to cry. There is a glint in his eyes between each sentence he manages to force out, like he's steeling himself to say words that are tearing him apart to speak. I had never really, REALLY paid attention before to how very badly saying "doubt there's nothin' we can do" hurt Ennis - always just thought about what it had been doing to Jack .... I don't think Ennis was as stoic about this declaration as I had thought in the past.
No doubt most of these things have been talked about in specific discussion threads in great detail, but I sure like this having a place to come just to speak in general on small things that stand out for us each viewing. Great idea for a place to share the little (but important!) things!
