Hi guys... I'm new

Anyway, I'm sorry to be posting my first comment on a thread that I see most of you feel depressing

But here it goes, coz this has been a question I've been trying to answer for a while... I actually agree with BrownEyes... I think that Jack is the type of person who's very dramatic, mellow, full of imagination - My point is, I think if it were Ennis who died, Jack wouldn't hesitate to follow him shortly... Like Lureen said, he had a BIG imagination, and he loved Ennis with all his life, he misses him when they're not together, he desperately wanted them to live together, as lovers, as a couple, like husbands and wives... I can't even imagine what state Jack would be in if he found out Ennis had died, he'd probably go and shoot himself right there and then coz I think he lived for Ennis... He only did other things with other guys coz he really needed Ennis but couldn't force him to be with him... So he looked for other things to get his mind off it, and that's when other guys came into the picture. They were both old when Jack had died, so if Ennis had died at that age too, I think Jack wouldn't have much to live for anyway... He doesn't love his wife and son (well not as much as Ennis did to his daughters), and he didn't have anywhere else to go... And keep in mind, Randall wasn't even in the book (I think)... Just in the movie.
That's why I think Jack would've killed himself if Ennis had been the one who died... Tho Ennis was incredibly sad when Jack died, he loved his daughters and they were his hope in life, also Ennis was always the rational one... Jack doesn't have anyone, and being a man of big imaginations, he'd probably think he'd meet Ennis in another life if he died too...
That's all from me... Sorry for depressing everyone!

~Julie~