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Title: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: jackster on Feb 11, 2009, 03:20 AM
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Everybody is moved by this scene, especially how it is magically transformed from Annie’s words to the screen in one of the most (some would say THE most) unforgettable visual couplings ever constructed in moviedom. There are several aspects of this scene that are intriguing to me. First, is the phenomena of memory itself - what's your best memory from 20 years ago? How accurately do you feel it would match someone else’s memory of the same emotional event? I believe trial lawyers say that eyewitness accounts of events are often the most misleading and undependable because two people seeing the same thing will describe it very differently. So here we're looking back through Jack's eyes at an event 20 years ago, during what we're told (by Lureen) to be the very happiest time in his life (summer on Brokeback), involving the most significant person in his life. A chance for his own hallucination or at least aggrandizement of events here? by Jack Twist – “Like most a Jack’s ideas . . . / where bluebirds sing and there's a whiskey spring” - Seems very possible to me, I’m not saying this is so mind you, but possible, given the very creative way that Annie has woven this tale and developed the mind of Jack Twist.

Secondly, there is the contridictions we're presented with between the SS and the movie regarding the nature of the DE (Dozy Embrace) events. From the SS . . .

What Jack remembered and craved in a way he could neither help nor understand was the time that distant summer on Brokeback when Ennis had come up behind him and pulled him close, the silent embrace satisfying some shared and sexless hunger.

They had stood that way for a long time in front of the fire, its burning tossing ruddy chunks of light, the shadow of their bodies a single column against the rock. The minutes ticked by from the round watch in Ennis's pocket, from the sticks in the fire settling into coals. Stars bit through the wavy heat layers above the fire. Ennis's breath came slow and quiet, he hummed, rocked a little in the sparklight, and Jack leaned against the steady heartbeat, the vibrations of the humming like faint electricity and, standing, he fell into sleep that was not sleep but something else drowsy and tranced until Ennis, dredging up a rusty but still usable phrase from the childhood time before his mother died, said, "Time to hit the hay, cowboy. I got a go. Come on, you're sleepin on your feet like a horse," and gave Jack a shake, a push, and went off in the darkness. Jack heard his spurs tremble as he mounted, the words "See you tomorrow," and the horse's shuddering snort, grind of hoof on stone.

Later, that dozy embrace solidified in his memory as the single moment of artless, charmed happiness in their separate and difficult lives. Nothing marred it, even the knowledge that Ennis would not then embrace him face to face because he did not want to see or feel that it was Jack he held. And maybe, he thought, they'd never got much farther than that. Let be, let be.

Annie’s said she struggled for a long time developing this incredible word picture where Jack remembers a recalcitrant but passionate Ennis (I believe she said her most difficult task of the entire story). But, in the movie, we see not one, not two, but three instances where Ennis kisses Jack, and not innocent little pecks, but passionate face-to-face, wet frontal assaults. The romantic SNIT; the knock your hat off post SNIT campsite frolic; and the super heated reunion in ‘67. In the movie Ennis had no trouble with a full frontal embrace and a real taste of Jack. The last two apparently instigated by Ennis. Ain’t no reins here.

The reunion kiss is described in the SS as a hot jolt, an almost out-of-body experience for Ennis. So I tend to think of it as possibly not “rational”, he was simply crazed with lust in that moment (almost like FNIT, huh?). But there are these other two pretty damn good kisses in the film. So what going on? The SS description of Jack’s reverie in the DE doesn’t actually match events portrayed in film. Is this discordance a problem? The difference between Jack’s memory of the DE (twenty years later) and the reality we’re shown? Do these contradictions make the DE less significant because we know Ennis’s passion not only allowed him, but also forced him to kiss Jack him face to face? And repeatedly, not only the several times we see, but by implication during other passionate moments (my interpretation).

Would the film Dozy Embrace be more powerful if it and the reunion kiss were the ONLY two moments of romantic passion we see in the film, as they are in the SS? Almost everyone wants to see more romance (me too), but I wonder if this is a case of “less is more”.

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Feb 11, 2009, 09:02 AM
Thanks Jackster for starting this interesting topic.

Frankly, I thought that Ennis swinging between recklessness and recalcitrance was very realistic.   Admittedly, this attitude is based off of personal experience, having known one or two people in real life that actually actually behaved this way.  So I did appreciate seeing the other scenes showing a more passionate Ennis, because it seemed to demonstrate that a person who tried to keep control over himself most of the time would invariably lose control sometimes.

The recklessness also shows itself in less dramatic ways -- such as in Ennis's carelessness in covering up his activities during the fishing trips with Jack.  It shows the "split tendency" of such people better, IMO.

I hope this makes sense...
 
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: Ranchand1 on Feb 12, 2009, 11:54 PM
    I don't see the contradictions much Jackster.  The DE happened in there first summer and yes there was that one drunken night of a reluctant face to face kiss before Jack was quickly turned over.  But we don't know when the DE happened.  Was it the first night after there first encounter.  Probably not since a man like Ennis would need more time and space to work through something like that.  <As we see him leave the next morning.>  But not to terribly long cause shortly after that were told and see the tent and trees were being shook all the time. SO the DE , when did it happen?  After all summer makein love?  Or after weeks or even a month, when Ennis got a grip and started letting go. The DE was well before all the other things like the kiss at his home or the hotel.  The memory seems solid.  Not to embellished.  Truthful to its point.  Sometimes what we remember or even describe is also better than what actually was.  And that, I think, is OK.

      Maybe Im way off.  Are you sayin the DE might not really a happen at all but was pieced together though the fog of memory and happenings over 20 years.  Either way it was what stayed with him.  Kept him commin back.  Till the bitter end of it all.

       Then again maybe I misunderstood what you was going on about and I need more splainin.  What were we talkin about again?

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Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: vedrana on Feb 13, 2009, 05:30 AM
I also see not enough evidence that DE could be a distorted or a false memory.  ~)

I believe that human being can absolutely keep memory for 20 years especially the things that hit us at the time. And Jack was deeply moved by Ennis's hug and humming and all the love he felt coming from him during the DE.

The one thing that is also worthy of mentioning  is that the feeling of the hug, the emotions passed from Ennis to Jack were described just through Ennis. And Jack was the one who held on to this memory. Very interesting way of introducing the scene in SS, - one is remembering the embrace, but the embrace is given through the other one's emotions. So, if we get the explanation of the DE through Ennis, that means that it was the true memory! IMHO....

Here we come back to the mirroring of their lives, feelings, fears and destiny... Anything that had risen in one, found it's reflection in other.  <^(
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Feb 13, 2009, 08:08 AM
    Maybe Im way off.  Are you sayin the DE might not really a happen at all but was pieced together though the fog of memory and happenings over 20 years.  Either way it was what stayed with him.  Kept him commin back.  Till the bitter end of it all.

I also see not enough evidence that DE could be a distorted or a false memory.  ~)

I believe that human being can absolutely keep memory for 20 years especially the things that hit us at the time. And Jack was deeply moved by Ennis's hug and humming and all the love he felt coming from him during the DE.

The one thing that is also worthy of mentioning  is that the feeling of the hug, the emotions passed from Ennis to Jack were described just through Ennis. And Jack was the one who held on to this memory. Very interesting way of introducing the scene in SS, - one is remembering the embrace, but the embrace is given through the other one's emotions. So, if we get the explanation of the DE through Ennis, that means that it was the true memory! IMHO....

Here we come back to the mirroring of their lives, feelings, fears and destiny... Anything that had risen in one, found it's reflection in other.  <^(

Whether or not this is what Jackster had in mind, it is nonetheless a thought-provoking proposition.  Interesting comments, Ranchand1 and loreen.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: traveller on Mar 01, 2009, 07:15 PM
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Everybody is moved by this scene, especially how it is magically transformed from Annie’s words to the screen in one of the most (some would say THE most) unforgettable visual couplings ever constructed in moviedom. There are several aspects of this scene that are intriguing to me. First, is the phenomena of memory itself - what's your best memory from 20 years ago? How accurately do you feel it would match someone else’s memory of the same emotional event? I believe trial lawyers say that eyewitness accounts of events are often the most misleading and undependable because two people seeing the same thing will describe it very differently. So here we're looking back through Jack's eyes at an event 20 years ago, during what we're told (by Lureen) to be the very happiest time in his life (summer on Brokeback), involving the most significant person in his life. A chance for his own hallucination or at least aggrandizement of events here? by Jack Twist – “Like most a Jack’s ideas . . . / where bluebirds sing and there's a whiskey spring” - Seems very possible to me, I’m not saying this is so mind you, but possible, given the very creative way that Annie has woven this tale and developed the mind of Jack Twist.

Secondly, there is the contridictions we're presented with between the SS and the movie regarding the nature of the DE (Dozy Embrace) events. From the SS . . .

What Jack remembered and craved in a way he could neither help nor understand was the time that distant summer on Brokeback when Ennis had come up behind him and pulled him close, the silent embrace satisfying some shared and sexless hunger.

They had stood that way for a long time in front of the fire, its burning tossing ruddy chunks of light, the shadow of their bodies a single column against the rock. The minutes ticked by from the round watch in Ennis's pocket, from the sticks in the fire settling into coals. Stars bit through the wavy heat layers above the fire. Ennis's breath came slow and quiet, he hummed, rocked a little in the sparklight, and Jack leaned against the steady heartbeat, the vibrations of the humming like faint electricity and, standing, he fell into sleep that was not sleep but something else drowsy and tranced until Ennis, dredging up a rusty but still usable phrase from the childhood time before his mother died, said, "Time to hit the hay, cowboy. I got a go. Come on, you're sleepin on your feet like a horse," and gave Jack a shake, a push, and went off in the darkness. Jack heard his spurs tremble as he mounted, the words "See you tomorrow," and the horse's shuddering snort, grind of hoof on stone.

Later, that dozy embrace solidified in his memory as the single moment of artless, charmed happiness in their separate and difficult lives. Nothing marred it, even the knowledge that Ennis would not then embrace him face to face because he did not want to see or feel that it was Jack he held. And maybe, he thought, they'd never got much farther than that. Let be, let be.

Annie’s said she struggled for a long time developing this incredible word picture where Jack remembers a recalcitrant but passionate Ennis (I believe she said her most difficult task of the entire story). But, in the movie, we see not one, not two, but three instances where Ennis kisses Jack, and not innocent little pecks, but passionate face-to-face, wet frontal assaults. The romantic SNIT; the knock your hat off post SNIT campsite frolic; and the super heated reunion in ‘67. In the movie Ennis had no trouble with a full frontal embrace and a real taste of Jack. The last two apparently instigated by Ennis. Ain’t no reins here.

The reunion kiss is described in the SS as a hot jolt, an almost out-of-body experience for Ennis. So I tend to think of it as possibly not “rational”, he was simply crazed with lust in that moment (almost like FNIT, huh?). But there are these other two pretty damn good kisses in the film. So what going on? The SS description of Jack’s reverie in the DE doesn’t actually match events portrayed in film. Is this discordance a problem? The difference between Jack’s memory of the DE (twenty years later) and the reality we’re shown? Do these contradictions make the DE less significant because we know Ennis’s passion not only allowed him, but also forced him to kiss Jack him face to face? And repeatedly, not only the several times we see, but by implication during other passionate moments (my interpretation).

Would the film Dozy Embrace be more powerful if it and the reunion kiss were the ONLY two moments of romantic passion we see in the film, as they are in the SS? Almost everyone wants to see more romance (me too), but I wonder if this is a case of “less is more”.



I read the whole thread with greatest interest! Since first BBM watching can't stop thinking and analysing the DE scene, looking for the interpretation that would satisfy my  longing for understanding. Reading about "phenomena of memory itself" and about the discordance between Jack's memory of DE and the reality shown by film helps me to name the twinkles of insights I carry in my mind.
What if the interpretation of DE memory given in SS is not only the individual Jack's interpretation (which seems to be a fact) but also the  interpretation for the certain moment in time? Time of final confrontation. For me the significant power of DE shown us only just after killing FC comes from the difference between Jack's interpretation and my own understanding of their true relations. I like Jackster recalled other passionate and definitely face-to-face moment of intimacy. They certailny were not the only ones, there was plenty of others...not recovered to us.....invisible. DE scene hit me so painfully because of the dfference between my vision of them Two and Jack's memory of that. It hurts me so much every single minute I imagine how broken and suffering Jack had to be at that time to lose his faith in Ennis's love. I wrote "love" cos for me the idea of Ennis who 'would not embrace Jack face to face because he did not want to see nor feel that it was Jack he held" means only one - not love at all.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: atalley on Mar 01, 2009, 11:39 PM
I've gotta go w/ Ranchand1 & Loreen on this one.  I think that the Movie wasn't meant to mirror the SS, & that the DE was indeed a memory from their time on BB, & a wonderful memory at that.  It's one of my favorite scenes. :gnight:
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 02, 2009, 09:10 AM
I read the whole thread with greatest interest! Since first BBM watching can't stop thinking and analysing the DE scene, looking for the interpretation that would satisfy my  longing for understanding. Reading about "phenomena of memory itself" and about the discordance between Jack's memory of DE and the reality shown by film helps me to name the twinkles of insights I carry in my mind.
What if the interpretation of DE memory given in SS is not only the individual Jack's interpretation (which seems to be a fact) but also the  interpretation for the certain moment in time? Time of final confrontation. For me the significant power of DE shown us only just after killing FC comes from the difference between Jack's interpretation and my own understanding of their true relations. I like Jackster recalled other passionate and definitely face-to-face moment of intimacy. They certailny were not the only ones, there was plenty of others...not recovered to us.....invisible. DE scene hit me so painfully because of the dfference between my vision of them Two and Jack's memory of that. It hurts me so much every single minute I imagine how broken and suffering Jack had to be at that time to lose his faith in Ennis's love. I wrote "love" cos for me the idea of Ennis who 'would not embrace Jack face to face because he did not want to see nor feel that it was Jack he held" means only one - not love at all.

Hello skrzatka.  :)

If I understand you correctly, I would say that the memory of the DE could very well be a viewpoint at a certain moment in time -- during the crucial moment of the Last Confrontation.  I admit that to me, it is a valedictory -- a form of summing up everything that Jack felt about the relationship and about his love for Ennis.  But a valedictory may herald a new beginning as much as it signals an end to what has passed.  Perhaps the DE can be interpreted as a renewed commitment from Jack -- independent of whether or not he decides to move on with somebody else to attain his dream of the sweet life.  This might sound apardoxical, but I think perhaps Jack had come to realize that his love for Ennis was not subject to the fulfillment of his dream for the sweet life...
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 02, 2009, 09:15 AM
I've gotta go w/ Ranchand1 & Loreen on this one.  I think that the Movie wasn't meant to mirror the SS, & that the DE was indeed a memory from their time on BB, & a wonderful memory at that.  It's one of my favorite scenes. :gnight:

Well, I think that in spirit, the movie and the ss were very close -- especially in the matter of the DE, don't you agree?  But yes, the movie is not meant simply as a mirror of the ss.  I must admit that the DE seen visually (as envisioned in the movie) truly adds insight to the words on the ss.

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: jackster on Mar 02, 2009, 01:01 PM
Thanks all for very interesting and thoughtful insights: thomas, ranchhand, loreen, skrzatka, atalley. Apologies for my poorly worded statement. I mixed up two issues, my main idea and question was to see if anyone felt that Annie Proulx - in the way she laid out events leading to, and even events subsequent to the mention of the DE, if she was setting the stage for making the DE possibly an invention or at least a substantial creation of Jack’s dreamy imagination. Unfortunately I also brought into the discussion the “variations” between film & SS Dozy Embrace and that kinda’ confused it.  ^*()

Annie makes a point of establishing Jack a “dreamer” wanting things to be so much better than they are, maybe better than they possibly could be. “Nothin never come to my hand the right way.” And I don’t mean with just Ennis, but with life in general. As his bitter father said – “Like most a Jack’s ideas it never come to pass”.

So I’m sitting here wondering, gee, did the DE actually come to pass? We never do see or hear of it from Ennis’s view, only Jacks. Maybe this was another a Jack’s dreams, or maybe a collection of all his dreams. When you read her passage here, it is so beautiful, so impossibly beautiful . . “the shadow of their bodies a single column against the rock. The minutes ticked by from the round watch in Ennis's pocket . . “ Oh man, don’t we all wish we had one moment in our lives like that, one that stuck with us for our entire lives?

Has she turned the entire summer of ’63 up on Brokeback into the Dozy Embrace? Not that it didn’t happen, just that it happened all summer long, and especially after SNIT. It wasn’t false, anymore than our memories of childhood are false. Huh?
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: atalley on Mar 19, 2009, 09:45 PM
This is one of the scenes that touches me the most.  I feel that Jack was indeed thinking back to the Summer of '63 one morning after breakfast, say, when he & Ennis shared this special moment in time.  I'm a hopeless romantic. ;)
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: rimasworld on Mar 19, 2009, 10:07 PM
Well, I think that in spirit, the movie and the ss were very close -- especially in the matter of the DE, don't you agree?  But yes, the movie is not meant simply as a mirror of the ss.  I must admit that the DE seen visually (as envisioned in the movie) truly adds insight to the words on the ss.


Yes I think that it was worked so well in to the film, Jack remembering that right after the FC and watching Ennis drive away. It just gets me every time  :\'(
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 20, 2009, 08:59 AM
Thanks all for very interesting and thoughtful insights: thomas, ranchhand, loreen, skrzatka, atalley. Apologies for my poorly worded statement. I mixed up two issues, my main idea and question was to see if anyone felt that Annie Proulx - in the way she laid out events leading to, and even events subsequent to the mention of the DE, if she was setting the stage for making the DE possibly an invention or at least a substantial creation of Jack’s dreamy imagination. Unfortunately I also brought into the discussion the “variations” between film & SS Dozy Embrace and that kinda’ confused it.  ^*()

Annie makes a point of establishing Jack a “dreamer” wanting things to be so much better than they are, maybe better than they possibly could be. “Nothin never come to my hand the right way.” And I don’t mean with just Ennis, but with life in general. As his bitter father said – “Like most a Jack’s ideas it never come to pass”.

So I’m sitting here wondering, gee, did the DE actually come to pass? We never do see or hear of it from Ennis’s view, only Jacks. Maybe this was another a Jack’s dreams, or maybe a collection of all his dreams. When you read her passage here, it is so beautiful, so impossibly beautiful . . “the shadow of their bodies a single column against the rock. The minutes ticked by from the round watch in Ennis's pocket . . “ Oh man, don’t we all wish we had one moment in our lives like that, one that stuck with us for our entire lives?

Has she turned the entire summer of ’63 up on Brokeback into the Dozy Embrace? Not that it didn’t happen, just that it happened all summer long, and especially after SNIT. It wasn’t false, anymore than our memories of childhood are false. Huh?


You grought up an interesting point Jacster.  Let's assume that DE did indeed happen.  Did Ennis remember it at all as something special?   Did it even register the way it did with Jack?

My suspicion is that it didn't.  Not that this reflected bad on Ennis.   I think that Ennis just reached out to a distant memory as a matter of fact: they way we take certain childhood rituals for granted.  But I think Jack saw this memory of Ennis's mom as something special -- it signified that the love that Ennis had for Jack was deep and genuine, going beyond all physical desire, as in the love of a mother for her child.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: FlwrChild on Mar 20, 2009, 01:24 PM
Interesting point Thomas. And I suspect you're right that Ennis didn't hold onto this memory in the same way that Jack did because Jack was clinging to that sense of a deeper, love-filled relationship during his lifetime and Ennis was still running from the idea at that time.

One can wonder just how many of those avoided memories Ennis may have conjured up after Jack was gone and he'd come to embrace their relationship as love.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: traveller on Mar 20, 2009, 05:32 PM
You grought up an interesting point Jacster.  Let's assume that DE did indeed happen.  Did Ennis remember it at all as something special?   Did it even register the way it did with Jack?

My suspicion is that it didn't.  Not that this reflected bad on Ennis.   I think that Ennis just reached out to a distant memory as a matter of fact: they way we take certain childhood rituals for granted.  But I think Jack saw this memory of Ennis's mom as something special -- it signified that the love that Ennis had for Jack was deep and genuine, going beyond all physical desire, as in the love of a mother for her child.
Interesting point Thomas. And I suspect  you're right that Ennis didn't hold onto this memory in the same way that Jack did because Jack was clinging to that sense of a deeper, love-filled relationship during his lifetime and Ennis was still running from the idea at that time.

One can wonder just how many of those avoided memories Ennis may have conjured up after Jack was gone and he'd come to embrace their relationship as love.

I was also thinking over Ennis's memory of DE. My understanding of them both tells me that maybe Jack remembered DE as something so special not only because DE was for him the sign of Ennis's deep and true love but also because in DE Ennis gave Jack what he himself probably had never had - tenderness and artless love, "the love of a mother for her child".
Looking at myself, I have to say that the memories of receiving are much stronger, than the memories of giving.

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: FlwrChild on Mar 21, 2009, 08:38 AM
Oh traveller  (t) That was beautiful. And I'm looking at Ennis in a whole new way in this scene now too.

And I think you're right. The memories of receving are much stronger than the memories of giving because it can mean so much to receive those gifts.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: traveller on Mar 21, 2009, 06:38 PM
Thank you very much, FlwrChild ^f^

Yes :)  - "it can mean so much to receive those gifts". I am so happy Jack could appreciate Ennis's gift to some degree but at the same time feel so much pain because of his knowledge that Ennis wouldn't embrace him so gently and artlessly face to face "because he did not want to see nor feel that it was Jack he hold" :\'( :\'(
I will never believe it's true.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: FlwrChild on Mar 21, 2009, 08:41 PM
Well remember he wasn't feeling pain about that. AP said:

..."Nothing marred it, even the knowledge..."


And Jack certainly knows now that what was in Ennis' heart was love all along. I think he knew it even then.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: trekfan on Mar 21, 2009, 10:15 PM
my fave scene from the movie  (aside from the SNIT and reunion nuzzle
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 23, 2009, 08:34 AM
Interesting point Thomas. And I suspect you're right that Ennis didn't hold onto this memory in the same way that Jack did because Jack was clinging to that sense of a deeper, love-filled relationship during his lifetime and Ennis was still running from the idea at that time.

One can wonder just how many of those avoided memories Ennis may have conjured up after Jack was gone and he'd come to embrace their relationship as love.

I wonder whether the fact that Ennis's mom dies when Ennis was quite young had anything to say about the DE.  It is telling that Ennis reaches out to a memory of a mother he lost at so critical a time in his life...

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 23, 2009, 08:36 AM
I was also thinking over Ennis's memory of DE. My understanding of them both tells me that maybe Jack remembered DE as something so special not only because DE was for him the sign of Ennis's deep and true love but also because in DE Ennis gave Jack what he himself probably had never had - tenderness and artless love, "the love of a mother for her child".
Looking at myself, I have to say that the memories of receiving are much stronger, than the memories of giving.

Excellent.  THis ties beautifully with my last post:  Ennis gave Jack what he himself probably had never had, which is the love of a mother who died when Ennis probably needed her most...

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 23, 2009, 08:41 AM
my fave scene from the movie  (aside from the SNIT and reunion nuzzle

Certainly my favorite -- real or imagined.  :)

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: myprivatejack on Mar 23, 2009, 10:58 AM
Certainly my favorite -- real or imagined.  :)
I'm turning around this or SNIT as my favorites.And I think it's Jack imagination,or remembrance,of something real applied in a moment when all this past happiness with a probable future ahead had turned into despair and lack of hope in their future.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 24, 2009, 08:23 AM
I'm turning around this or SNIT as my favorites.And I think it's Jack imagination,or remembrance,of something real applied in a moment when all this past happiness with a probable future ahead had turned into despair and lack of hope in their future.

I think what differentiates DE from anything else is that is went way beyond love and desire.  It really was about peace and contentment.  Had Jack died there and then in 63 (assuming that it did indeed happen), I suspect that he wouldn't have minded too much.

If DE was not real, it nonetheless embodied what Jack treasured most about thier love.

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: FlwrChild on Mar 24, 2009, 09:07 AM
Oh that's beautifully put Thomas.

And I would have to agree that this would be one of those "If I died right now I'd die happy" moments for Jack. Everything that their time on the mountain meant to him summed up in one embrace. That is indeed a moment worth holding in your memory.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: myprivatejack on Mar 24, 2009, 11:16 AM
I think what differentiates DE from anything else is that is went way beyond love and desire.  It really was about peace and contentment.  Had Jack died there and then in 63 (assuming that it did indeed happen), I suspect that he wouldn't have minded too much.

If DE was not real, it nonetheless embodied what Jack treasured most about thier love.

Oh that's beautifully put Thomas.

And I would have to agree that this would be one of those "If I died right now I'd die happy" moments for Jack. Everything that their time on the mountain meant to him summed up in one embrace. That is indeed a moment worth holding in your memory.

Wonderful posts,Thomas and Barb ˇ  :clap: Yes,it's one of these moments that means the highest point of a love in the imagination of a lover.And it's the same if it's one's imagination of what could be a perfect symbol of what love is,or a memory of what one felt as this in that very moment.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: traveller on Mar 24, 2009, 06:18 PM
Beautiful posts :clap:
I like when we share our different visions and insights but what I really LOVE is when your insights confirm and justify my vision of them two ^f^ ^f^ ^f^ ^f^
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: atalley on Mar 24, 2009, 09:21 PM
Very good posts, guys!  The DE warms my heart & is a sign of their special bond.  I remember before the movie came out, that this was the pic that touched me the most.  After seeing the movie, I find it 2nd only to SNIT. <^(
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: holyfool on Mar 25, 2009, 03:44 AM




          - maybe cowboy delmar wanted to do "it" standing up???,  like a quickie before he went off to the sheep.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 25, 2009, 08:35 AM
Thanks friends.

I had wondered sometimes whether it would have been better for them to have ended their lives in the summer of 63. 

Jackster had noted whether DE was something like a dream.  But sometimes, I wonder whether it was their life after the summer of 63 that was a dream...

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: babytammy7 on Mar 25, 2009, 09:42 AM
Thanks friends.

I had wondered sometimes whether it would have been better for them to have ended their lives in the summer of 63.  

Jackster had noted whether DE was something like a dream.  But sometimes, I wonder whether it was their life after the summer of 63 that was a dream...


WOW, Thomas...You always leave me speechless. Little gorgeous post, that made me think a lot. Thank you!!  :^^)
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: FlwrChild on Mar 25, 2009, 10:10 AM
Thomas, that's such a good interpretation of the lives they led and how they might have viewed them. When you give up something so valuable to follow what you believe to be your duty, the life you choose can seem less real than the one that lives in your heart, especially if you have such beautiful memories to cement it.

I am reminded of a passage in a book I read last year where two people meet up after many years apart and one tells the other:

"Seeing you here is like waking from a twenty-year coma. You look around you and you find that your wife has left you, your children, whose childhood you totally missed out on, are grown men, some are married, your parents have died long ago, you have no friends, and that tiny face staring at you through goggles belongs to none other than your grandson, who's been brought along to welcome Gramps from his long sleep. Your face in the mirror is as white as Rip Van Winkle's. But here's the catch: you're still tweny years younger than those gathered around you, which is why I can be tweny-four in a second - I am twenty-four..."


He says then that he prefers to call it a parallel life because it sounds better. Jack and Ennis had to live parallel lives and in their case, they were teased occasionally along the way with little snippets of moments when they came out of their comas and back into the summer of '63.

I still haven't figured out which would be worse. To lose it all and wish for the rest of your life that you could have held onto it, but at the same time achieve some sort of closure which is in itself a form of healing? Or to be able to touch it at least now and then but thereby always have the wound exposed of knowing that that is all it can ever be? Either way, it is not at all surprising that a person would hold onto a golden memory like that as the symbol of all that the relationship meant/means to him. Because everything that comes after is really just an attempt to recapture that perfect moment in time.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: atalley on Mar 25, 2009, 03:53 PM



          - maybe cowboy delmar wanted to do "it" standing up???,  like a quickie before he went off to the sheep.

holyfool...have you been smokin' the weed w/ Jack & Ennis?  LOL! ;D
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 26, 2009, 07:39 AM
I just want to share with you here an ongoing exchange about DE and the Last Confrontation in the Favorite Scenes thread.  It highlights the tight relationship between the two scenes -- and whether the DE was fact or fantasy, its emotional impact/significance in our understanding of the Last confrontation is very real:

Thanks Thomas...Thats there but they both r very much co related that I always see them 2 sides of the same coin..When Ennis breaks down in the FC and Jack comforts him, Jack is seeing where the relationship is going..So many years of pain and fears r showing up in the FC..In that moment of pain DE reminds him of one strong and emotional moment spend by both where no fears and pains were surrounding them but just true love..

Then again we see a look of Jack in FC watching Ennis leave..Jack standing there with the image of DE in his heart and the truth of FC in front of his eyes

Yes, they are different sides of the same coin.  And the contrast could not be greater. 

The interesting thing is that in the movie, we see Jack remembering this during Ennis's collapse in the Last Confrontation.  But in the short story, it seems to happen later, after Ennis had left.  Do you get the same impression? 

I think the movie's decision to embed the DE into the Last Confrontation increses the power of the latter and gives the DE more timely significance, by way of contrast.

If you don't mind.  I will also post this exchange in the thread about the DE...


Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 26, 2009, 07:58 AM
WOW, Thomas...You always leave me speechless. Little gorgeous post, that made me think a lot. Thank you!!  :^^)

Thomas, that's such a good interpretation of the lives they led and how they might have viewed them. When you give up something so valuable to follow what you believe to be your duty, the life you choose can seem less real than the one that lives in your heart, especially if you have such beautiful memories to cement it.

I am reminded of a passage in a book I read last year where two people meet up after many years apart and one tells the other:

"Seeing you here is like waking from a twenty-year coma. You look around you and you find that your wife has left you, your children, whose childhood you totally missed out on, are grown men, some are married, your parents have died long ago, you have no friends, and that tiny face staring at you through goggles belongs to none other than your grandson, who's been brought along to welcome Gramps from his long sleep. Your face in the mirror is as white as Rip Van Winkle's. But here's the catch: you're still tweny years younger than those gathered around you, which is why I can be tweny-four in a second - I am twenty-four..."


He says then that he prefers to call it a parallel life because it sounds better. Jack and Ennis had to live parallel lives and in their case, they were teased occasionally along the way with little snippets of moments when they came out of their comas and back into the summer of '63.

I still haven't figured out which would be worse. To lose it all and wish for the rest of your life that you could have held onto it, but at the same time achieve some sort of closure which is in itself a form of healing? Or to be able to touch it at least now and then but thereby always have the wound exposed of knowing that that is all it can ever be? Either way, it is not at all surprising that a person would hold onto a golden memory like that as the symbol of all that the relationship meant/means to him. Because everything that comes after is really just an attempt to recapture that perfect moment in time.

Thanks Tammy and FlwrChild.

The notion of parallel lives does make sense, IMO.  I think that both of them drew from their remembrances of 63, and DE is the one supreme example.

I do feel at times that their "real" lives felt more like dreams.  I think especially of the scenes between Ennis and Alma and when Ennis was laying asphalt on the road.  One has a feeling sometimes that Ennis is dreaming -- although onecould say that it was one of those moments when we came out of the coma, as you say it.

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: smartestsonia on Mar 26, 2009, 08:03 AM
I just want to share with you here an ongoing exchange about DE and the Last Confrontation in the Favorite Scenes thread.  It highlights the tight relationship between the two scenes -- and whether the DE was fact or fantasy, its emotional impact/significance in our understanding of the Last confrontation is very real:

Thank you for adding our exchange in this topic Thomas. I have never posted here before and feel very happy that this topis is started by Jackster..

As to your question, in the SS I feel Jack got this DE impression when he watches Ennis leave..In the SS, Ennis breaks down and then is heading towards his car and Jack watches him leave....

In the film when Ennis breaks down Jack is comforting him and the next moment we see the DE..Well I feel that when DE is going on in the film (remembered by Jack) on the FC side Ennis is heading towards the car and Jack is watching him leave....Then when DE is over and they show a look of Jack watching Ennis leave in the FC, Ennis has taken the car to the end of the road by that time..

Well just an analysis.What do u think ?
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 26, 2009, 08:09 AM
Thank you for adding our exchange in this topic Thomas. I have never posted here before and feel very happy that this topis is started by Jackster..

As to your question, in the SS I feel Jack got this DE impression when he watches Ennis leave..In the SS, Ennis breaks down and then is heading towards his car and Jack watches him leave....

In the film when Ennis breaks down Jack is comforting him and the next moment we see the DE..Well I feel that when DE is going on in the film (remembered by Jack) on the FC side Ennis is heading towards the car and Jack is watching him leave....Then when DE is over and they show a look of Jack watching Ennis leave in the FC, Ennis has taken the car to the end of the road by that time..

Well just an analysis.What do u think ?

Yes, I agree with your analysis. 

I think that in the film, they intentionally embed DE in that scene.  I don't think this was really what the short story implied, but I think it was a wonderful choice.  It increases the intensity of the Last Confrontation so much at that critical point, and the meaning of the DE gets added significance.  Rather than just appearing like a remembrance after the fact, the DE is made to look like a dream.   It becomes much more than an incidental reaching out into distant memory.  Because of its placement in the Last Confrontation, we get the sense that it was very very real.

 

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: FlwrChild on Mar 26, 2009, 08:19 AM
I agree with you both as to the timing of the DE. I think it's less specified in the SS but could easily be in that moment. Because we are able to visualize it in the movie (instead of reading it as a stand alone paragraph) it becomes intertwined as part of the FC scene.

And I think it's natural in that moment for Jack to pull out once again this treasured memory. At a time when their entire relationship had just been pulled out, confronted and then tucked away again, it makes perfect sense to me that this moment, as well as his rumination about how it fits in with all the rest, would be what came to Jack's mind.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: myprivatejack on Mar 26, 2009, 11:14 AM
I agree in that,meanwhile in S.S. the DE time is rather more ambiguous,in the movie it has a reason to be put in this moment and not in any other else...To watch this precious moment forever saved in Jack's mind and heart,precisely in the middle of the FC,is an almost violent cut that shows us how all the perfect love's dreams he had then,have broken down and turned into bitter complaints and,what's worst,the almost total renounce to their accomplishment.As a way to compare both situations for us,the viewers,or as a way to long for the lost hopes in Jack's eyes,it's absolutely meaningful and that's meaning reaches a dramatic point,precisely for this... :\'(
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 27, 2009, 08:15 AM
You know, I woke up this morning with what I thought was a wonderful insight into this dream/reality discussion.  But just right now, I can't seem to remember what I wanted to say or to cite!   ;D

I'll try to remember it and post it as soon as it comes back to me...

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: myprivatejack on Mar 27, 2009, 12:53 PM
You know, I woke up this morning with what I thought was a wonderful insight into this dream/reality discussion.  But just right now, I can't seem to remember what I wanted to say or to cite!   ;D

I'll try to remember it and post it as soon as it comes back to me...
Don't worry,Thomas;you always know what to say or to citeˇ.And I'm not foolin 'ˇ  %(
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: vedrana on Mar 28, 2009, 03:45 PM
I agree in that,meanwhile in S.S. the DE time is rather more ambiguous,in the movie it has a reason to be put in this moment and not in any other else...To watch this precious moment forever saved in Jack's mind and heart,precisely in the middle of the FC,is an almost violent cut that shows us how all the perfect love's dreams he had then,have broken down and turned into bitter complaints and,what's worst,the almost total renounce to their accomplishment.As a way to compare both situations for us,the viewers,or as a way to long for the lost hopes in Jack's eyes,it's absolutely meaningful and that's meaning reaches a dramatic point,precisely for this... :\'(

This is how I see DE too and I think that I've posted that, but maybe was one of the lost. Just to remind - for me DE is a very sad point in BBM coz it represents what they had and what they lost. The contract came from DE during FC is surely a killer point. From the peace to the ruffle, from the freedom to chains of fears, from the youth to the growth, from the chances to  bitterness, from the hope to disappointment, from happiness to sadness .... not to mention that the worst thing was more to come.... :\'(
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: traveller on Mar 29, 2009, 04:39 PM
You know, I woke up this morning with what I thought was a wonderful insight into this dream/reality discussion.  But just right now, I can't seem to remember what I wanted to say or to cite!   ;D

I'll try to remember it and post it as soon as it comes back to me...



That's a pity:-(

As my grandma used to say: it was probably because you looked through the window before putting down your insight (:)
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 30, 2009, 08:41 AM
You know, I did remember what I wanted to say.
:)

In Japanese aesthetics, there is a concept called yugen, which finds its most concrete manifestation in the Japanese Noh drama. 

Yugen can be thought of as an unveiling of something beautiful in half-light -- in a state frequently referred to as the boundary between dream and reality.  In such as state, beauty simply suggests itself, as something mysterious and elusive, and yet palpable and undeniable. 

Yugen tells us that you don't have to understand beauty completely in order to know it and feel that it is real.  As in the DE, the beauty is in its absolute power to evoke/suggest, rather than to state things emphatically in full light.

In other words, the most profound things are best "understood" in the half-light -- knowing that there are certiain things (such as love and beauty) that go beyond absolute human comprehension.




Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: FlwrChild on Mar 30, 2009, 08:45 AM
Thomas, that's a gorgeous philosophy and I love it! It fits absolutely perfectly with the Dozy Embrace.  :c)
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 30, 2009, 08:50 AM
Thomas, that's a gorgeous philosophy and I love it! It fits absolutely perfectly with the Dozy Embrace.  :c)

Thanks FlwrChild.  I was gald that I remembered it over the weekend.  :) 

I had wondered sometimes before whether Ang Lee oandProulx were aware of it...

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: babytammy7 on Mar 30, 2009, 09:00 AM
You know, I did remember what I wanted to say.
:)

In Japanese aesthetics, there is a concept called yugen, which finds its most concrete manifestation in the Japanese Noh drama. 

Yugen can be thought of as an unveiling of something beautiful in half-light -- in a state frequently referred to as the boundary between dream and reality.  In such as state, beauty simply suggests itself, as something mysterious and elusive, and yet palpable and undeniable. 

Yugen tells us that you don't have to understand beauty completely in order to know it and feel that it is real.  As in the DE, the beauty is in its absolute power to evoke/suggest, rather than to state things emphatically in full light.

In other words, the most profound things are best "understood" in the half-light -- knowing that there are certiain things (such as love and beauty) that go beyond absolute human comprehension.


That was utterly beautiful, Thomas.  <^( <^( Love that idea: beauty simply suggests itself in a state as the boundary between dream and reality, elusive and yet palpable.  (t) (t) Awesome. And of course I agree with the last line: love, beauty and also hurt and suffering go beyond human comprehension. That's what I tried to explain in my posts in another thread.

Thank you so much.  :^^)
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 30, 2009, 09:08 AM
You're welcome, Tammy.  I was re-reading a favorite book the other day and somehow got a sense that the concept seemed all too familiar.  It hit me in the shower the next morning that the DE seemed to fit into it.

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: jackster on Mar 30, 2009, 10:02 PM
. . . Yugen can be thought of as an unveiling of something beautiful in half-light -- in a state frequently referred to as the boundary between dream and reality.  In such as state, beauty simply suggests itself, as something mysterious and elusive, and yet palpable and undeniable. . .

Yes thomas, I believe you have made a very appropriate analogy here, especially in regards to Annie's description of the scene:

. . . . that distant summer on Brokeback when Ennis had come
up behind him and pulled him close, the silent embrace satisfying some
shared and sexless hunger.

They had stood that way for a long time in front of the fire, its
burning tossing ruddy chunks of light, the shadow of their bodies a single
column against the rock. The minutes ticked by from the round watch in
Ennis's pocket, from the sticks in the fire settling into coals. Stars bit
through the wavy heat layers above the fire. . . .

She makes it perfectly clear that this is at least a twilight scene, if not darkness, illuminated only by the firelight (and their shared passion). Whether knowingly or not it seems she intended to convey the same concept of the border between a dream world and reality. You've made a wonderful insight here.

(You must have a very inspiring shower  ^-^ )
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: vedrana on Mar 31, 2009, 02:05 AM
You know, I did remember what I wanted to say.
:)

In Japanese aesthetics, there is a concept called yugen, which finds its most concrete manifestation in the Japanese Noh drama. 

Yugen can be thought of as an unveiling of something beautiful in half-light -- in a state frequently referred to as the boundary between dream and reality.  In such as state, beauty simply suggests itself, as something mysterious and elusive, and yet palpable and undeniable. 

Yugen tells us that you don't have to understand beauty completely in order to know it and feel that it is real.  As in the DE, the beauty is in its absolute power to evoke/suggest, rather than to state things emphatically in full light.

In other words, the most profound things are best "understood" in the half-light -- knowing that there are certiain things (such as love and beauty) that go beyond absolute human comprehension.


Beautiful post, tpe!  ^f^

as much as we can apply it to DE, I'd say that it is applicable to the whole magic of BBM.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Mar 31, 2009, 09:19 AM
Beautiful post, tpe!  ^f^

as much as we can apply it to DE, I'd say that it is applicable to the whole magic of BBM.

Thanks loreen.  And you are right.  The dream-reality dichotomy shows itself throughout the story and the movie...

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: FlwrChild on Mar 31, 2009, 12:38 PM
Especially since for them, the dream was what they found together on that mountain and the reality was the world they had to face when they came back down.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: traveller on Mar 31, 2009, 05:47 PM
You know, I did remember what I wanted to say.
:)

In Japanese aesthetics, there is a concept called yugen, which finds its most concrete manifestation in the Japanese Noh drama. 

Yugen can be thought of as an unveiling of something beautiful in half-light -- in a state frequently referred to as the boundary between dream and reality.  In such as state, beauty simply suggests itself, as something mysterious and elusive, and yet palpable and undeniable. 

Yugen tells us that you don't have to understand beauty completely in order to know it and feel that it is real.  As in the DE, the beauty is in its absolute power to evoke/suggest, rather than to state things emphatically in full light.

In other words, the most profound things are best "understood" in the half-light -- knowing that there are certiain things (such as love and beauty) that go beyond absolute human comprehension.






Dear Thomas, it's absolutely beautiful and so encouraging insight that certainly applies not only to our wonderful BBM world ^f^
If I only could absorb this idea truly and deeply, it would help me to be a better person by confirming my belief in magical reality.

What is your favourite book you re-read on the evening before the "yugen morning"?
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: vedrana on Apr 01, 2009, 06:52 AM
Especially since for them, the dream was what they found together on that mountain and the reality was the world they had to face when they came back down.

Moreover, coz through 20 years of their lives they never got to the stage of renewing that Brokeback dream and making it become the truth again, although that was the only thing that both dreamed of...  :(

So, the DE (a moment of a pure sexless love) become a soft pillow where Jack could lay down his head in the most excruciating moment... the moment when he was seeing Ennis of for the last time and facing the oncoming death... :(
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Apr 01, 2009, 08:45 AM
Yes thomas, I believe you have made a very appropriate analogy here, especially in regards to Annie's description of the scene:

. . . . that distant summer on Brokeback when Ennis had come
up behind him and pulled him close, the silent embrace satisfying some
shared and sexless hunger.

They had stood that way for a long time in front of the fire, its
burning tossing ruddy chunks of light, the shadow of their bodies a single
column against the rock. The minutes ticked by from the round watch in
Ennis's pocket, from the sticks in the fire settling into coals. Stars bit
through the wavy heat layers above the fire. . . .

She makes it perfectly clear that this is at least a twilight scene, if not darkness, illuminated only by the firelight (and their shared passion). Whether knowingly or not it seems she intended to convey the same concept of the border between a dream world and reality. You've made a wonderful insight here.

(You must have a very inspiring shower  ^-^ )

How could I have missed your post, Jackster?!

You were right to suggest that the DE sort of belonged to a "dream category".  And I do think that Proulx wanted to suggest this borderland between dream and reality. :)

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Apr 01, 2009, 08:48 AM
Especially since for them, the dream was what they found together on that mountain and the reality was the world they had to face when they came back down.

Or was in fact the dream the reality, and the reality, the dream?

I mean: was not a life of pretending no more real than a dream?

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Apr 01, 2009, 08:52 AM
Dear Thomas, it's absolutely beautiful and so encouraging insight that certainly applies not only to our wonderful BBM world ^f^
If I only could absorb this idea truly and deeply, it would help me to be a better person by confirming my belief in magical reality.

What is your favourite book you re-read on the evening before the "yugen morning"?

Thanks traveller!  I think all of us strive for something like this all the time -- which is why the DE affects us the way it does... a magical reality.

The book is actually a wonderful catalogue to an exhibition at the LA County Museum of Art:  Miracles and Mischief: Noh and Kyogen Theater in Japan. 


(https://ennisjack.com/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lacma.org%2Fart%2Fexhibition%2Fcatalogthumbs%2FNoh_cataloga100x91.jpg&hash=e7d4423822f5eed94ff2564ff3ae97cf17071890)

http://www.lacma.org/art/exhibition/Past/noh/miracles.htm




Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: jackster on Apr 01, 2009, 10:02 AM
Or was in fact the dream the reality, and the reality, the dream?
. . . was not a life of pretending no more real than a dream?


Thomas, your observation is exactly what inspired me to pose this thread question. Jack the dreamer, all of us as dreamers, where does fantasy end and reality begin? "When you wish upon a star . . . ." 
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: traveller on Apr 01, 2009, 05:13 PM
Thanks traveller!  I think all of us strive for something like this all the time -- which is why the DE affects us the way it does... a magical reality.

The book is actually a wonderful catalogue to an exhibition at the LA County Museum of Art:  Miracles and Mischief: Noh and Kyogen Theater in Japan. 


(https://ennisjack.com/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lacma.org%2Fart%2Fexhibition%2Fcatalogthumbs%2FNoh_cataloga100x91.jpg&hash=e7d4423822f5eed94ff2564ff3ae97cf17071890)

http://www.lacma.org/art/exhibition/Past/noh/miracles.htm






Japanese culture. It's always seemed to be so mysterious for me that I've never made effort to know this one just a little bit.
Shame on me.
Thanks for sharing.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: traveller on Apr 01, 2009, 06:34 PM
Your "dream or reality" discussion forces me to stand up for them and the same for myself.

I wish always to see them living their reality up on the Brokeback Mountain, coming down to have their portions of misery in the bad dreams of isolation.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: FlwrChild on Apr 01, 2009, 08:51 PM
Or was in fact the dream the reality, and the reality, the dream?

I mean: was not a life of pretending no more real than a dream?




I suppose for both of them their lives away from each other felt like the dream (or nightmare) and they only truly awoke in each other's presence.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Apr 02, 2009, 08:19 AM
Thomas, your observation is exactly what inspired me to pose this thread question. Jack the dreamer, all of us as dreamers, where does fantasy end and reality begin? "When you wish upon a star . . . ." 

By starting this thread, you have asked very deep questions, Jackster.  And I do feel that Proulx and Ang Lee were very much aware of them and tried to evoke them in the ss and the movie.

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Apr 02, 2009, 08:26 AM
Japanese culture. It's always seemed to be so mysterious for me that I've never made effort to know this one just a little bit.
Shame on me.
Thanks for sharing.

Your "dream or reality" discussion forces me to stand up for them and the same for myself.

I wish always to see them living their reality up on the Brokeback Mountain, coming down to have their portions of misery in the bad dreams of isolation.



I suppose for both of them their lives away from each other felt like the dream (or nightmare) and they only truly awoke in each other's presence.

Thanks traveller and flwrchild.

I think this element of dream-reality is very much present in all of Buddhism, which considers all "reality" to be an illusion and that the dream in no more real than reality itself (and is sometimes more real, because we are lifted above the material world.)  I am sure that Ang Lee is very much steeped in this POV.

And YES: they awoke in the presence of the other! 
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: jackster on Apr 02, 2009, 11:14 AM
. . . .  I am sure that Ang Lee is very much steeped in this POV.


Boy, would this make for some interesting conversation with Ang Lee! To get a little insight into his initial reaction to reading both the SS and Screenplay (which do you suppose he read first?). And then garner some slight view of his thinking and interpretation about the Dozy Embrace, did the he connect it's dreamy quality with the Buddist experience, maybe even subconsciously? Ang is so shy and quiet it might take a very talented person to draw him out on this. Of course this what a truly wonderful followup or expanded Blu-Ray DVD would contain. I hope I live to see it some day. And how very sad that our transforming protagonist will not be here to contribute his interpretation also.  :-\\
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: traveller on Apr 02, 2009, 05:40 PM
I LOVE you recall the Buddhist beliefs because it reminds us of Ennis's and Jack's chance to overcome their karma! At the same time I am not sure if their untamed and "no reins on this one" love would fit to Buddhist calm ;)
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Apr 03, 2009, 08:01 AM
Boy, would this make for some interesting conversation with Ang Lee! To get a little insight into his initial reaction to reading both the SS and Screenplay (which do you suppose he read first?). And then garner some slight view of his thinking and interpretation about the Dozy Embrace, did the he connect it's dreamy quality with the Buddist experience, maybe even subconsciously? Ang is so shy and quiet it might take a very talented person to draw him out on this. Of course this what a truly wonderful followup or expanded Blu-Ray DVD would contain. I hope I live to see it some day. And how very sad that our transforming protagonist will not be here to contribute his interpretation also.  :-\\

Oh God -- even a commentary by Ang Lee would be priceless!  I wish that someday, he would write down the thoughts and motivations surrounding his work -- BBM, most of all, and the DE in particular.  I wouldn't be surprised if he does bring up something close to what we have been discussing here. 

I also think we have indeed missed the chance.  I don't think we will ever know much of Heath's thoughts about the creation of BBM.  But the remaining cast and crew can still shed some light into this -- especially in the important scenes such as the DE...

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Apr 03, 2009, 08:06 AM
I LOVE you recall the Buddhist beliefs because it reminds us of Ennis's and Jack's chance to overcome their karma! At the same time I am not sure if their untamed and "no reins on this one" love would fit to Buddhist calm ;)

You hit the nail on the head.  In other discussions, I have noted that you can possibly interpret the tragedy of BBM as a Buddhist moral on the illusionary nature of life and love. 

And IMO, you can make an interpretation of the DE and BBM itslef as some expression of what is commonly called "Karmic Retribution"  -- that it not about suffering but about realization, or the waking up from the dream of what we call "relaity".

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: jackster on Apr 03, 2009, 08:48 AM
. . .  BBM itself as some expression of what is commonly called "Karmic Retribution"  -- that it is not about suffering, but about realization, or the waking up from the dream of what we call "reality".


Thomas, I agree fully with your (and travellers) expression here.
What we're seeing here is the evolution (and growth) of a man.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: traveller on Apr 05, 2009, 05:17 PM
Your posts interprating the DE and the BBM in terms of the Buddhist beliefs have been more revealing to me than I though reading them first time.
One of my worst concern after entering BBM world was the lost of my ability to be in my present. Thinking of BBM as of Karmic Retribution gives me chance to absorb its tragedy in terms of karmic "cause and effect" law which always brings hope and helps to find the sense. It is like looking for reasons of their lost happiness and believing in their evaluation.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Apr 06, 2009, 08:20 AM
Thomas, I agree fully with your (and travellers) expression here.
What we're seeing here is the evolution (and growth) of a man.

And like growth, it can be painful at times... 
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Apr 06, 2009, 08:23 AM
Your posts interprating the DE and the BBM in terms of the Buddhist beliefs have been more revealing to me than I though reading them first time.
One of my worst concern after entering BBM world was the lost of my ability to be in my present. Thinking of BBM as of Karmic Retribution gives me chance to absorb its tragedy in terms of karmic "cause and effect" law which always brings hope and helps to find the sense. It is like looking for reasons of their lost happiness and believing in their evaluation.

Viewed from this vantage point, we can see the final scenes of BBM with a certain dispassion, which is to free oneself of pain.  (It approaches the Greek ideal of katharsis in this regard.)  To be sure, the "passionless" love in the DE is the mirror by which we want to remember both of them forever.

 
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: athena0204 on Sep 06, 2009, 03:12 PM
Well when you truly love someone as much as Jack loved Ennis, time cannot do anything to the memories. I don't find anything odd about Jack remembering that moment so vividly. I believe there were many things and times about Ennis he remembered vividly over the years, the dozy embrace was just one of them and was shown in the story and the film because it happened at the time they had first fallen in love, at the beginning, when everything could have been just like that always. It is shown at their last meeting before Jack leaves this world because Jack is looking back at the past two decades, looking at how painful it's been to be apart from Ennis for most of the time, living only for those few times a year they could be together, looking back and regretting the time they'd lost and the sadness they'd been through, he remembered that summer when everything seemed possible, when he had so much hope of life being like this, always. It's no surprise he had such vivid memories of his time together with Ennis, true love is remarkable and extraordinary like that. I believe Ennis had his own memories of them being together too. In the last scene where he hugs the shirts, it feels like all the memories of two decades are flooding through his mind and he's overwhelmed with emotion and his immense and deep love for Jack.
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: myprivatejack on Sep 07, 2009, 11:04 AM
I think DE was somehow magnified in Jack's mind precisely for meaning such a great and cruel contrast between what they were living then and in the moment they had the LC.And I'd add between how they were living then and while Jack was remembering it; when they were in BBM,they felt free,in love,with all the strength to face the whole rest of the world,that,on the other side,was far away from them.After LC,on the contrary,they had finished all their strength,because the world,the society has won them and made them feel slave of their environment and,sometimes,of their own feelings-specially in Ennis case-.When the difference between what the moments we lived from illusions and hopes and the moments we lived from memories is so brutal,all of us tend to hang us on our old dreams,these hopes that have turned into bitter truths.And in the middle,there's always some fantasy we put on them,because we need to believe everything was better still than it was.Even if BBM moments were paradise on Earth for both of them... :\'(
Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Sep 08, 2009, 07:31 AM


The DE may have been the closest Jack ever got to the absolute feeling of contentment.  Not happiness or sadness -- just contentment.  There is a whole world of difference...

Thanks Athena and MPJ.

Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: hpv on Sep 10, 2009, 06:03 AM
The DE may have been the closest Jack ever got to the absolute feeling of contentment.  Not happiness or sadness -- just contentment.  There is a whole world of difference...
I agree with you completely  O0

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Title: Re: Dozy Embrace – Fact, Fantasy, Both
Post by: tpe on Sep 10, 2009, 06:57 AM
Thanks hpv!  :)