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Offline scruffy

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Love is a Force of Nature
« on: Jan 31, 2006, 03:44 AM »
Love is a Force of Nature

When I heard that Brokeback Mountain had a sexually graphic scene I was a bit put off.  I'm no prude by any stretch of the imagination but I feel insulted by Hollywood's move to include unnecessary nudity and violence into films.  Nine times out of ten, graphic scenes have no basis in plot development.

During Ennis and Jack's first coupling I was undoubtedly uncomfortable.  This was partly due to the fact that several young girls were giggling through the scene, occasionally glancing towards the single guy (me) sitting down the row from them.  I thought that this was how all my straight friends would see me and I assumed Ang Lee was going for shock value.  I couldn't have been further from the truth.  There is definitely shock value in the scene but for other reasons.  Several viewings later I realize now that the movie truly needs the scene and I am now convinced that the movie wouldn't have been the same without it.

The scene is raw and animalistic.  Some people would say it is downright violent.  But I have come to believe it symbolizes the conflict between what society has taught the men and their inner biological (natural) urges.  We are taught that in order to live in society we have to conform to a set of rules.  We are told what separates us from the animal kingdom is the ability to suppress our id.  Our personal pleasures, we are taught, do not necessarily conform to the common good.  When Jack and Ennis are together in the tent for the first time, the scene represents the first abandonment of society's teachings.  And the barbarism of it all shows a life of pent up frustration unleashed in a single flash.  For one brief moment nature wins out over culture.

This is not to say Jack and Ennis are animals.  Quite the opposite is true.  While nature is bringing them together in love, the teachings of society are not easily erased.  Part of that violence is their hate for what they are doing.  Instead of a feeling of pride, there is an overwhelming mood of shame.  It is, at least on Ennis' part, self loathing projected onto the pandora's box named Jack.

That scene sets the tone for the rest of the movie.  When together for a period of time, Jack and Ennis find a common ground on the mountain.  They make their own society.  They have their own set of rules.  It's during these times violence is subdued.

It is only when Jack and Ennis are seperated for a period of time that the desire for each other reaches a boiling point.  When they meet after a long absence it is not clear if they're kissing or fighting.  In a way  they're doing both.  Apart, they live in society where daily life reinforces their hatred for what they have.  But being apart also increases their longing for each other to such a level they become starved.  They need each other for substanance as much as they need food or air.

It is interesting how Jack and Ennis do not deny themselves food.  They shoot an elk when the need arises.  Still, Ennis denies himself Jack.  He reverts back to the norms of society after they leave the mountain.  They both do to a point.  In the end, society really does win out.  They forsake nature except for brief moments when they are so starved they can stand it no longer.  That's the true tragedy of it all.  In the need for self preservation, Ennis chooses a lesser of two "evils."

If there is any lesson here we are reminded that love in its many forms is part of the natural process known as life.

Embrace it.

I welcome your comments on this little essay.  I'm really just venting as part of this extended grieving process I seem to be going through.

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Re: Love is a Force of Nature
« Reply #1 on: Jan 31, 2006, 12:51 PM »
scruffy,

I just happened on your post and totally agree with what you say. It is interesting how Ennis continually pushes Jack away except for those few rough, emotion filled times over the course of their relationship. An interesting question I have to put forth for you and for others...Could it be that the way Ennis treated Jack was not only because of his internal demons, but because of his fear that if he gets to close to someone, they will be taken away? From the short story, "Ennis, reared by his older brother and sister after their parents drove off the only curve on Dead Horse Road leaving them twenty-four dollars in cash and a two-morgage house..." He lost his parents at an early age. The people who loved him and cared for him unconditionally. Perhaps he was afraid that if he let himself get that close to Jack, he would end up just having his heart torn out again?

So, in the end, when he was finally ready to let himself feel something for someone again, his worst fears came to pass anyway. So, maybe "Jack, I swear..." meant "When we see each other again, I won't hide from you."

It's probably been said a thousand times already. Don't hurt me, I'm just expressing my thoughts as best I can.

Keep smiling!
CP :P

P.S. I too believe right along with you that Love Is A Force Of Nature. It's one force in life that you can't really control no matter how hard you try. No matter what has to happen, love prevails over all.

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Re: Love is a Force of Nature
« Reply #2 on: Jan 31, 2006, 03:37 PM »
Love is a Force of Nature
In the end, society really does win out.  They forsake nature except for brief moments when they are so starved they can stand it no longer.  That's the true tragedy of it all.  In the need for self preservation, Ennis chooses a lesser of two "evils."

Your essay makes so many good points, I don't know where to begin. I too was moved by the theme of the pressures of conformity. I found the whole first part of the film - what happens on BBMountain -  so beautiful. Without society, which doesn't go to BBM, Jack and Ennis discover true love. Not gay love, because I don't think the film is a "gay romance", it's a romance period. But when they leave the mountain, things change. The scene where they go their separate ways is so painful. It's almost incredible that they're suddenly so uncomfortable with each other.
I sort of like the fact that they don't actually say goodbye. Ennis says "I guess we'll see ya round.' as if they might bump into each other at a barbecue somewhere. I see it as admitting that they can't believe that they won't get together again.
But they don't promise to get together again. It's as if what they had on the mountain went out of their mind. The conflict of what they can say in public, and what they feel inside.
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Re: Love is a Force of Nature
« Reply #3 on: Jan 31, 2006, 07:59 PM »
Love is a Force of Nature
In the end, society really does win out.  They forsake nature except for brief moments when they are so starved they can stand it no longer.  That's the true tragedy of it all.  In the need for self preservation, Ennis chooses a lesser of two "evils."

Your essay makes so many good points, I don't know where to begin. I too was moved by the theme of the pressures of conformity. I found the whole first part of the film - what happens on BBMountain -  so beautiful. Without society, which doesn't go to BBM, Jack and Ennis discover true love. Not gay love, because I don't think the film is a "gay romance", it's a romance period. But when they leave the mountain, things change. The scene where they go their separate ways is so painful. It's almost incredible that they're suddenly so uncomfortable with each other.
I sort of like the fact that they don't actually say goodbye. Ennis says "I guess we'll see ya round.' as if they might bump into each other at a barbecue somewhere. I see it as admitting that they can't believe that they won't get together again.
But they don't promise to get together again. It's as if what they had on the mountain went out of their mind. The conflict of what they can say in public, and what they feel inside.
Stephan

These are all incredibly good points. The other side of the coin for the conflict between societal expectations and personal urges is that the movie has a very real intention of evoking some kind of feeling from anyone and everyone who watches the film.  I think that is why the tragedy of it all is so bare and primal and violent - a little like the 1st tent scene (that I also agree is absolutely necessary).  I think without that scene, Jack's flashback scene (when Ennis comes up behind him and pulls him close) becomes less intense.  As it is, you know that Ennis is capable of harming physically, that he is capable of raw, animalistic sexual release but also capable of absolute tenderness and sensitivity.  They never utter the words "I love you" to each other - they may not have even understood it to be love (well, maybe Jack did).

"Two souls came together pre-determined to be one, but the headless scorn of those around, made sure that the bonds came undone."

Love is indeed a force of nature.

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Re: Love is a Force of Nature
« Reply #4 on: Feb 02, 2006, 10:40 AM »
I gotta quit this board! *laughing* No really! I have to get ready for work!! Aside from the amazing impact from the film, these wonderful insights and different takes you all keep posting here just keep me coming back and back and back. Scruffy, you were able to explain concisely why the violent lovemaking in the first tent scene is so essential the film's message. I had at first thought that their physical desire for each other came as a surprise to them both, but after subsequent readings/viewings it is at least ambiguous whether this is true on Jack's part. I think your analysis nails it, and Gyllenhaal has said that it's all about the ying and yang of these two souls. Beautifully put y'all. Now I really gotta go!!
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