I don't think anyone here has an intention to reduce BBM to anything, least of all a porn film... although I get your point patriot, especially after reading the "horniest Jake scene" thread (you can really think we're talking about porn scenes when you read some of the posts...). I personally would be deeply disappointed if someone told me that the movie's highlight for them was to watch Jake and Heath making out, because that would mean they missed the whole point. This movie is so much more than just two guys going at each other and I'm sure all the members of ennisjack.com agree with that, so I take most of these posts as people making jokes and fooling around a little, I don't think that this is really the way people here view BBM.
Personally I wouldn't object more intimate scenes like the motel room scene. no, I'm not asking for another FNIT, I don't expect to see them screwing (pardon my bluntness) throughout the whole film, I guess that would really be tasteless. But a scene like the motel room - you don't see them having sex, you see them in a rare moment of closeness and intimacy, you see the deep love they share with each other. you see that in their smiles, in the way Jack holds Ennis and whispers into his hair, in the way Ennis strokes Jack's arm. that's totally beautifull and there's no harm in wanting a few more moments like that, I think... because after the reunion we barely see any signs of affection on their part, we see them riding and talking and arguing but we hardly see them show affection for each other, with the exeption of the last night when we see them sleeping and Ennis has his arm around Jack. one can almost get the feeling that they really are just fishing buddies, and we know they're so much more. I'd love to see more moments of love, tenderness, happiness between them - it doesn't have to be sex. but something like the motel room scene, when they're just lying in each other's arms and you know that both of them are so happy and peacefull now, and you can feel their love and their joy fill your heart - yeah, I definitelly wouldn't mind seeing more of that. we've all cried so much over their tragedy, it's only natural we'd want to share their few moments of bliss.