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Yes, in the case of Ennis & Jack, I do see their love as "star-crossed from the onset."
However, I don't know what change might have been possible for either of them to make that might have made it possible for love to become permanent between them. We find ourselves attracted to who we find ourselves attracted to. We live with who we can. Sometimes the two - who we are attracted to, who we can live with - aren't the same.
Was the ending of Brokeback Mountain inevitable (given this "diametric opposition" between the characters of Ennis & Jack)?
I urge you listen to Michael Silverblatt's 30 minute interview with Annie Proulx on "Bookworm," a radio program on KCRW-FM.
You can listen to it on the KCRW website. KCRW is the "flagship radio station of National Public Radio (NPR) on the west coast" according to the entry for it in wikipedia.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/KCRWThe interview with Annie Proulx was on January 19, 2006. You can listen to it on the Internet on KCRW-FM's website.
www.kcrw.com/sitesearch?dosearch=1&SearchableText=Annie+Proulx Annie Proulx also did an earlier shorter (15 minute) interview with Michael Silverblatt on "Bookworn" on KCRW-FM on August 19, 1999.
In her January 19, 2006 "Bookworm" interview, Annie Proulx said Brokeback Mountain wouldn't work as a story if she let Ennis & Jack stay together. She discusses her opinion of the movie at the end of the interview.
Annie Proulx said she felt as if Heath Ledger had read her mind and crawled inside it (with his portrayal of Ennis del Mar in the movie). Heath Ledger in the movie was what Ennis del Mar was for her in the story. (Obviously, this is a question of personality not physical appearance. In the short story, for example, Ennis has a narrow face.)
Annie Proulx said that she had just been able to Ennis & Jack out of her head, after being there for several years, when the movie came out. Then they came rushing back in.
On her website (annieproulx.com), she said that she only used characters as plot devices in her stories. But in another section of her website she said she lied when she said that. It was different for her with Ennis & Jack. She loved Ennis & Jack.
In her KCRW "Bookworm" interview, Annie Proulx said Ennis & Jack were her first characters who took on a life of their own. In other words, as a writer she had to "listen" to them since they had developed minds of their own. (Their thoughts, emotions, inclinations, and decisions became independent of what she wanted.)
She said that she felt as if the story came from somewhere, someone outside of her. She had the feeling she was being guided in its writing.
She said Jake Gyllenhaal had his own vision of who Jack Twist was. Of course, Jack is a somewhat different character in the short story than he is in the movie (not just in physical appearance, but also in his personality). I remember reading somewhere that Ang Lee wanted Jake Gyllenhaal to be "New West" in comparison to Heath Ledger (representing the "Old West" in his portrayal of Ennis del Mar).
On Gay.com there's an interview with the movie's director, Ang Lee ("Brokeback Mountain" -- as gay as it gets: An interview with Ang Lee"; interviewer: Robert Ordona).
http://www.gay.com/entertainment/interview.html?sernum=1139&navpath=/channels/entertainment/brokeback/In his interview, Ang Lee describes Ennis as having "...no vocabulary to understand what he feels. He's self-loathing and in denial -- he denies even his own existence. There's something poignant and beautiful about him, but also tragic." Ennis stands for the "...conservative side of America. He's the biggest homophobe in the whole movie -- culturally and psychologically -- but by the time he admits his feelings, it's too late."
For Ang Lee, "Jack is more knowing and less denying. In a way he's the all-American boy -- dreamy and romantic, adventurous."
Obviously, Ang Lee's characterization of Ennis & Jack would reverse my characterization of Ennis as "mainstream gay" and Jack as "masculine gay." But I still find Ennis (underneath it all) to still be "mainstream." (Perhaps Ennis is secretly "gay mainstream," giving Ennis a second "secret" in addition to his being homosexual). For me, Jack remains "masculine."
Of course, in 1963, Ennis & Jack would have no idea what the difference between the "mainstream" gay and the "masculine" gay subcultures were. But that might have changed twenty years later. Certainly, there were plenty of news stories in the newspapers and television news by that time. Ennis knew something about "Mexico" (that men went there for homosexual sex). How did Ennis know anything about "Mexico"? Who did he hear it from? Where did he hear it? Jack, having sex with lots of men over the years, probably knew a lot about gay culture, probably more than Ennis.
In the interview, Ang Lee explains that the characters of Ennis & Jack are different in the movie from Annie Proulx's short story, simply saying: "Movies and books are different." For him, Brokeback Mountain is a romantic love story. The characters have to fit the genre of "romantic love story." Jake Gyllenhaal was suitable as a romantic figure. But his "Jack Twist" was a deviation from the short story, where "bulkier and stockier and more manly."
From Ang Lee's perspective, "...a good couple is quite opposite from each other in disposition and appearance. I think Heath and Jake made a good couple -- plus they're good actors." This helped the film to function well as a love story.
Obviously, from this point of view, opposites can not only be attracted to each other. They can also complement each other.