I think I understood your point of view correctly , but you also have to bare in mind that some of us have had no previous knowledge about this matter whatsoever. As I once said, for me it was the first time to saw 2 men kissing! Not to mention the rest...
OK. But I should add that being unbiased ("virgin") about things can also help as much as it can limit...
Considering my time consuming investigations around the thread about some facts , I am not so sure that absence of the knowledge in this matter can be helpful. But apparently all of us can only say what we think and feel, and in the end - no one knows for sure. Though, it would be nice if we could have had a little peek, just to be sure ....