To Patriot1,
Well, as far as I can tell, there's a pretty defined presence of gays and lesbians in Wyoming. There seems to be a little bit of fear of coming out due to incidents of the past (Matt Shepard), but I worked for a lesbian couple and also worked with a couple of lesbians and a couple of gay men. I'm still friends with the guys. They're as open as they feel they should be and if nothing else are happy in their skins. I also went to school with a kid for years who is gay.
I must say that when I started working, I was pretty sheltered, so it took me months to figure out that my bosses were gay. They wear wedding rings, so I figured they had husbands. The clincher though is that the rings are identical. There were other clues too so I just kept quiet about it and eventually it just clicked. But then again, they aren't as open about it seeing that they run a business.
My buddies are just like anybody else. Lonely for companionship and tired of playing head games. They're great friends though because they can accept me as I am. I'm a little on the heavy side, and they can see past that to the fact that I'm a great person.
For the people I know and have talked to, life seems as normal as it can be. They hate it when people label them. They just want to be accepted for who they are and not as "Oh, this is so and so and he/she is gay."
Does that answer your question well enough? I refuse to give names or locations as I don't know where people are and I don't exactly want anything to happen to anybody I'm close to. I hope you respect that.
Any other questions?
Keep smiling!
CP
