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Title: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Patriot1 on Feb 04, 2006, 05:48 PM
Until Ennis saw the two shirts in Jacks room do you think he really knew how much Jack loved him and that it was more than a deep sexual friendship?

Inquiring minds want to know.
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: rikcub on Feb 04, 2006, 06:33 PM
Until Ennis saw the two shirts in Jacks room do you think he really knew how much Jack loved him and that it was more than a deep sexual friendship?

Inquiring minds want to know.


Jack had told him and demonstrated it on many occasions so I think he knew.  Having said that I believe the full impact hit him when he found the shirts.  Plus at that point he knew it was too late to do anything about it.  :'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: Patriot1 on Feb 04, 2006, 07:23 PM
Jack had told him and demonstrated it on many occasions so I think he knew.  Having said that I believe the full impact hit him when he found the shirts.  Plus at that point he knew it was too late to do anything about it.  :'(

Yes, Jack had told him but Ennis knew Jack was going to Mexico.  Ennis on the other hand stayed celibate (except with Alma of course.  But even that was half hearted and with little to no love.) So with Jack going to Mexico could Ennis have thought Jack was just saying he cared for Ennis?

When Ennis told Jack that what he didn't know could get Jack killed I heard, I love you more than anyone I have ever loved in my life and you don't really feel the same way because you go to Mexico while I do without.

I don't know ... just thinking "out loud."
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: rane99 on Feb 04, 2006, 07:26 PM
I think Ennis knew. For a guy to ask another guy in that time and place to want to ranch together was pretty bold.  Jack clearly made his intentions known. I think since Jack made it clear to Ennis on their last trip that 'Brokeback Mountain was all they had' for Ennis to find those shirts from their  first trip to Brokeback, thus finding a piece of Jack, he is telling us what he wanted but not able to ask for.  For Ennis to want those shirts, not to mention letting Jack's parents know he wanted them shows some growth on Ennis' part.
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: Patriot1 on Feb 04, 2006, 09:46 PM
I think Ennis knew. For a guy to ask another guy in that time and place to want to ranch together was pretty bold.

Yes, that is true.  But Ennis knew they both enjoyed each others company and knew they were having fantastic sex together and that alone might make Jack want to live together---just so they could have that sex more often.

I am just not sure Ennis realized just how much more than the great sex and companionship Jack felt for him until he saw Jack's shirt holding his and through that, Jack holding him.

Annie wrote it and Ang made it so there could be any interpretation of the scene.  That is why they are such great artists.  But I was just wondering what others came away with from that scene.

I appreciate everyone's input.

That was such a beautiful scene I still get teary eyed thinking about it.

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For Ennis to want those shirts, not to mention letting Jack's parents know he wanted them shows some growth on Ennis' part.

Oh yes, I agree.  I felt like at that point he didn't care if anyone knew his feelings for Jack.  He had been so fearful of anyone knowing until that point.
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: Cowboy Cody on Feb 04, 2006, 10:05 PM
I think Ennis knew, but not how deeply that silent current was running. Running it was, strong, swift, and full tilt. I think when he saw the shirts he finally understood the depth of love that Jack had for him. The shirt scene gets me ever time. But I will tell you, it makes me realize how precious any time is spent with the one you love.
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: rabjr1 on Feb 06, 2006, 07:54 AM
Think about it, Ennis gets the news that Jack is dead through the MAIL!!!!!  so cold  followed by Lureen, Lady Stinking Macbeth, Twist's conversation.

You have been in love with a man for 20 years starting at the best time of your life. You find out he was killed months earlier you never got to see him  or go to his funeral.  You have no closure.  He was creamated there is nothing left but ashes and you don't even get to see them.  That to me is the most unbearable pain anyone could suffer.  You have lost the love of your life and there is NOTHING left??!!????
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: Cowboy Cody on Feb 06, 2006, 09:45 AM
Pretty cold hearted, I agree, but on the other hand, Ennis could have written sooner, hell he should of been calling Jack.
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: rabjr1 on Feb 06, 2006, 02:48 PM
Communication was not one of their strong suits, you're right he should have called more often but maybe that is just how they kept in contact- by postcard. 
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: romeshvr on Feb 06, 2006, 10:41 PM
Think about it, Ennis gets the news that Jack is dead through the MAIL!!!!!  so cold  followed by Lureen, Lady Stinking Macbeth, Twist's conversation.

You have been in love with a man for 20 years starting at the best time of your life. You find out he was killed months earlier you never got to see him  or go to his funeral.  You have no closure.  He was creamated there is nothing left but ashes and you don't even get to see them.  That to me is the most unbearable pain anyone could suffer.  You have lost the love of your life and there is NOTHING left??!!????

Thanks robj1.  You wrote what I couldn't.  There is no closure.  Ennis didn't get to go to the funeral like you said or even see the ashes when he went to Lightnin Flat, which I found strange.  I don't think Ennis went to Texas either so really he didn't have a chance to say a final goodbye Jack F****** Twist.  To lose any human being is hard, but to lose the love of your life is even harder I think, especially for someone like Ennis.  As humans we all need closure and without it the wound is wide open and raw.  I think this is why the story is haunting and sad.  All this because a card was returned stamped DECEASED.  Can you imagine what would have happend if the card never came back.  Okay, Ennis would have called but if he didn't...yikes...
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: Cowboy Cody on Feb 06, 2006, 10:51 PM
How callous and cold to get a postcard back stamped deceased, Lureen = ice princess. She had to be the one who sent it back! I can't and don't want to imagine what I would go through if I lost my Bubba.
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: rabjr1 on Feb 07, 2006, 12:34 AM
I learned an interesting thing about the dynamics of death.  It brings out the worst in the people you expect the best from and the best from people you never expect anything from.  I went through a friends death 16 years ago and while some of his relatives were ripping him off just hours before he died I chose to onlyl remember a simple act of kindness from a casual acquaintance that helped me get through it all and get closure. 
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: Sweet Soul Ennis on Feb 07, 2006, 07:49 AM
Yes, that is true.  But Ennis knew they both enjoyed each others company and knew they were having fantastic sex together and that alone might make Jack want to live together---just so they could have that sex more often.

I am just not sure Ennis realized just how much more than the great sex and companionship Jack felt for him until he saw Jack's shirt holding his and through that, Jack holding him.

In the story, I got a similiar sense about Jack: that he enjoyed Ennis's company and the fantastic physical connection, but wanted to live with Ennis strictly based on that.  This came through in the motel scene.   So when I got to the part where Ennis finds the shirts, I struck, and heartbroken, to discover that Jack really did love him, as why else would he have saved those shirts and wanted his ashes scattered on Brokeback?

In the movie, Jack seemed to be more sensitive and in love with Ennis than in the story.
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: justlikethisalways on Feb 07, 2006, 12:16 PM
Yes, that is true.  But Ennis knew they both enjoyed each others company and knew they were having fantastic sex together and that alone might make Jack want to live together---just so they could have that sex more often.

I am just not sure Ennis realized just how much more than the great sex and companionship Jack felt for him until he saw Jack's shirt holding his and through that, Jack holding him.

In the story, I got a similiar sense about Jack: that he enjoyed Ennis's company and the fantastic physical connection, but wanted to live with Ennis strictly based on that.  This came through in the motel scene.   So when I got to the part where Ennis finds the shirts, I struck, and heartbroken, to discover that Jack really did love him, as why else would he have saved those shirts and wanted his ashes scattered on Brokeback?

In the movie, Jack seemed to be more sensitive and in love with Ennis than in the story.

I think Jack's reason for wanting to spend the rest of his life with Ennis went far beyond physical attraction or sex. Yes he needed sex, a lot of it, but as much if not moreso he wanted love and intimacy, and unlike Ennis, didn't feel threatened by that fact. In contrast, the only time Ennis spontaneously shows Jack affection is in the "dozy embrace" (the flashback at their last meeting). And even then there's a bittersweet note in that scene -- Ennis would not embrace Jack face-to-face because he couldn't acknowledge that it was a man he was being intimate with.

To me it's clear Jack loved Ennis and wanted to be loved by Ennis. He just couldn't say it verbally. And he was much more than a sex partner to Ennis. He was Ennis' angel. While Ennis was strong physically (violent), Jack was strong spiritually (protective and nurturing). Whenever Jack senses Ennis is hurt/vulnerable, he immediately helps and comforts Ennis. After Ennis is thrown from his horse, Jack gives Ennis his bandana to clean his wound. In the BBM fight scene, Jack says "come here, you're okay" (the short story calls him a "ministering angel" in this scene); in the 2nd tent scene, Jack whispers "it's all right"; during their 1st fishing trip when Ennis says "no reins on this one", Jack tenderly brushes his cheek; during their last meeting, when Ennis collapses, Jack embraces him and once again says "it's all right". And of course, the ultimate symbol of Jack embracing and protecting Ennis -- the shirts. I think all of these actions more than make up for the missing verbal declaration of Jack's love for Ennis.

How many of us ever have someone like Jack, so dedicated and attuned to our vulnerabilities, always there to rush in and pick us up when we fall? Ennis' great tragedy is that he had this and pushed it away, and when finally called on it, he let it walk away. "Jack, I swear" is a silent acknowledgement of his huge mistake.

Sorry for rambling...
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: jimmypage on Feb 07, 2006, 12:35 PM

I think Jack's reason for wanting to spend the rest of his life with Ennis went far beyond physical attraction or sex. Yes he needed sex, a lot of it, but as much if not moreso he wanted love and intimacy, and unlike Ennis, didn't feel threatened by that fact. In contrast, the only time Ennis spontaneously shows Jack affection is in the "dozy embrace" (the flashback at their last meeting). And even then there's a bittersweet note in that scene -- Ennis would not embrace Jack face-to-face because he couldn't acknowledge that it was a man he was being intimate with.

To me it's clear Jack loved Ennis and wanted to be loved by Ennis. He just couldn't say it verbally. And he was much more than a sex partner to Ennis. He was Ennis' angel. While Ennis was strong physically (violent), Jack was strong spiritually (protective and nurturing). Whenever Jack senses Ennis is hurt/vulnerable, he immediately helps and comforts Ennis. After Ennis is thrown from his horse, Jack gives Ennis his bandana to clean his wound. In the BBM fight scene, Jack says "come here, you're okay" (the short story calls him a "ministering angel" in this scene); in the 2nd tent scene, Jack whispers "it's all right"; during their 1st fishing trip when Ennis says "no reins on this one", Jack tenderly brushes his cheek; during their last meeting, when Ennis collapses, Jack embraces him and once again says "it's all right". And of course, the ultimate symbol of Jack embracing and protecting Ennis -- the shirts. I think all of these actions more than make up for the missing verbal declaration of Jack's love for Ennis.

How many of us ever have someone like Jack, so dedicated and attuned to our vulnerabilities, always there to rush in and pick us up when we fall? Ennis' great tragedy is that he had this and pushed it away, and when finally called on it, he let it walk away. "Jack, I swear" is a silent acknowledgement of his huge mistake.

OMG  :'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: septuaginarian on Feb 07, 2006, 02:09 PM
The New Dictionary of Cultural Literacy, Third Edition.  2002.
 
Had we but world enough, and time, / This coyness, Lady, were no crime
 
 
The first lines of “To His Coy Mistress,” a poem by the seventeenth-century English poet Andrew Marvell. The poet tells a woman whom he loves that if they had endless time and space at their disposal, then he could accept her unwillingness to go to bed with him. Life is short, however, and opportunities must be seized.   1
 
 
The New Dictionary of Cultural Literacy, Third Edition. Edited by E.D. Hirsch, Jr., Joseph F. Kett, and James Trefil. Copyright © 2002 by Houghton Mifflin Company. Published by Houghton Mifflin Company. All rights reserved.
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: Sweet Soul Ennis on Feb 07, 2006, 03:10 PM
I think Jack's reason for wanting to spend the rest of his life with Ennis went far beyond physical attraction or sex. Yes he needed sex, a lot of it, but as much if not moreso he wanted love and intimacy, and unlike Ennis, didn't feel threatened by that fact.

To me it's clear Jack loved Ennis and wanted to be loved by Ennis. He just couldn't say it verbally.


Yes, I think you're right.  What I meant is the contrast between the movie and story.  I read the story first, and because of it's shorthand style, I was unsure about how deeply Jack really felt until the end when Ennis finds the shirts and hears about Jack wanting his ashes spread on the mountain.  For me, I suddenly realized, at the end, that there was much more in Jack than what met the eye.  Despite Jack's lies and seeing other men, he still held a special place for Ennis.  In the movie, however, the writers portrayed Jack's feelings earlier in the script, instead of waiting until the end to tell the audience that he really loved Ennis.
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: Cowboy Cody on Feb 07, 2006, 03:43 PM
Yes, that is true.  But Ennis knew they both enjoyed each others company and knew they were having fantastic sex together and that alone might make Jack want to live together---just so they could have that sex more often.

I am just not sure Ennis realized just how much more than the great sex and companionship Jack felt for him until he saw Jack's shirt holding his and through that, Jack holding him.

In the story, I got a similiar sense about Jack: that he enjoyed Ennis's company and the fantastic physical connection, but wanted to live with Ennis strictly based on that.  This came through in the motel scene.   So when I got to the part where Ennis finds the shirts, I struck, and heartbroken, to discover that Jack really did love him, as why else would he have saved those shirts and wanted his ashes scattered on Brokeback?

In the movie, Jack seemed to be more sensitive and in love with Ennis than in the story.

I think Jack's reason for wanting to spend the rest of his life with Ennis went far beyond physical attraction or sex. Yes he needed sex, a lot of it, but as much if not moreso he wanted love and intimacy, and unlike Ennis, didn't feel threatened by that fact. In contrast, the only time Ennis spontaneously shows Jack affection is in the "dozy embrace" (the flashback at their last meeting). And even then there's a bittersweet note in that scene -- Ennis would not embrace Jack face-to-face because he couldn't acknowledge that it was a man he was being intimate with.

To me it's clear Jack loved Ennis and wanted to be loved by Ennis. He just couldn't say it verbally. And he was much more than a sex partner to Ennis. He was Ennis' angel. While Ennis was strong physically (violent), Jack was strong spiritually (protective and nurturing). Whenever Jack senses Ennis is hurt/vulnerable, he immediately helps and comforts Ennis. After Ennis is thrown from his horse, Jack gives Ennis his bandana to clean his wound. In the BBM fight scene, Jack says "come here, you're okay" (the short story calls him a "ministering angel" in this scene); in the 2nd tent scene, Jack whispers "it's all right"; during their 1st fishing trip when Ennis says "no reins on this one", Jack tenderly brushes his cheek; during their last meeting, when Ennis collapses, Jack embraces him and once again says "it's all right". And of course, the ultimate symbol of Jack embracing and protecting Ennis -- the shirts. I think all of these actions more than make up for the missing verbal declaration of Jack's love for Ennis.

How many of us ever have someone like Jack, so dedicated and attuned to our vulnerabilities, always there to rush in and pick us up when we fall? Ennis' great tragedy is that he had this and pushed it away, and when finally called on it, he let it walk away. "Jack, I swear" is a silent acknowledgement of his huge mistake.

Sorry for rambling...

Ramble on, that was beautiful... :'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: n061857 on Mar 25, 2006, 09:28 PM
I think Ennis knows that Jack loves him, but perhaps not the depth of his love and certainly not its duration. These are my reasons:

1. When the boys are told that the summer must end, Jack shows no emotion.

2. Jack meets, falls in love with and marries someone else AFTER meeting Ennis.  (Ennis had already promised himself, didn't see
    a future with Jack, so what the hay?)

3. Jack goes back for work the next year, but when he doesn't get it he moves on.  He doesn't look up Ennis.

4. Jack takes 4 years to contact Ennis.

5. Jack remains married and has numerous sexual partners.  He doesn't seem to be bothered that they are not Ennis or male at
    all, at least to Ennis's  knowledge.

6. Jack all but admits he has been with other men.

7. Jack tells his dad he is leaving Lureen and shacking up with another man.

I believe Ennis has a hard time not being true to his heart.  He cannot maintain sexual relations with either Alma or Cassie.  I believe he breaks things off with Cassie, because he is so hurt by the thought of Jack's infidelity with other men.  So, he decides to widen his definition of fidelity to include women.  Also his feelings of jealousy intensify his love for Jack, thereby making sex with Cassie unsatisfying.  Ennis knows how he felt for Jack one year after BBM, when he figures out why he was sick that day.  When he sees those shirts, he finally realizes that Jack loved him right from the start as he had.
Title: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Sunflower79 on Apr 23, 2006, 07:46 PM
I was wondering what people thought when they saw the shirts Jack had left in the closet at the end of the movie..I think Ennis realizes that Jack did really and true love him and care..it was brought to my attention from Jake's email group that at first Jacks' first was over Ennis shirt..like he was holding on to him and embracing him..and later back at Ennis closet the shirts were changed, Ennis shirt was hugging Jack's shirt..I really found that beauitful. :'( :'( :'(.that Ennis would want to embrace Jack with all his heart, soul and love. That he finally realized what a special love he did have...and that bound will always stay with him.. :'( :'( :'(..
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: proulxfan on Apr 23, 2006, 07:58 PM
That reversal of Ennis's and Jack's shirts was the first place I teared up the first time I saw the film. :'( And the idea for reversing them is supposed to have come from Heath Ledger himself. Bless him! ;)
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: TJ on Apr 23, 2006, 08:25 PM
I like the way that Heath Ledger decided to switch the shirts in the movie; but, in the book, the shirts were only in Jack's boyhood bedroom closet hidden in a slight jog in the wall.

I got the impression from the book that that Jack's shirt was over Ennis's shirt like a hand in a glove and the shirts were hanging suspended from a nail and not on a hanger. There was no door on the closet at the Twist place, a curtain hung in front of the clothes on hangers.

In the book, Ennis did not hide the shirts in a closet; he put them on a hanger and hung the hanger on a nail he had driven into the wall of the trailer below the postcard which had a brass-headed tack in each corner. I think by that gesture, Ennis was slowly walking out of his own closeted life.

In the "prologue" of the published book, the shirts are not hanging stiffly inside of a closet but move in the draft going through the trailer. Ennis is getting ready to move in that book scene and I see it with him moving on with his life, too.

I felt a certain kind of warmth when I read those two paragraphs in the book before the story "flashes back" to Signal in 1963. The ranch where the trailer is in the prologue is "in Signal," too.

Several months ago, before I ever posted in this forum, I was in a discussion about the prologue and I said it reminded me of when I use to go to saturday afternoon matinees with an uncle who was two years older than me. In those days, it was not uncommon for a person who arrived late to stay for the start of the next screening and then leave at the part which was referred to as "this is where we came in."
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: edgar on Apr 24, 2006, 12:10 AM
Speaking of the shirts...

In the movie, we see what happened. Jack's mom, seeming to know what the deal was between Ennis and Jack, is very accomodating and gets him a sack to take the shirts out.

In the book, John is evil and uncooperative. The mom is pretty invisible (though polite enough to offer the cherry cake and make a formulaic invite to come back some time).

Here's the question: In the book, How did Ennis get the shirts? Here's the excerpt, starting with Ennis sniffing the shirts in the closet:

[...] breathed in slowly through his mouth and nose, hoping for the faintest smoke and mountain sage and salty sweet stink of Jack but there was no real scent, only the memory of it, the imagined power of Brokeback Mountain of which nothing was left but what he held in his hands.

In the end the stud duck refused to let Jack's ashes go. "Tell you what, we got a family plot and he's goin in it." Jack's mother stood at the table coring apples with a sharp, serrated instrument. "You come again," she said.
[end quote]

So what happened?

Option 1: Ennis somehow managed to steal the shirts. He would have had to take them off the hanger and stuff them in his jacket.
Option 2: When Ennis got back to the kitchen, he asked the stud duck or the woman with the "sharp, serrated instrument" for the shirts and they said yes. (I can't imagine the stud duck cutting Ennis any slack.)
Option 3: Ennis takes Jack's mom up on her invite--even though she probably didn't mean it (in the story)--and comes back another time when the stud duck is out. He manages to ask her for the shirts, or he comes better prepared to steal them.

Problem with asking for the shirts: it would seem rather odd; or, in Ennis' mind, rather gay, to ask for Jacks shirt, let alone to explain one was actually his.

Problem with stealing the shirts: I dunno; seems a little problematic.

Please comment.

 :D
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Valandil Eluch on Apr 24, 2006, 12:43 AM
i'm gonna need to read the story again so just give me one day before post the second part of this.

about scene in the movies it is a heartbreaking scene seen ennis holding them and trying to find in them a sense of Jack's smell can kill anyone with feelings, it was really emotional Ennis finally realize the love they have to each other and finally admits himself he loved jack. and he looks in that shirts on Jack's closet his past that he can't return. they were part of Jack's life probably that was one of the reasons he always returned to Lightning Flat and to visit his mother also. in that place there was the only thing he was able to embrace when he was not with ennis. and i can't type anymore i just saw the movie and i'm so emotional right now that i want to cry
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: TJ on Apr 24, 2006, 07:07 PM
Jack's mom was using an apple-corer to remove the cores from the apples. I have used them, too. Oh, I just take the fact that since his mother "believed in the Pentecost" she would have been one of those people who meant exactly what she said, "You come again." While citified Pentecostals these days might not be that hospitable, but, in the smaller towns, rural communities, and in the country, Pentecostal people were and are usually very hospitable and when they tell a person to come again, they sincerely mean it.

I know about Pentecostals because I am one by personal experience.

While the book does not even mention Ennis taking the shirts with him, I just feel that he took them without Jack's folks even knowing that he had them. I believe that Ennis took them just like Jack took his bloodied shirt from Brokeback Mountain.

I also get the feeling that his parents never even knew those shirts were hidden in the jog in the closet. When I was in grad school and I was living on campus, my bedroom , at the folks who lived in the same city, Tulsa, was never bothered by them. Oh, there might have been some dusting and vacuuming in the room but, what was in my chest of drawers and closet was not important to them. I was in my middle 30s at the time. 

Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: edgar on Apr 25, 2006, 12:49 AM

While the book does not even mention Ennis taking the shirts with him, I just feel that he took them without Jack's folks even knowing that he had them. I believe that Ennis took them just like Jack took his bloodied shirt from Brokeback Mountain.

I also get the feeling that his parents never even knew those shirts were hidden in the jog in the closet.


TJ, I think you're right about the parents not knowing about the shirts. Hell, stud duck never even goes in that room.

But how did Ennis steal the shirts? Just wad them up and put them in his jacket? Surely he didn't have a knapsack or something with him when he went up there? Would he look suspicious as he walked out with a lumpy jacket?

And does that fit our picture of Ennis? sneaking out with shirts under his jacket?
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Patriot1 on Apr 25, 2006, 01:17 AM
TJ, I think you're right about the parents not knowing about the shirts. Hell, stud duck never even goes in that room.

Edgar, why would you think Mrs. Twist didn't know about the shirts?  She said she kept his room just like it was when he was a boy (19?).  Mr. Twist probably never went into the room but Mrs. Twist surely did if only to dust once in a while.  She knew the shirts were there just from dusting.  But, I am convinced Jack told her about the shirts.  If he hadn't, Mrs. Twist would surely have washed them.  Just like she did his pants, all washed and ironed.  Ironed jeans???  But she ironed them.


Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: NoReins on Apr 25, 2006, 02:17 AM
Yeah, I'm sure that Jack's mum knew about the shirts and I really believe that's why she sent Ennis up to Jack's room. I still get the feeling that she knew, or at least suspected, exactly what Ennis was to Jack - whether Jack told her, or she worked it out for herself I'm not so sure, though. When Ennis brings the shirts back down the stairs, her suspicions/beliefs are confirmed.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: TJ on Apr 25, 2006, 02:19 AM

While the book does not even mention Ennis taking the shirts with him, I just feel that he took them without Jack's folks even knowing that he had them. I believe that Ennis took them just like Jack took his bloodied shirt from Brokeback Mountain.

I also get the feeling that his parents never even knew those shirts were hidden in the jog in the closet.


TJ, I think you're right about the parents not knowing about the shirts. Hell, stud duck never even goes in that room.

But how did Ennis steal the shirts? Just wad them up and put them in his jacket? Surely he didn't have a knapsack or something with him when he went up there? Would he look suspicious as he walked out with a lumpy jacket?

And does that fit our picture of Ennis? sneaking out with shirts under his jacket?


Edgar, why would you think Mrs. Twist didn't know about the shirts?  She said she kept his room just like it was when he was a boy (19?).  Mr. Twist probably never went into the room but Mrs. Twist surely did if only to dust once in a while.  She knew the shirts were there just from dusting.  But, I am convinced Jack told her about the shirts.  If he hadn't, Mrs. Twist would surely have washed them.  Just like she did his pants, all washed and ironed.  Ironed jeans???  But she ironed them.

Oh, when I lived with my folks and my mother ironed my clothes for me, I was the one who who hung them up in the closet. I did iron my Levi's 501s jeans during my undergrad college years in the 1960s. I also used pants leg stretchers with the non-preshrunk Jeans, too; that made them easier to put back on without "pouring myself into them." (I don't even own an iron now.)

I can imagine that Jack was the one who put the clean and ironed clothes in the curtained off closet in his room.

(Oh, when Ennis was carrying the shirts in the movie, he had folded them up really small. That would not have caused much of a bulge if he had hidden them under his jacket. In fact, as loose as his jacket was in the pic below, they would never have noticed a thing.)

(https://ennisjack.com/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fpics.livejournal.com%2Ffa_sharp%2Fpic%2F002cwyxy&hash=4eee6e0c65faf90e39873ebcd1aa0987becd1d35)

Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Valandil Eluch on Apr 25, 2006, 02:28 AM

While the book does not even mention Ennis taking the shirts with him, I just feel that he took them without Jack's folks even knowing that he had them. I believe that Ennis took them just like Jack took his bloodied shirt from Brokeback Mountain.

I also get the feeling that his parents never even knew those shirts were hidden in the jog in the closet.


TJ, I think you're right about the parents not knowing about the shirts. Hell, stud duck never even goes in that room.

But how did Ennis steal the shirts? Just wad them up and put them in his jacket? Surely he didn't have a knapsack or something with him when he went up there? Would he look suspicious as he walked out with a lumpy jacket?

And does that fit our picture of Ennis? sneaking out with shirts under his jacket?


Edgar, why would you think Mrs. Twist didn't know about the shirts?  She said she kept his room just like it was when he was a boy (19?).  Mr. Twist probably never went into the room but Mrs. Twist surely did if only to dust once in a while.  She knew the shirts were there just from dusting.  But, I am convinced Jack told her about the shirts.  If he hadn't, Mrs. Twist would surely have washed them.  Just like she did his pants, all washed and ironed.  Ironed jeans???  But she ironed them.

Oh, when I lived with my folks and my mother ironed my clothes for me, I was the one who who hung them up in the closet. I did iron my Levi's 501s jeans during my undergrad college years in the 1960s. I also used pants leg stretchers with the non-preshrunk Jeans, too; that made them easier to put back on without "pouring myself into them." (I don't even own an iron now.)

I can imagine that Jack was the one who put the clean and ironed clothes in the curtained off closet in his room.

(Oh, when Ennis was carrying the shirts in the movie, he had folded them up really small. That would not have caused much of a bulge if he had hidden them under his jacket. In fact, as loose as his jacket was in the pic below, they would never have noticed a thing.)

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OMG look at his face he have the "Don't even try to take me this from me" when he looks at Old Twist!!!
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Patriot1 on Apr 25, 2006, 03:13 AM
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OMG look at his face he have the "Don't even try to take me this from me" when he looks at Old Twist!!!

And when you see the movie again Carlos, watch how Ennis moves the shirts from where they are in this picture, to his right side, like he is telling the old man just that....You ain't getting these!  LOL

Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: keren_b on Apr 25, 2006, 05:34 AM

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He's so volnurable in this pic, he looks like a young boy again...  :'(
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Sunflower79 on Apr 25, 2006, 05:42 AM
thanks for the picture..I think he looks protective over the shirts..there mine and you aren't going to take it..and a little vulernable too..
I appreciate the comments so far..thanks..:) maybe Ennis is finally realizing what he could have with Jack..a real true love and good life with him..for now he will keep the shirts close to his heart
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: edgar on Apr 25, 2006, 10:54 AM

Edgar, why would you think Mrs. Twist didn't know about the shirts?  She said she kept his room just like it was when he was a boy (19?).  Mr. Twist probably never went into the room but Mrs. Twist surely did if only to dust once in a while.  She knew the shirts were there just from dusting.  But, I am convinced Jack told her about the shirts.  If he hadn't, Mrs. Twist would surely have washed them.  Just like she did his pants, all washed and ironed.  Ironed jeans???  But she ironed them.


Okay. Mrs. Twist being a good domestic type, she wouldn't just let dirty, smelly, *bloody* (omg) shirts hang there for years. Even if Jack hid them for a while, she would have found them. Mayb Jack just said to him mom, "Please don't wash this shirt" (these shirts?). (You know, unless you look carefully, you'd think it was just one shirt.)

But my question remains--IN THE BOOK did he steal them or ask for them?
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Patriot1 on Apr 25, 2006, 11:10 AM
But my question remains--IN THE BOOK did he steal them or ask for them?

Well, in the book it doesn't say one way or the other.  I see no need to make Ennis into a thief though.  Guess we have to remember, Annie was writing a short story and therefore left out a lot of unnecessary details. I suppose if she was writing a novel she would have put that in there.



Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: TJ on Apr 25, 2006, 12:39 PM
But my question remains--IN THE BOOK did he steal them or ask for them?

Well, in the book it doesn't say one way or the other.  I see no need to make Ennis into a thief though.  Guess we have to remember, Annie was writing a short story and therefore left out a lot of unnecessary details. I suppose if she was writing a novel she would have put that in there.

Annie Proulx left out certain details in lots of places in her story and she did it on purpose to get the reader to use his (or her) imagination to answer some of the questions which she brought up. There are lots of unanswered questions in her book published version of the story.

I feel that the screenplay writers attempted to answer as many of those questions as possible; but, in doing so, they did not answer very many of them and created even more unanswered questions. And, then in the final version of the theatrical movie, there were even more unanswered questions.

I am reminded of a book on Ecology written by Al Gore, the former Vice President of the USA. A member of the "Christian right" decided to write a book criticizing what was in Gore's book and I read a review of the critical book in a "Christian" publication. What the reviewer said was in Gore's book was not even in there. The reviewer even wrote if "Gore said something was in the Bible, you know that he made it up. And unlike what Gore wrote, God did not promise the earth and the animals that He would never flood the earth again." But, the critical person and the reviewer were both wrong; in the very same version of the Bible which they used, it actually said in the text that when God put the rainbow in the clouds, he did make that promise not only to humans, he made it to the earth and animals, too.

My "Brokeback Mountain Bible" is Annie Proulx Brokeback Mountain short story as published in "Close Range" and in the stand-alone BbM book.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: TJ on Apr 25, 2006, 12:56 PM

Edgar, why would you think Mrs. Twist didn't know about the shirts?  She said she kept his room just like it was when he was a boy (19?).  Mr. Twist probably never went into the room but Mrs. Twist surely did if only to dust once in a while.  She knew the shirts were there just from dusting.  But, I am convinced Jack told her about the shirts.  If he hadn't, Mrs. Twist would surely have washed them.  Just like she did his pants, all washed and ironed.  Ironed jeans???  But she ironed them.


Okay. Mrs. Twist being a good domestic type, she wouldn't just let dirty, smelly, *bloody* (omg) shirts hang there for years. Even if Jack hid them for a while, she would have found them. Mayb Jack just said to him mom, "Please don't wash this shirt" (these shirts?). (You know, unless you look carefully, you'd think it was just one shirt.)

But my question remains--IN THE BOOK did he steal them or ask for them?

Read what I quoted from the BOOK! The shirts had no odor at all. Ennis smelled absolutely nothing or almost nothing when he sniffed the shirts. If he smelled anything, it would have been the natural odor of the air and of the old house in the bedroom.

If one takes back what was stolen from him in the first place without telling anyone he recovered his stolen property, did he steal it, too? The book says absolutely nothing about how Ennis got the shirts.

Jack had hung the shirts as one shirt which had a lining, which was not uncommon (and still isn't) with shirts worn when it is cool. So, when Ennis took the shirts, IMO, it was more like he only took one from the closet and the fact that the "liner shirt" was his, both of them were then HIS shirts.

I will contine to give my opinion that no matter how neat and orderly Mrs. John C. Twist, Sr. was, I just seriously doubt that she even knew the shirts were in the closet. I don't think that she was a snoop and I just believed that she did not do any more with the upkeep of Jack's room than necessary. When she says that she kept Jack's room like it was when he was a boy, she could have also meant, "I left the room like Jack himself kept it even when he was back to visit every year." With country folks (I am one of those people), "kept something the same way" also means "left something the way that it was in the first place."
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: edgar on Apr 25, 2006, 02:42 PM

Okay. Mrs. Twist being a good domestic type, she wouldn't just let dirty, smelly, *bloody* (omg) shirts hang there for years. Even if Jack hid them for a while, she would have found them. Mayb Jack just said to him mom, "Please don't wash this shirt" (these shirts?). (You know, unless you look carefully, you'd think it was just one shirt.)

But my question remains--IN THE BOOK did he steal them or ask for them?

Read what I quoted from the BOOK! The shirts had no odor at all. Ennis smelled absolutely nothing or almost nothing when he sniffed the shirts. If he smelled anything, it would have been the natural odor of the air and of the old house in the bedroom.
 
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Oh, come on. After the guys had been wearing the shirts all summer, and washing them out only in the stream, and then wearing them during a sunny day and having a wrestling match/fight in them, and getting them dirty and bloody, don't tell me they wouldn't be smelly.

The reason Jack smells nothing is because, for goodness' sake, the shirts have been hanging there twenty years.

Hmmm. I don't know whether Mrs. Twist would be so officious as to keep everything nice and clean, or so reserved as to "not snoop." The thing is, after your child dies, I think you would go into the room and look around.

In fact, you might even smell the shirts.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: TJ on Apr 25, 2006, 04:04 PM

Oh, come on. After the guys had been wearing the shirts all summer, and washing them out only in the stream, and then wearing them during a sunny day and having a wrestling match/fight in them, and getting them dirty and bloody, don't tell me they wouldn't be smelly.

The reason Jack smells nothing is because, for goodness' sake, the shirts have been hanging there twenty years.

Hmmm. I don't know whether Mrs. Twist would be so officious as to keep everything nice and clean, or so reserved as to "not snoop." The thing is, after your child dies, I think you would go into the room and look around.

In fact, you might even smell the shirts.

Well, I and millions (take a few thousand more or less, LOL)  of other people who have seen the movie and read the book and we just believe that Jack Twist was not even dead. Yes, I know that I am speaking in hyperbole here but, I have been in several different kinds of internet discussion about this and the every same arguments and agreements kept coming up.

By reading the published book version, I get the impression that because Jack's mother changed the subject to Jack's room after her husband made a comment about Jack going in the family plot, she as a Holy Spirit filled Pentecostal refused to be involved in the lie that Jack was dead.

Even Ang Lee said that Lureen Twist was lying when she told Ennis about the accident on the phone. And in the book, Lureen was politely cold when she talked to Ennis on the phone about it. I take that to mean that she really didn't even love Jack. She probably had a crush on him when she met him but wasn't exactly in love with him. And, every time that Jack talked about her in the book, from the motel scene onward, he never had much good to say about her nor her father. I realy think that Jack was alive but not living with her and there might have been a financial arrangement with her to say what she did that way. Their marriage was dead anyway. She could have paid Jack to get lost herself.

Ennis never saw any proof that Jack Twist was dead.

Old clothing that has hung in a closet for 20 years does not have much of a smell in it. You also have to remember in the book, it was  a makeshift closet created by a cretonee curtain. It was not a regular closet with a door. IMO, by that time, the only smell in those shirts would be the odor of the room in the old 4-room house on the ranch at Lightning Flat.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: NoReins on Apr 25, 2006, 04:12 PM
TJ, that is definitely the strangest take on it that I've heard - Jack not dead ???

Nope, sorry - I can't believe for a second that Jack could still be alive. If he was, his mother would know - and there is no way she would allow Ennis to go through the agony that he's clearly going through. Roberta Maxwell said in an interview that her character knew that Ennis had loved her son....and knowing that, she would not - could not - let him suffer and, in doing so, let Jack continue to suffer without Ennis's love.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: aimi15 on Apr 25, 2006, 04:18 PM
I may be a sad hopeless romantic, but i cannot imagine Jack could be alive and leave Ennis thinking he was dead. Ennis was the love of his life - surely he couldn't take money to get lost and never contact Ennis again? Just my opinion but i don't buy that.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
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OMG look at his face he have the "Don't even try to take me this from me" when he looks at Old Twist!!!
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I never really noticed that look on Ennis' face before. I don't think there was a chance in hell that the stud duck was going to get those shirts away from Ennis.
I also agree that Jack's mother knew about the shirts. I could see her going into that room and looking around or even perhaps sitting in Jack's room because she missed her son. I also think that the "imagined power of BBM" became very real to Ennis in realizing just how much Jack loved him. That summer up on BBM was the only time they were free to love each other they way they wanted to- no one else in the way; seeing each other everyday.  Jack took that shirt because he needed some part of Ennis with him. Ennis was inside of him and that's where Jack kept him for 20 years. Jack was tending to Ennis while in that shirt, now he is tending to Ennis with that shirt. Ennis knew with those shirts that no matter what was said or went unsaid between them that Jack loved him and that time, geography or even death could never change the one thing that was true.

Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: TJ on Apr 25, 2006, 04:37 PM
This is sort of a BTDT situation in my case. I love a certain young man very much and I have not seen him since December. He is a whole lot like the fictional Ennis Del Mar. He told people that he was not gay when he was living with me and they knew that he was sleeping in a twin-sized daybed with me. Although there was a pop-up trundle bed which he could have used instead, he claimed it was too much trouble to pull it out and make it up and then put it back the next morning.

I have quit Kaland in a way that I stopped chasing after him like Jack Twist decided to "Let be, let be" in the book in a section seperate from the last time Ennis and Jack are together. When Jack has the "flashback" in the book which las the let be words in it, there is triple spacing.

We don't have to argue and call other members liars in these internet forums. But, while I am a member here, I am more like a guest who is here for free. And, here in the United States of America, as long as there is a Democratic party with people in the US Congress,  we will continue to be guaranteed to have freedom of speech in the 1st Amendment of the Bill of Rights added to the US Constitution.

I just say what I feel from my own world point of view (WPOV). In both of those formal literary criticisms classes which I took after earning a BA in Education, one of things to consider when reading literature was the author's world view at the time, too.

Annie Proulx's "world view" or more exact, her "Wyoming view," needs to be understood here, first of all, since she wrote the original story. She has that Wyoming view as well as the view of an admitted heterosexual by orientation lady. Her WPOV is not the same as Larry McMurtry's Texas POV nor the same as Ang Lee's Taiwan POV about the same subject.

Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: aimi15 on Apr 25, 2006, 04:45 PM
This is sort of a BTDT situation in my case. I love a certain young man very much and I have not seen him since December. He is a whole lot like the fictional Ennis Del Mar. He told people that he was not gay when he was living with me and they knew that he was sleeping in a twin-sized daybed with me. Although there was a pop-up trundle bed which he could have used instead, he claimed it was too much trouble to pull it out and make it up and then put it back the next morning.

I have quit Kaland in a way that I stopped chasing after him like Jack Twist decided to "Let be, let be" in the book in a section seperate from the last time Ennis and Jack are together. When Jack has the "flashback" in the book which las the let be words in it, there is triple spacing.

We don't have to argue and call other members liars in these internet forums. But, while I am a member here, I am more like a guest who is here for free. And, here in the United States of America, as long as there is a Democratic party with people in the US Congress,  we will continue to be guaranteed to have freedom of speech in the 1st Amendment of the Bill of Rights added to the US Constitution.

I just say what I feel from my own world point of view (WPOV). In both of those formal literary criticisms classes which I took after earning a BA in Education, one of things to consider when reading literature was the author's world view at the time, too.

Annie Proulx's "world view" or more exact, her "Wyoming view," needs to be understood here, first of all, since she wrote the original story. She has that Wyoming view as well as the view of an admitted heterosexual by orientation lady. Her WPOV is not the same as Larry McMurtry's Texas POV nor the same as Ang Lee's Taiwan POV about the same subject.


TJ, please don't think i would seek to call anyone a liar or belittle their opinions on this or any other forum. If i have another point of view to someone else and choose to voice it i always make sure i include that this is only my opinion in my post. This is not being argumentative, only expressing my own right to freedom of speech. Thats not to say i don't find your idea of Jack Twist being alive interesting, just that i see things from a different, but also valid, point of view.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: NoReins on Apr 25, 2006, 04:51 PM
TJ, I'll echo what Aimi said there - we've all got different points of view on all of this and that's what makes this forum so damn interesting.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: TJ on Apr 25, 2006, 04:59 PM
In regard to our POVs here, some of in the USA have different points of view because some have had experience in the country with AND as real cowboys and real farmers in the states where the residents consider themselves to be Westerners.

And then some of us here have different world views of the movie and the book because we are in different parts of the world.

American English is my first language with Spanish next followed by some French. I used to be a Spanish and French teacher. I had a person disagree with me on a certain subject related to the movie and English (of any location) was not even her first language.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: proulxfan on Apr 26, 2006, 09:39 AM
So much of our interpretations of this film, in particular, involve trying to read body language. i believe Mrs. Twist knew about the shirts just from something in her eyes as she is telling Ennis he can go up in Jack's room. It's like she wishes she could say more, but can't.

As for Jack not being dead: how did they get the Post Office in on the scam?
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Kemmer on Apr 26, 2006, 11:11 AM
The book says Jack's mother "was never a part of her husband's life";  I'm very sure Mrs Twist had very strict orders from Jack NOT to wash and iron the shirts.  Whether precisely why, may or may not have been expressed, but she certainly knew one of the shirts was not Jacks and they both were bloodstained.  I think Jack's mother assumed far more than what we give her credit for.  And I further believe her invitation to Ennis to come back to visit--despite the hateful Mr Twist--was an invitation to take Jack's ashes back to Brokeback where they belong.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: NoReins on Apr 26, 2006, 11:33 AM
Yeah, Jack's mum knew - Roberta Maxwell confirms that in an interview that was posted over in the soundtrack forum - the link is http://www.hollywood-elsewhere.com/live/ if you want to listen. She also said that Annie Proulx thanked her for getting over the fact that Jack's mum knew....
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Apr 26, 2006, 12:02 PM
I don't see how Jack's mother, at least, couldn't have known - Jack talked openly ( as you do talk incessantly about the one you love when away from them) about bringing Ennis up to Lightning Flat, then later about bringing the TExan neighbour - it can't have escaped them that these were both men, and that he was apparently talking about leaving his wife, whom he's never brought to Lightning Flat. I don't know whether they even went to the funeral - Lureen says she sent the ashes to them.

As for the shirts, I think it's true that Ennis was going to keep them no matter what. John Twist clearly loathes his son and intuitively knows that refusing Ennis permission to take Jack's ashed to BBM will hurt him - he's a vicious old man, and maybe deeply angry that his son turned out to be what he was. In return Ennis takes the shirts, which are all he has left of Jack and those old cold days on the mountain - he can keep them, because they hanging in the closet they give nothing away. In the story he leaves them in the open, and I like that idea - that he's moving on and freer than he was. The movie version makes him as guilty and secretive as he was in the past, without any sense of reconciliation with his nature.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Kemmer on Apr 26, 2006, 12:50 PM
I don't see how Jack's mother, at least, couldn't have known - Jack talked openly ( as you do talk incessantly about the one you love when away from them) about bringing Ennis up to Lightning Flat, then later about bringing the TExan neighbour - it can't have escaped them that these were both men, and that he was apparently talking about leaving his wife, whom he's never brought to Lightning Flat. I don't know whether they even went to the funeral - Lureen says she sent the ashes to them.

As for the shirts, I think it's true that Ennis was going to keep them no matter what. John Twist clearly loathes his son and intuitively knows that refusing Ennis permission to take Jack's ashed to BBM will hurt him - he's a vicious old man, and maybe deeply angry that his son turned out to be what he was. In return Ennis takes the shirts, which are all he has left of Jack and those old cold days on the mountain - he can keep them, because they hanging in the closet they give nothing away. In the story he leaves them in the open, and I like that idea - that he's moving on and freer than he was. The movie version makes him as guilty and secretive as he was in the past, without any sense of reconciliation with his nature.

I think when Ennis saw what happened to Rich and Earl, the irretrievably set--consciously or subconsciously--his mind against ever having any open, public display of who he really was. And that was one of the major tragedies of the story.  Jack wasn't overly bothered with living with Ennis openly, but Ennis never could reconcile himself with who he was and what happened to Rich and Earl.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: NoReins on Apr 26, 2006, 12:51 PM
I'm pretty sure that in the short story version of Ennis's phone call to Lureen, she tells him that Jack's folks didn't come down for the funeral, so you're right welshwitch.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Valandil Eluch on Apr 26, 2006, 02:34 PM
I'm pretty sure that in the short story version of Ennis's phone call to Lureen, she tells him that Jack's folks didn't come down for the funeral, so you're right welshwitch.


on the short story and i think the movie Lureen never met Jack's parents they never went to visit him it was only when Jack was with Ennis when he visits his parents
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: TJ on Apr 26, 2006, 03:04 PM
The book says Jack's mother "was never a part of her husband's life";  I'm very sure Mrs Twist had very strict orders from Jack NOT to wash and iron the shirts.  Whether precisely why, may or may not have been expressed, but she certainly knew one of the shirts was not Jacks and they both were bloodstained.  I think Jack's mother assumed far more than what we give her credit for.  And I further believe her invitation to Ennis to come back to visit--despite the hateful Mr Twist--was an invitation to take Jack's ashes back to Brokeback where they belong.

Which book said that about Jack's mother? I don't read that about her not being a part of her husband's life in the stand-alone short story.

But, I do think that Jack's father and his mother were not in agreement on some things. And that includes lying for Jack to claim he was dead. In the book, Mrs. Twist's talking is between Mr. Twist's speeches. After what he said first about the family plot, she ignored him and changed the subject and talked about how she kept Jack's boyhood bedroom and invited Ennis to go up and look at it.

I feel rather than lie about something which I think never happened and believe that Mrs. Twist knew that Jack was still alive and as well as ever, she decided to talk about something else. And when she told Ennis to come back, she was not pretending to be polite, she meant it.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: TJ on Apr 26, 2006, 03:04 PM
Yeah, Jack's mum knew - Roberta Maxwell confirms that in an interview that was posted over in the soundtrack forum - the link is http://www.hollywood-elsewhere.com/live/ if you want to listen. She also said that Annie Proulx thanked her for getting over the fact that Jack's mum knew....

I heard that interview and I have also read another interview with Roberta Maxwell. There used to be a very popular Country song with the title "Mama Knows." Well, my mother, who was also Pentecostal, knew lots of things about her family which they had not told her. Oh, sometimes she knew that something was going on in a particular child's life (even after they became adults), while she did not know the specifics of it. But, she never knew that I was homoseuxual until I "accidently" outed myself to her and Dad.

Roberta Maxwell seemed to have a good understanding of REAL Pentecostal mothers. I use "REAL" to refer to those who are not judgmental fundamentalists; but, evangelical Pentecostals. I don't consider evangelical and fundamentalist to be synonyms.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: TJ on Apr 26, 2006, 03:17 PM
When I was in the closet, my mother knew whom my friends were, even those who were homosexual and in the closet.

BUT, while she knew whom they were, she never knew that they were just as homosexual as her middle son (also a middle child -me). And, like Jack, I did talk about those friends when they were not around.

My parents became friends with Bill, a bisexual friend of mine, and his wife and family and they never knew that I was one of the guy's boyfriends. They just assumed that he was heterosexual. Oh, they would NOT have even thought of the word "heterosexual" (or any other sexual orientation) when they thought of people. I had met Bill at a business where closeted homosexuals went.

I wrote the above to say that I doubt that Mrs. Twist even knew that her son had a sexual relationship with Ennis. And, I doubt that Mr. Twist even guessed that either.

If Jack had talked to his parents about Lureen like he was always complaining about her to Ennis, they might have approved of them splitting up. I think that Mrs. Twist stayed with her non-Pentecostal husband because of her own religious beliefs (or because of financial reasons in that she would have had no income if she divorced him). My sisters stayed with abusive husbands because they believed that it was wrong for a person to get a divorce.

Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: edgar on Apr 26, 2006, 04:59 PM
Yeah, Jack's mum knew - Roberta Maxwell confirms that in an interview that was posted over in the soundtrack forum - the link is http://www.hollywood-elsewhere.com/live/ if you want to listen. She also said that Annie Proulx thanked her for getting over the fact that Jack's mum knew....
Thank you, NoReigns. That was beautiful interview...

Roberta Maxwell did a great job in such a short onscreen time.

It's very cool to know that Heath Ledger showed up--beyond contract--to shoot the closeups with her.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: TJ on Apr 26, 2006, 05:54 PM
In another thread, someone posted, in words to this effect, "In the screenplay, Jack's mother 'was never a part of her husband's life'."

So, it must have been in the "Story to Screenplay" book where that was written.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: proulxfan on Apr 27, 2006, 09:18 AM
I don't see how Jack's mother, at least, couldn't have known - Jack talked openly ( as you do talk incessantly about the one you love when away from them) about bringing Ennis up to Lightning Flat, then later about bringing the TExan neighbour - it can't have escaped them that these were both men, and that he was apparently talking about leaving his wife, whom he's never brought to Lightning Flat. I don't know whether they even went to the funeral - Lureen says she sent the ashes to them.

As for the shirts, I think it's true that Ennis was going to keep them no matter what. John Twist clearly loathes his son and intuitively knows that refusing Ennis permission to take Jack's ashed to BBM will hurt him - he's a vicious old man, and maybe deeply angry that his son turned out to be what he was. In return Ennis takes the shirts, which are all he has left of Jack and those old cold days on the mountain - he can keep them, because they hanging in the closet they give nothing away. In the story he leaves them in the open, and I like that idea - that he's moving on and freer than he was. The movie version makes him as guilty and secretive as he was in the past, without any sense of reconciliation with his nature.
I basically agree with this post. Whether or not her mind led her to inquire about her son's sexual relationships, that is open to question. Parents can maintain a high level of denial in this area, and when there are questions, they may not want consciously to know the answers. But the film scene does give us the idea that she was aware of Jack's love for Ennis, that she knew it was true and deep, and that she was in sympathy with it. And remember, her son is Jack, who wears his heart on his sleeve, pun unintended. And Jack was probably in varying degrees of pain after the partings with Ennis at the end of their trips, which is when Jack would head up to his parents' ranch. And a mother knows better than anyone when her child is hurting. She may have known enough not to ask questions.
And I like the story's description of the shirts being out in the open, moving in the drafts blowing through Ennis's trailer. I guess Ang or the screenwriters wanted to use the symbol of the closet to emphasize their point.   
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Marge Innavera on Apr 27, 2006, 12:09 PM
And I like the story's description of the shirts being out in the open, moving in the drafts blowing through Ennis's trailer. I guess Ang or the screenwriters wanted to use the symbol of the closet to emphasize their point.   

But it seemed to me in the story that Ennis had not moved on at all - if anything, he was relying more and more on fantasy and dreams for psychic survival. My take on the shirts being in the closet is that (1) he was giving them a special space, as opposed to having them hanging on the wall where they were exposed to dust and drafts; and (2) he had taken some small steps in the interim to be more honest with himself. The shirts aren't fully inside the closet; they're just on the inside of the door. The "old" Ennis would have had them in the very back of the closet, where there was no chance anyone would have seen them.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Patriot1 on Apr 27, 2006, 12:57 PM
The "old" Ennis would have had them in the very back of the closet, where there was no chance anyone would have seen them.

What a wonderfully hopeful thought Marge!  I love it...and would never have thought of it. Thanks.


Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: TJ on Apr 27, 2006, 01:23 PM
The "old" Ennis would have had them in the very back of the closet, where there was no chance anyone would have seen them.
What a wonderfully hopeful thought Marge!  I love it...and would never have thought of it. Thanks.

The "old" 19-year-old Ennis might have not hidden them in a closet but have buried them in a secret place known only to him. You have to remember that Ennis did not stay in the same place or at the same job for very many years at a time.

But, Annie Proulx's Ennis did not hide the shirts in any closet. The only door involved with where he put the shirts in the book was the door of the trailer on the Stoutamire ranch. It was only a few weeks after Ennis had been to the Twist place at Lightning Flat that Ennis bought/ordered the Brokeback Mountain postcard from Higgins Gift Shop which was in/near Signal where the ranch was, too. Ennis had gone to "town" to wash the ranch's horseblankets down at the Quick Stop Car Wash.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: ksxks on Apr 27, 2006, 06:32 PM
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OMG look at his face he have the "Don't even try to take me this from me" when he looks at Old Twist!!!

And when you see the movie again Carlos, watch how Ennis moves the shirts from where they are in this picture, to his right side, like he is telling the old man just that....You ain't getting these!  LOL




I love this, about Ennis carrying the shirts past old Mr. Twist (John Nasty!) and what you both said, like "you ain't getting these away from me," and then the putting them over to his right side away from the dad.  This is so beautiful for one thing, because it's so brave of our poor troubled Ennis, something he would be afraid to do, that folks'd think he's queer, but damn he's gonna have those shirts.  And of course Mom...bless her mother's heart...she wouldn't deny Ennis the shirts, no way.

ks
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Apr 29, 2006, 03:45 PM
And letting Ennis not just into the house but up into Jack's room, which she has treated almost as a shrine, is perhaps a symbol of the fact that she would have accepted Ennis into Jack's life had she been able to. I also have a feeling that the shirt is one of the most personal things belonging to Jack that she has keft - her husband wouldn't care - and in giving it to Ennis she's tacitly acknowledging that Ennis loves Jack as she does. She has kept the shirts safe and Ennis does the same - wherther they're in the trailer or the closet seems fairly irrelevant, except I like the idea that the shirts are too precious to be on view to any chance visitor and are kept put away both to keep them safe and as one might protect a sacred relic, which is exhibted only on special occasions. Hanging on a hanger rather than on a hook also lets them re-create the outline of the bodies that once wore them - I see them hanging, linked together in a permananent embrace, in front of the picture of BBM, in a simulacrum of that silent embrace Jack recalls after their final meeting.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Sunflower79 on Apr 29, 2006, 07:34 PM
here is an interesting article that someone sent to the jake group website about the shirts..and other questions answered by Dianna and Larry

http://advocate.com/print_article_ektid25277.asp
Brokeback's big secrets
Was Jack really gay-bashed? Will Ennis love again? What was Heath Ledger’s inspired addition to the script? Screenwriters Larry McMurtry and Diana Ossana take us inside their runaway hit

By Anne Stockwell


If not for Diana Ossana, it’s highly doubtful we’d be cheering Brokeback Mountain on the screen. Deeply moved by Annie Proulx’s 1997 story, Ossana shared it with her celebrated writing partner Larry McMurtry (Lonesome Dove, The Last Picture Show, Terms of Endearment, and so on). The two optioned Proulx’s work and, within weeks, finished a screenplay. Then they embarked on years of meetings with Hollywood types who said the movie would never be made. As everyone knows, Ossana and McMurtry won that battle. As awards season heads into the home stretch, they’re still winning. Speaking with The Advocate in Los Angeles—the acerbic McMurtry punctuating throughout—Ossana insists, “Larry and I never lost faith in our screenplay. I would get frustrated at times when people would tell us, ‘It’s the best script I’ve ever read.’ If that’s true, I’d think, then commit. Come on! Let’s do this thing.”

Are you surprised by audiences’ reactions to this film?
Ossana: It just makes me really happy that so many people are going to see the film and that so many are moved by it. The farther the film seems to go on the northern plains, into Sioux Falls, S.D., and Fargo, N.D., the quieter the audiences become. That’s some of the most conservative parts of the country. And those folks are going in just wanting to see a good story, and they’re just riveted to the screen. I mean, that was the point when I first read that story in 1997. I wanted to get it out in the world in some major way, and have people feel the things I felt when I read that story.

In the new annotated edition, Annie Proulx describes the man who inspired Ennis—an aging ranch hand she saw one night alone in a bar watching the young cowboys play pool. She writes, “Something in his expression, a kind of bitter longing…made me wonder if he was country gay.” In your growing up, were there people who were country gay?
McMurtry: When I was a little boy I had a cousin who was gay who was a rodeoer. I didn’t see all that much of Cousin X—

Cousin X? [Anne laughs]
McMurtry: Yes. He lived with a schoolteacher in one of the towns in Texas, near where we set Jack’s life in the film. And the first vibe I ever got, I suppose, having to do with homosexuality was when we’d go up to family reunions, my father and mother would say, “Now, please be very polite to Cousin X’s gentleman friend.” We had no reason not to be. The gentleman friend was perfectly nice. And yet there was some anxiety in my parents that somehow there would be an awkwardness or something like that. There never was. I don’t even know what happened to Cousin X and his gentleman friend. They’re old enough to have died by now.

No sense of “Be careful, Cousin X’s gentleman friend is liable to get you in a corner ”?
McMurtry: [A near-smile] The reunions were held outdoors on the great plains. There were no corners where anybody could have got us.
Ossana: I grew up in St Louis, and there were gay people in my high school. There’s an incident I remember very well. It really affected me. There were these two girls in my class. They were both very athletic, very nice girls, and they were together all the time. We just assumed they were best friends. But they did get made fun of for being queer. That’s the word everybody used back then. One girl it didn’t bother so much. The other girl, in my senior year she committed suicide.

Proulx writes that she still gets letters from people who personally relate to the characters in her story.
McMurtry: We just got a letter, very sad, from an Arizona cowboy.
Ossana: He wanted to thank us and Heath and Jake for making this film. He said he felt like he was watching his story up on the screen. He said, “You know, I’m gonna be 70, and I feel full of regret. There were a couple of men that I loved, one of whom was married and had three children. We never followed through on any of it. We just didn’t feel free to do it.”

According to Proulx, Wyoming has the highest suicide rate in the country—and most of those suicides are elderly single men. Did you two imagine Ennis’s future at all?
Ossana: I think Annie has a story somewhere about Ennis as an older man, and he winds up moving in with Alma Jr.
McMurtry: I don’t think Ennis would kill himself.
Ossana: He’s too tough. That would be a sign of weakness, and it would leave a memory of him as being weak, and I don’t think he would want that. But I do think that Ennis knows that people probably know that he’s homosexual, and emotionally [at the end of the film] I think he makes a tiny bit of progress, because he agrees to attend Alma Jr.’s wedding. Finally he compromises—
McMurtry: And doesn’t disappoint a woman.
Ossana: It’s the first time in the film that he doesn’t disappoint someone, male or female. It’s a tiny baby step, but he does it. I just don’t know how much [more] he’s capable of changing. I think if anything, he might become even more homophobic and bitter because of what he did, what he gave up, what he lost, what he’ll never have.

Ennis is convinced that Jack was murdered with a tire iron. I don’t necessarily believe it.
McMurtry: It’s what Ennis is feeling at the moment. But Lureen’s explanation is just as good. A lot of tires blow up and kill people.

Do people hope Jack wasn’t murdered? What do they believe?
Ossana: We’ve been asked that [in every interview]. You can’t believe the things we’ve heard—for example, did Lureen’s father have him killed? A reporter walked up to me and said, “What really happened? I need to know.” I said, “What do you think?” He told me, and I said, “Well, if that works for you, then good.”

Oh, that’s the most hateful writer answer.
Ossana: But even Annie will tell you it’s ambiguous to her. When you see that [flash] on the screen, we tell people that [we don’t know] what actually happened to Jack. But it’s what Ennis thinks, and he’s been set up to think that by his entire past. This was his biggest fear, that something would happen. And the tragedy is multilayered. If Jack was killed that way, the guilt that Ennis must feel—maybe if he’d taken him up on it, this wouldn’t have happened. But also the fact that he’s not sure. What is more tragic than not knowing how your loved one has died?

There’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” for you.
Ossana: So when he goes to Jack’s parents’—
McMurtry: It’s when Ennis goes there that it becomes a great movie, that it becomes a tragedy.
Ossana: The father’s talking about Jack—“Ennis Del Mar, he used to say.” The camera turns to Ennis and you see this little faint smile on his face, ’cause Jack was talking about him. Then the father says, “And then Jack was gonna bring another fellow up here.” And you go back to Ennis and his smile is gone. That’s when he realizes there was somebody else. That hurts too. But he knows in his innards that it’s his own fault. He can’t blame Jack for that anymore. And then he goes up to Jack’s room and he finds his old shirt hanging tucked inside Jack’s, and he realizes how much that man loved him—how deeply he loved him from the get-go.

I had to see the movie twice before I realized that later on, when Ennis had those shirts hanging in his trailer, he’d tucked Jack’s inside his. Did you two come up with that?
Ossana: No. That was Heath.

What’s the stupidest question you’ve been asked so far?
McMurtry: Somebody asked us if we could see ourselves writing a sequel about Ennis which has a happy ending.
Ossana: We’ve been asked so many questions, some of which have raised the hair on the back of my neck. The first time we were asked if we felt brave for doing this, I was startled. The only time I felt any fear was when my daughter was in Laramie, Wyo., when they found Matthew Shepard. This was a year after we wrote the script, and it just hit home again, how from 1963 to the late ’90s it was the same. It wasn’t any different.

Some conservative pundits are saying your film attacks the myth of the cowboy. Larry, you ought to know: Does the myth of the cowboy need preserving?
McMurtry: I’ve discovered that it’s very hard to demythicize the cowboy. It’s the most iconic American figure of all.
Ossana: To say that we’ve attacked this masculine icon just seems silly. John Wayne and his movies will always be there.

You both live in red states. When you were working on this film, did you ever think about political aftermath?
McMurtry: Never.
Ossana: People are people. We all feel emotion. Every single person on this planet, and they’d be lying if they denied it, has felt loneliness in their lives.
McMurtry: The gratifying thing is that this movie has played well in all color states, red and blue. It draws them in because millions and millions of families have some gay member, involvement, problem, something. And I think people are seeking understanding in coming to this film. We’ve tapped into the zeitgeist somehow or other. It’s something you can’t really plan—it either happens or it doesn’t happen. The zeitgeist was waiting there out of sight and we didn’t know.

Who was the Texas-hairdo consultant?
Ossana: Ang Lee and the production designer came to Texas. We took them to Wichita Falls. And Ang saw people that still looked like that, so that stayed in his and Judy Becker’s minds, I’m sure.

Let me ask you about attending the Golden Globes. Larry, I know this is not your first time at that rodeo—
McMurtry: Yes, it was my first time. I’ve never been to an awards show of any kind until then. I’ve been nominated for Oscars and stuff; I just didn’t go. I never wanted to go. Still don’t, actually. [All laugh] But this movie is special. It’s up there with Terms of Endearment—at least as good, maybe better.

When you and Diana won for Best Screenplay, you thanked your typewriter for keeping you out of the “dry embrace of the computer.” It was the most original acceptance speech I’ve heard in a long time.
McMurtry: Thank you. I’ve got a better one if we win the Oscar.

Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: frenchcda on Apr 29, 2006, 11:57 PM
Roberta Maxwell has done a wonderful interview and it is very touching, thank you!
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: keren_b on Apr 30, 2006, 07:25 AM
Thank you for the interview, sunflower... I've read it before but it was nice reading it again. Larry and Diana are great, when they talk about Ennis at the Twist's house you can feel how much the story and the characters are alive for them. They gave their heart & soul to this project.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Valandil Eluch on Apr 30, 2006, 07:22 PM
Sunflower79 i just have to say wow this article is amazing it had answer many questions that i always had ...but it also  open another ones but i really like it!!! thanks for sharing this!!
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Sunflower79 on May 01, 2006, 06:48 PM
I am glad you enjoyed the article..:) it really puts things in perspective...:)
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: Patriot1 on May 01, 2006, 07:58 PM
I am glad you enjoyed the article..:) it really puts things in perspective...:)

Yes, it truly does put things into perspective.

Ossana: ... And then he goes up to Jack’s room and he finds his old shirt hanging tucked inside Jack’s, and he realizes how much that man loved him—how deeply he loved him from the get-go.

Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: keren_b on May 02, 2006, 02:33 AM
Ossana: ... And then he goes up to Jack’s room and he finds his old shirt hanging tucked inside Jack’s, and he realizes how much that man loved him—how deeply he loved him from the get-go.

I always choke when I read this part.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: NoReins on May 02, 2006, 02:39 AM
Ossana: ... And then he goes up to Jack’s room and he finds his old shirt hanging tucked inside Jack’s, and he realizes how much that man loved him—how deeply he loved him from the get-go.

I always choke when I read this part.

Yeah, 'cos that's the crux of it, isn't it? It's not just from the reunion onwards that Jack is in love with Ennis, even though that's when he first starts talking about a life together....instead it's right from that first summer, stealing the shirt so he'll always have Ennis with him.
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: donnaread on May 02, 2006, 01:02 PM
Question...Diana Ossana has said that it was Heath's idea to reverse the shirts in his closet...but in the screenplay, it says they are reversed.  Do you think they changed the original screenplay before they published it?

Donna
Title: Re: the shirts in the closet
Post by: NoReins on May 02, 2006, 01:40 PM
I think they would have, Donna. In my copy of the screenplay it says "for publication October(?) 2005" which was after the movie was filmed (I may have the month wrong - I've lent the screenplay out)

It does seem a bit odd that they changed that bit but left in some of the other bits that are different from the final cut of the movie, though (dialogue, mostly)
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: jesseanne21 on Jun 14, 2006, 02:28 PM
How callous and cold to get a postcard back stamped deceased, Lureen = ice princess. She had to be the one who sent it back! I can't and don't want to imagine what I would go through if I lost my Bubba.

The "Deceased" stamp on the postcard probably came from the Post Office...it is a common practice in some areas.
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: stacp on Jun 14, 2006, 02:59 PM
I think Ennis knows that Jack loves him, but perhaps not the depth of his love and certainly not its duration. These are my reasons:

1. When the boys are told that the summer must end, Jack shows no emotion.

2. Jack meets, falls in love with and marries someone else AFTER meeting Ennis.  (Ennis had already promised himself, didn't see
    a future with Jack, so what the hay?)

3. Jack goes back for work the next year, but when he doesn't get it he moves on.  He doesn't look up Ennis.

4. Jack takes 4 years to contact Ennis.

5. Jack remains married and has numerous sexual partners.  He doesn't seem to be bothered that they are not Ennis or male at
    all, at least to Ennis's  knowledge.

6. Jack all but admits he has been with other men.

7. Jack tells his dad he is leaving Lureen and shacking up with another man.

I believe Ennis has a hard time not being true to his heart.  He cannot maintain sexual relations with either Alma or Cassie.  I believe he breaks things off with Cassie, because he is so hurt by the thought of Jack's infidelity with other men.  So, he decides to widen his definition of fidelity to include women.  Also his feelings of jealousy intensify his love for Jack, thereby making sex with Cassie unsatisfying.  Ennis knows how he felt for Jack one year after BBM, when he figures out why he was sick that day.  When he sees those shirts, he finally realizes that Jack loved him right from the start as he had.

I am of the opinion that Ennis knew that Jack loved him but he couldn't allow himself to admit it.  He pushed it to the back of his mind; it was easier to believe they were just friends who happened to have sex every once in a while.  Then, Ennis could keep on believing he wasn't gay and deeply in love with another man.  I think Jack showed no emotion upon leaving BBM because he genuinely believed he and Ennis would see each other again.  He offered to lend Ennis money, hoping to see him again.   When Jack goes back to Aguirre's office the following summer, he is basically looking for Ennis.  He could've cared less about a job.  He is so heart-broken that Ennis hasn't showed up.  What was Jack supposed to think?  Sure looked like Ennis, who left with a casual "see you around" didn't care enough about Jack to come back to BBM.   So, I think Jack tried to move on with his life.  He moved to Texas to rodeo.  Did he fall in love with Lureen?  I, personally, don't see it.  Maybe they had a superficial love/respect thing, but I don't see Jack as falling deeply in love with Lureen.  Just look at that faraway look in Jack's eyes when eh is dancing with Lureen. 

Yes, Jack waits four years to look up Ennis, but I think he tried to move on, but he couldn't get Ennis out of his heart.  So, he takes the bold move of writing to Enins after 4 years, not knowing what the reception would be.  This, to me, shows how much Jack loved Ennis.  I mean, if Jack just wanted a hook-up, he sure knew of ways to find it without driving all the way to Riverton.  Yes, Jack was "unfaithful" to Ennis (not to mention Lureen) when he had sex with the prostitute and Randall, probably.  This has always bugged me, but I tend to agree with a poster on another thread who likened Jack's affairs to Ennis "wringing it out a hundred times."  It was Jack's way of dealing with the separation from Ennis.  Certainly, I believe by the last scene of Jack and Ennis together (the big confrontation), Ennis began to admit to himself how much Jack loved him and vice versa.  Jack tells him the truth:  that he misses Ennis so much he can hardly stand it.  He tells Ennis that he has no idea how bad it gets without him, basically.  Ennis responds by breaking down and admitting he's nothing because his love for Jack has tormented him all these years.  Yes, I believe Ennis knew how much Jack cared for him, but like someone else said, it all came full circle, the depth of the love and regret, when he found those shirts.
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: karen1129 on Jun 14, 2006, 03:47 PM
Lord, Jack didn't drive 1400 miles, ones way several times a year for "just good sex". 
I think Ennis knew Jack loved him, wanted him to have a sweet life with him.  Jack was
always thinking of ways it could work, and Ennis was always telling him it couldn't.
If Jack had ever come right out and said "I love you" to Ennis, Ennis would have severed the
relationship right then.   That was Jack's fear.  Two men can't be in love is En's thinking.
That would make them gay and En didn't want to be gay.  They just had this "thing" to Ennis's thinking.
After Jack was gone....  saw those shirts......  that is when reality set in.  That's when he knew what
he really lost. 
Title: Re: Until the shirts...
Post by: stacp on Jun 14, 2006, 07:31 PM
Lord, Jack didn't drive 1400 miles, ones way several times a year for "just good sex". 
I think Ennis knew Jack loved him, wanted him to have a sweet life with him.  Jack was
always thinking of ways it could work, and Ennis was always telling him it couldn't.
If Jack had ever come right out and said "I love you" to Ennis, Ennis would have severed the
relationship right then.   That was Jack's fear.  Two men can't be in love is En's thinking.
That would make them gay and En didn't want to be gay.  They just had this "thing" to Ennis's thinking.
After Jack was gone....  saw those shirts......  that is when reality set in.  That's when he knew what
he really lost. 

Beautifully said, Karen.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: stephan on Jun 25, 2006, 02:36 AM
Hello, ejr, welcome to the forum   :c)

I Just to let you know that our question has found a home. I have merged it and two other discussions on the shirts. I hope this helps. Stephan
Title: Re: Ennis taking the shirts
Post by: stephan on Jun 25, 2006, 02:41 AM
(...)  I haven't read the screen play, was there more of an explanation there?

I have read neither the story nor the screenplay, but if in legal terms Ennis did steal the shirts, it is also true that one of the shirts did belong to Ennis in the first place. Morally I like to believe that he and Jack were as one, what was Ennis's was also Jack's and vice-versa. In that sense, Ennis was rescuing a cherished personal belonging from the oblivion that the Twists Sr. would have reserved for them.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jun 25, 2006, 07:35 AM
The shirts are the outward and visible symbol of Jack-and-Ennis; seeing them in Jack's room is the first time Ennis sees himself and Jack from the outside, as Jack wanted them to be, one entity, love making them indivisible..
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: NoReins on Jun 25, 2006, 08:06 AM
The shirts are the outward and visible symbol of Jack-and-Ennis; seeing them in Jack's room is the first time Ennis sees himself and Jack from the outside, as Jack wanted them to be, one entity, love making them indivisible..

Oh god, that's beautiful - one entity, two halves of the whole.

Reading this thread guarantees that I'm going to be in floods of tears next time I watch my dvd (when I get it back from a friend) :\'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: aimi15 on Jun 25, 2006, 09:08 AM
The shirts are the outward and visible symbol of Jack-and-Ennis; seeing them in Jack's room is the first time Ennis sees himself and Jack from the outside, as Jack wanted them to be, one entity, love making them indivisible..
welshwitch you really have the most beautiful turn of phrase, that is simply lovely and brings me to tears.  :\'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: LuvJackNasty on Jun 25, 2006, 09:55 AM
The shirts are the outward and visible symbol of Jack-and-Ennis; seeing them in Jack's room is the first time Ennis sees himself and Jack from the outside, as Jack wanted them to be, one entity, love making them indivisible..

 :\'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jun 25, 2006, 10:45 AM
I thought of adding, and will now, that it's often only in retrospect that you see clearly, when it's too late. Human beings seem particularly blinkered in the moment and capable of clarity only later, and when some outside influence intrudes. What could be greater than the contrast between John Twist, closed off and lacking the ability to love, and Jack?
John Twist wanted to shut Ennis out and destroy his memories; the shirts showed that Jack was the diametric opposite of his father, and whatever his father said, Jack had never stopped loving Ennis and had kept the shirts as a sign. They weren't some trivial souvenir, to be ditched when the next big thing came along; they were the only way he had, for all the months and years he was away from Ennis, of showing his love, and they went on doing that even after Jack was dead. This is Shakespeare's love "that bears it out even to the edge of doom".
Title: Re: Ennis taking the shirts
Post by: keren_b on Jun 25, 2006, 12:01 PM
This has probably been discussed but I can't find it.  Why would Ennis come downstairs with the shirts?  Jack's mom invited him to go see Jack's room she did not tell him to rummage around and help himself to what ever he wanted.  When I first read the story and found out he had the shirts at the end I thought he must have stollen them the way Jack took his shirt.  I haven't read the screen play, was there more of an explanation there?

When Jack's mom told Ennis that he's welcome to go up to his room, I can't believe she thought he would just stand in the middle of it like a log. She knew he was going to look around, I'm sure she expected it, and Ennis probably realized that. When the guy I loved killed himself and his brothers were emptying his apartment and invited me to come over, it was clear to me that they invited me to look at his things and take something as a souveneer, if I want. Going up to Jack's bedroom, this is something very intimate. you don't offer that to everybody. and Jack's mom didn't go up there with Ennis, because she knew how emotional this moment is for him and that he needs his privacy.
When Ennis found the shirts, it was inevitable that he would take them. the shirts were a symbol of their love, of their relationship, of the way they were - like two skins, two in one. it belonged to them, not to Jack's parents. isn't it the most natural thing in the world that if someone dies and leaves behind a love suveneer, the person who should have it is his lover? for me it seemed the most natural thing that Ennis would take the shirts. and although the story doesn't say how exactly he got them, in the movie he didn't just take them - he asked for permission. not with words, but when he came down he looked at Jack's mom and slightly lifted his hand with the shirts, like saying "can I...?" and she gave him a little nod that meant to say "of course you can", and got him the paper bag.
Title: Re: Ennis taking the shirts
Post by: ksxks on Jun 25, 2006, 04:29 PM

When Jack's mom told Ennis that he's welcome to go up to his room, I can't believe she thought he would just stand in the middle of it like a log. She knew he was going to look around, I'm sure she expected it, and Ennis probably realized that. When the guy I loved killed himself and his brothers were emptying his apartment and invited me to come over, it was clear to me that they invited me to look at his things and take something as a souveneer, if I want. Going up to Jack's bedroom, this is something very intimate. you don't offer that to everybody. and Jack's mom didn't go up there with Ennis, because she knew how emotional this moment is for him and that he needs his privacy.
When Ennis found the shirts, it was inevitable that he would take them. the shirts were a symbol of their love, of their relationship, of the way they were - like two skins, two in one. it belonged to them, not to Jack's parents. isn't it the most natural thing in the world that if someone dies and leaves behind a love suveneer, the person who should have it is his lover? for me it seemed the most natural thing that Ennis would take the shirts. and although the story doesn't say how exactly he got them, in the movie he didn't just take them - he asked for permission. not with words, but when he came down he looked at Jack's mom and slightly lifted his hand with the shirts, like saying "can I...?" and she gave him a little nod that meant to say "of course you can", and got him the paper bag.

I love this so much -- not just Ennis and the shirts in the closet, but the part with Jack's mother.  Just as you said -- with that little gesture, Ennis asking her permission, and her giving it...and without words.  Wouldn't want to say any words in front of Old Mr. Nasty.  And I love how he shifts them to his side away from Jack's father when he first comes into the room.

I am very sorry to hear of the one you loved dying, especially suicide...  I hope it's been a while and you have had time to heal, though of course we never do really heal.  I have lost a few family members, before their times, and it's never okay...

kathy
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: TheBoyFromNoWhere on Jun 25, 2006, 11:02 PM
i was going to post something but found something on Sunflower79's post before.  that's what i think.

Ossana: The father’s talking about Jack—“Ennis Del Mar, he used to say.” The camera turns to Ennis and you see this little faint smile on his face, ’cause Jack was talking about him. Then the father says, “And then Jack was gonna bring another fellow up here.” And you go back to Ennis and his smile is gone. That’s when he realizes there was somebody else. That hurts too. But he knows in his innards that it’s his own fault. He can’t blame Jack for that anymore. And then he goes up to Jack’s room and he finds his old shirt hanging tucked inside Jack’s, and he realizes how much that man loved him—how deeply he loved him from the get-go.

so, i think that ennis could have many kind of feeling to see the shirts.  he could be confused.  happy to know that jack has mentioned him to his family.  that is the real serious relationship, i believe.  i won't add anyone to my family if i don't feel i want him/her in my life.  even jack's wife has never seen jack's folks.  however, ennis is heartbroken by knowing that there is someone else jack trys to 'quit' him after jack said he didn't know how.  then, ennis finds that actully jack can't really quit when ennis sees the shirts.  it's like the happy-sad-happy scene that i like.  i also love the communication between ennis and jack's mother.  could they be better?  of course not.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: BBBOY on Jun 25, 2006, 11:35 PM
i was going to post something but found something on Sunflower79's post before.  that's what i think.

Ossana: The father’s talking about Jack—“Ennis Del Mar, he used to say.” The camera turns to Ennis and you see this little faint smile on his face, ’cause Jack was talking about him. Then the father says, “And then Jack was gonna bring another fellow up here.” And you go back to Ennis and his smile is gone. That’s when he realizes there was somebody else. That hurts too. But he knows in his innards that it’s his own fault. He can’t blame Jack for that anymore. And then he goes up to Jack’s room and he finds his old shirt hanging tucked inside Jack’s, and he realizes how much that man loved him—how deeply he loved him from the get-go.

so, i think that ennis could have many kind of feeling to see the shirts.  he could be confused.  happy to know that jack has mentioned him to his family.  that is the real serious relationship, i believe.  i won't add anyone to my family if i don't feel i want him/her in my life.  even jack's wife has never seen jack's folks.  however, ennis is heartbroken by knowing that there is someone else jack trys to 'quit' him after jack said he didn't know how.  then, ennis finds that actully jack can't really quit when ennis sees the shirts.  it's like the happy-sad-happy scene that i like.  i also love the communication between ennis and jack's mother.  could they be better?  of course not.

The communication between Ennis and Jack's mother is most important to the movie. She is saying, "I understand my son and I know how important you (Ennis) were to him. And it is alright." It is the most beautiful scene in the movie I think.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: keren_b on Jun 26, 2006, 05:09 AM
There are so many hints that show that Jack's mom knows. She treats Ennis very tenderly, from the begining. Notice when she offers Ennis to go up to Jack's room - it's right after Jack's father reminds the other fella that Jack was going to bring up there. you see Ennis swallowing hard and the corner of his mouth quiver, like he's fighting not to cry, and then Jack's mom puts her hand on his shoulder very softly, like comforting him, and offers him to go up to Jack's room. The mere fact that she offered that is an indication she knew that Ennis loved her son and vice versa. I said it before, going to see the deceased bedroom is a very private and intimate act, you don't offer that to anybody who comes from the street, only to people who were the most close to the one who died. and you can see how important this gesture was to Ennis and how much he appreciated that.
Then, when he came down with the shirts and that silent communication between them. Taking the shirts was the first time that Ennis confessed to anybody how important Jack was to him, and what kind of feelings he had for him. taking someone's clothing item as a suveneer is also something very personal and very intimate, don't you think? Ennis taking Jack's shirt would've looked weird if they really were just "buddies" or co-workers or anything like that. by taking his shirt Ennis was saying "I had deep feelings for you son, he meant to me more than I can tell you, and these shirts have deep meaning for me and I want to keep them because I need something of his, something that was a part of him, to remember, to keep him close to me..." and by the look on Jack's mom's face you can see that it doesn't look weird to her, she understands completely because she knows they loved each other.
Finally, she says, "you come visit us again sometime..." and this is the final proof that she knew. why would she wanna see Ennis again? because she knows this is the man her son loved. and since she lost her son, this man is the closest person to him she got left. Ennis is a part of Jack, the most significant part of his life, and that makes him special for Jack's mom becasue she loved her son.

I also wanted to add that when Ennis comes down with the shirts, Jack's mom looks like she'd expected that. to me, her look and that little nod seem to say "oh, I see you've found them... yes, of course you can take them". some people were saying that when she offered Ennis to go up there she expected him to find the shirts, or at least hoped that would happen - while I'm not totally sure of it, I can't rule out the possibility.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Jun 26, 2006, 06:53 AM
Thanks everybody for sharing these wonderful thoughts.

As keren_b has mentioned, Jack's mom seemed to have expected that Ennis would find the shirst and request that he have them.  Her nod to him is quiete and matter-of fact.  I do believe that Roberta Maxwell meant to convey the element of the mother "knowing" all along about her son.

 
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: stephan on Jun 26, 2006, 07:22 AM
These are such beautiful thoughts, thank you everyone.
I think of Mrs Twist inviting Ennis to come back and visit anytime he wants. In other words, the love of a mother for her son extends to the one her son loves, including permanent hospitality. I can't help but remember the dialogue between Jesus and his mother, when he is on the cross.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: frances on Jun 26, 2006, 07:28 AM
There's a moment I particularly love in this scene. As Ennis is going out the door, he nods thanks again for the shirts. They lock eyes -- he actually turns slightly in a very subtle double-take when he sees her expression -- and they hold that look for maybe an extra half a second. In that moment she is telling him she understands, and offering one last wordless gesture of comfort.
And he gets it.

Probably the only sympathy Ennis will ever get from anyone in his relationship with Jack and it's for such a short duration.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: keren_b on Jun 26, 2006, 07:31 AM
Heath's acting in this scene is nothing but perfect. damn perfect.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Jun 26, 2006, 07:42 AM
...et alium paracletum dabit vobis ut maneat vobiscum in aeternum.         
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: keren_b on Jun 26, 2006, 07:45 AM
...et alium paracletum dabit vobis ut maneat vobiscum in aeternum.         

What does that mean?
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Jun 26, 2006, 07:47 AM
...et alium paracletum dabit vobis ut maneat vobiscum in aeternum.         

What does that mean?

And he shall give you another comforter, that he may abide with you forever.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: stephan on Jun 26, 2006, 07:56 AM

What does that mean?

And he shall give you another comforter, that he may abide with you forever.

Tpe :  O0
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: ksxks on Jun 26, 2006, 04:38 PM
There are so many hints that show that Jack's mom knows. She treats Ennis very tenderly, from the begining. Notice when she offers Ennis to go up to Jack's room - it's right after Jack's father reminds the other fella that Jack was going to bring up there. you see Ennis swallowing hard and the corner of his mouth quiver, like he's fighting not to cry, and then Jack's mom puts her hand on his shoulder very softly, like comforting him, and offers him to go up to Jack's room. The mere fact that she offered that is an indication she knew that Ennis loved her son and vice versa. I said it before, going to see the deceased bedroom is a very private and intimate act, you don't offer that to anybody who comes from the street, only to people who were the most close to the one who died. and you can see how important this gesture was to Ennis and how much he appreciated that.
Then, when he came down with the shirts and that silent communication between them. Taking the shirts was the first time that Ennis confessed to anybody how important Jack was to him, and what kind of feelings he had for him. taking someone's clothing item as a suveneer is also something very personal and very intimate, don't you think? Ennis taking Jack's shirt would've looked weird if they really were just "buddies" or co-workers or anything like that. by taking his shirt Ennis was saying "I had deep feelings for you son, he meant to me more than I can tell you, and these shirts have deep meaning for me and I want to keep them because I need something of his, something that was a part of him, to remember, to keep him close to me..." and by the look on Jack's mom's face you can see that it doesn't look weird to her, she understands completely because she knows they loved each other.
Finally, she says, "you come visit us again sometime..." and this is the final proof that she knew. why would she wanna see Ennis again? because she knows this is the man her son loved. and since she lost her son, this man is the closest person to him she got left. Ennis is a part of Jack, the most significant part of his life, and that makes him special for Jack's mom becasue she loved her son.

I also wanted to add that when Ennis comes down with the shirts, Jack's mom looks like she'd expected that. to me, her look and that little nod seem to say "oh, I see you've found them... yes, of course you can take them". some people were saying that when she offered Ennis to go up there she expected him to find the shirts, or at least hoped that would happen - while I'm not totally sure of it, I can't rule out the possibility.


Making me said, reading of this poignant scene.  I love how you've written about it, keren, a little revisiting of these moments while I am at my workaday life.  You said how Ennis taking the shirts isn't something some "buddy" would do -- it's intimate.  So true.  And also about Mrs. Twist's immediately recognizing what he was carrying when he came down, before even his gesture and her getting the bag.  That was just phenomenal acting, by everyone.  I  know I'm "preaching to the choir," and it goes without saying, yet still I am always struck by the quality and subtlety of these performances...

kathy
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: ksxks on Jun 26, 2006, 04:41 PM
There's a moment I particularly love in this scene. As Ennis is going out the door, he nods thanks again for the shirts. They lock eyes -- he actually turns slightly in a very subtle double-take when he sees her expression -- and they hold that look for maybe an extra half a second. In that moment she is telling him she understands, and offering one last wordless gesture of comfort.
And he gets it.

Probably the only sympathy Ennis will ever get from anyone in his relationship with Jack and it's for such a short duration.

Oh god now I really am almost in tears.  I know those moments you mean, but now I need to get home tonight and watch them again.  I love that little silent eye-contact between them at the door, but I never quite noticed the extra little look.  Oh shit, it just breaks my heart, what you said: "the only sympathy Ennis will ever get from anyone in his relationship with Jack." 

kathy
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: BBBOY on Jun 26, 2006, 04:58 PM
Great posts folks. There is so much still to be gleaned from this movie.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: TheBoyFromNoWhere on Jun 26, 2006, 11:58 PM
umn... i have nothing to add.  i wish i know how to quit BBM.  %)
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: stephan on Jun 27, 2006, 06:26 AM
umn... i have nothing to add.  i wish i know how to quit BBM.  %)

Mon cher ami, love is so powerful, so frighteningly powerful, but who could live without it ?  :^^)
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Jun 27, 2006, 06:56 AM
umn... i have nothing to add.  i wish i know how to quit BBM.  %)

Mon cher ami, love is so powerful, so frighteningly powerful, but who could live without it ?  :^^)

Nobody, save the spiritually dead, and the heartless.

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: jeffjoe on Jul 09, 2006, 12:36 AM
Posiblemente Ennis sabia en el fondo de su corazon cuanto lo amaba Jack, pero no lo comprendio hasta ver ambas camisas unidas con sangre... esta escena me partio el corazon. :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'(

Maybe Ennis know in the deep of his heart how much jack love him but he don't understand it until he saw both shirts joined with blood... this scene has broken my heart.  :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: ande_nem on Jul 09, 2006, 05:38 AM
Posiblemente Ennis sabia en el fondo de su corazon cuanto lo amaba Jack, pero no lo comprendio hasta ver ambas camisas unidas con sangre... esta escena me partio el corazon. :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'(

Maybe Ennis know in the deep of his heart how much jack love him but he don't understand it until he saw both shirts joined with blood... this scene has broken my heart.  :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'( :\'(

Yeh same. I can't watch that scene without crying, and I start to well up just thinking about it  :\'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 09, 2006, 02:08 PM
The shirts are effective also partly because they're such ordinary everyday things - anyone who's been in love knows that the things you treasure are rarely valuable in a monetary sense but just closely linked with or clearly reminiscent of the one you love. Ennis must picture Jack in the blue shirt as he once was up on the mountain, alive and full of energy; now the shirt retains his blood long after he has gone for ever.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: browneyes on Jul 09, 2006, 02:21 PM
I think that is why Ennis buttons up the top button on Jack's shirt. Just to have more of a memory of how Jack looked in it. Because when they were on Brokeback, all of the buttons were fasten (even the top). And it's weird, because when my dog died in February. The vet gave me her colaar and the first thing I did was smell it (just like Ennis did with Jack's shirt). I even put it in a little zip-lock bag, so I don't lose the scent. I really loved my doggie. :(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Jul 09, 2006, 02:50 PM
I canot help envisioning the shirts as a relic.  And Ennis's blood is the compact.  The fulfilment is the shedding of Jack's blood.  As Ennis's was sealed on the Mountain, so Jack's is shed on the grieving plain.

 
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 09, 2006, 05:01 PM
Each shirt has its owner's blood, but their blood may also be mixed. I like to see it as such, and therefore as a kind of blood-brotherhood. It also reminds me of being a kid and sticking a needle in one's finger to sign some fearful oath or mix it with that of one's friends as part of some game or gang thing. Blood is a powerful link

                 He that sheds his blood with me today
      Shall be my brother.
 
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: BBBOY on Jul 09, 2006, 05:33 PM
Each shirt has its owner's blood, but their blood may also be mixed. I like to see it as such, and therefore as a kind of blood-brotherhood. It also reminds me of being a kid and sticking a needle in one's finger to sign some fearful oath or mix it with that of one's friends as part of some game or gang thing. Blood is a powerful link

                 He that sheds his blood with me today
      Shall be my brother.
 

Beautiful WW.  :\'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: browneyes on Jul 09, 2006, 06:32 PM
I believe it's only Ennis' blood on the shirts. Jack didn't bleed when they were fighting.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: LuvJackNasty on Jul 09, 2006, 07:33 PM
Beautiful tpe & WW.  :\'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: keren_b on Jul 10, 2006, 05:53 AM
I believe it's only Ennis' blood on the shirts. Jack didn't bleed when they were fighting.

I agree. after the fight you see Jack is trying to wipe Ennis's blood with his own sleeve, but he wasn't bleeding himself.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: stephan on Jul 10, 2006, 06:03 AM
In any case, I feel that for Jack, it was like sharing Ennis's blood. The blood-stained shirt was an image of what Jack had become : his love for Ennis was like having Ennis's blood in his veins.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: NoReins on Jul 10, 2006, 06:12 AM
In any case, I feel that for Jack, it was like sharing Ennis's blood. The blood-stained shirt was an image of what Jack had become : his love for Ennis was like having Ennis's blood in his veins.

Aye, and Ennis's shirt is wrapped up in his just like Jack held Ennis inside him for 20 years (and I swear that is not meant to be suggestive at all ;))
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: stephan on Jul 10, 2006, 06:20 AM

Aye, and Ennis's shirt is wrapped up in his just like Jack held Ennis inside him for 20 years (and I swear that is not meant to be suggestive at all ;))

NoReins, I like your image of Jack's love  :\'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Jul 10, 2006, 06:44 AM
In any case, I feel that for Jack, it was like sharing Ennis's blood. The blood-stained shirt was an image of what Jack had become : his love for Ennis was like having Ennis's blood in his veins.

Yes, Ennis's blood is the compact that is sealed with the shedding of Jack's blood later on... When Ennis bleeds, so does Jack.  When Jack dies, so does Ennis.

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: gimmejack on Jul 10, 2006, 06:59 AM
I'm not too often the optimist, but I always felt that Ennis came alive in a way with Jack's death. In his dealing with his family, his being more in touch with his feelings and actually allowing himself to feel...grieve...love and furthermore, not being ashamed to show it with Jack's parents. Right away after finding the shirts, he is finally able to say it out loud..."I love you (even though a whisper).... Jack I swear". Kind of an awakening IMO.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Jul 10, 2006, 07:02 AM
I'm not too often the optimist, but I always felt that Ennis came alive in a way with Jack's death. In his dealing with his family, his being more in touch with his feelings and actually allowing himself to feel...grieve...love and furthermore, not being ashamed to show it with Jack's parents. Right away after finding the shirts, he is finally able to say it out loud..."I love you (even though a whisper).... Jack I swear". Kind of an awakening IMO.

Perhaps.  But I think he will love nobody else the way he loved Jack.  In this sense, he is now dead to the world.

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: gimmejack on Jul 10, 2006, 07:29 AM
Nobody could ever come close to their love.  A closed heart, indeed...May as well be dead.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 10, 2006, 12:20 PM
DEad to the world in the sense of anyone new, maybe, but alive to the emotions inside himself and the knowledge of what Jack meant to him, with the shirts as a rminder of what he had meant to Jack.

   "'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all."
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: gimmejack on Jul 10, 2006, 01:19 PM
DEad to the world in the sense of anyone new, maybe, but alive to the emotions inside himself and the knowledge of what Jack meant to him, with the shirts as a rminder of what he had meant to Jack.

   "'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all."
Beautifully put!
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 11, 2006, 06:10 AM
By Samuel Butler, then later Tennyson!

But it does sum up what I feel - Ennis knows, when he holds the shirts, what he had and what he's lost, but at least he ( and Jack) had it for a time.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Jul 11, 2006, 07:00 AM
By Samuel Butler, then later Tennyson!

But it does sum up what I feel - Ennis knows, when he holds the shirts, what he had and what he's lost, but at least he ( and Jack) had it for a time.

The pain of love lost is pleasure compared to the void of not having loved at all.

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Patriot1 on Jul 16, 2006, 03:09 PM
Yes, Ennis's blood is the compact that is sealed with the shedding of Jack's blood later on... When Ennis bleeds, so does Jack.  When Jack dies, so does Ennis.

But Ennis didn't die. After Jack's death Ennis was coming alive. He admitted to himself he was in love with Jack in Jack's closet. He was brave enough to take the shirts even though it meant admitting to the Twists his love for Jack. He agreed to go to his daughter's wedding. No, no, TPE, Ennis didn't die. He was coming alive.

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: frances on Jul 16, 2006, 07:04 PM
Yes, Ennis's blood is the compact that is sealed with the shedding of Jack's blood later on... When Ennis bleeds, so does Jack.  When Jack dies, so does Ennis.

But Ennis didn't die. After Jack's death Ennis was coming alive. He admitted to himself he was in love with Jack in Jack's closet. He was brave enough to take the shirts even though it meant admitting to the Twists his love for Jack. He agreed to go to his daughter's wedding. No, no, TPE, Ennis didn't die. He was coming alive.



Again. I agree with Patriot. The Jack's closet scene is the moment of Ennis'awareness, in a way, yes, the beginning of his coming alive.

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 17, 2006, 04:55 AM
In holding the shirts he comes to a realisation of his love though knowing that the one he loves is gone and will never be replaced - that's the point of "Jack, I swear," to some degree. He comes alive to the word of the emotions in the sense of allowing himself to try to understand the needs and wants of others, hence his promise to go to Alma Jr's wedding. Before this he's have used his usual excuse of work to avoid it.He was now alive to the possibility of involvement with others, as long as they were unlikely to hurt him as his love for Jack had done; as far as falling in love was concerned, he was dead to the possibility.

There are various ways of reacting to the loss of one you love, whether they die or simply become unavailable. You can treasure the memory and decide to remain faithful to it, or treasure the memory but remain open to the other possibilities. Ennis does the former. Or of course you can become embittered and give up on the world; Ennis emphaticaly doesn't do that.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: aintfoolin on Jul 17, 2006, 10:21 AM
I almost have to force myself to watch the movie to this far. It's just to sad , but I watched the movie all the way through recently. The scene is so powerful it takes my breath away with Ennis discovering the shirts the way he did. The blood on them , taking him back to a much happier time on the mountain, contrasting with the present situation he's in makes me tear up. And then the realization that Jack's mom knows who he is and his true relationship to her son. It's obvious that Jack had a close bond with his mother, judging from the way she reacted to Ennis. At some point Jack must have told her about how he felt about Ennis and she at some point knew what the shirts meant. But the emotion between her and Ennis ,the mutual understanding between them is so well acted and so real it's off the page!  Heartwrenching.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Jul 17, 2006, 10:41 AM
I had missed the post from Patriot1 and frances.

It is my fault not to clarify what I and meant.  I posted this point of view in another thread, and I should not assume that everyone follows all the threads here.

Ennis will never love anybody else the way he loved Jack (if we take the "I swear" to mean eternal fidelity, as Jake Gyllenhaal has implied in one of his interviews).  Here, the door to this is forever closed.  But as I had said in the other post, a closed door is an invitiation for the pilgrim to enter roads not explored, and in this sense, Ennis is alive.

Judging from the tenor of how the older Ennis is described in the first dream sequence of the short story, I doubt that Ennis opens up that much in later life.  He continues to dream of Jack.  He remains alone, although the choice is there to live for a short time with his daughter.  His daughter's love he will have; a love like that between him and Jack: never again.  In that sense, he is indeed dead.




Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: gimmejack on Jul 18, 2006, 05:48 AM
I had missed the post from Patriot1 and frances.

It is my fault not to clarify what I and meant.  I posted this point of view in another thread, and I should not assume that everyone follows all the threads here.

Ennis will never love anybody else the way he loved Jack (if we take the "I swear" to mean eternal fidelity, as Jake Gyllenhaal has implied in one of his interviews).  Here, the door to this is forever closed.  But as I had said in the other post, a closed door is an invitiation for the pilgrim to enter roads not explored, and in this sense, Ennis is alive.

Judging from the tenor of how the older Ennis is described in the first dream sequence of the short story, I doubt that Ennis opens up that much in later life.  He continues to dream of Jack.  He remains alone, although the choice is there to live for a short time with his daughter.  His daughter's love he will have; a love like that between him and Jack: never again.  In that sense, he is indeed dead.





:\'( :\'(True...although enlightened, Ennis is heartbroken forevermore :\'( :\'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: jeffjoe on Jul 18, 2006, 10:53 PM
What is love? How you can recognize? Well look in your closet if you find two shirts together with a little bit of  blood, maybe you have find love, have you think about it? :s)
With best regards for all
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Jul 19, 2006, 07:36 AM
What is love? How you can recognize? Well look in your closet if you find two shirts together with a little bit of  blood, maybe you have find love, have you think about it? :s)
With best regards for all

I think many of us here who have gone through the winepress of Love can identify their own "two bloodied shirts in the closet".

Love never leaves us unchanged.  The winepress crushes the grape, even as it brings us new wine.

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: gimmejack on Jul 19, 2006, 09:38 PM
It's all the little things we save that for some reason were so important at that moment, they were carefully put away in a safe place and are carried with us through life...
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 20, 2006, 05:43 AM
Sometimes these very "treasures" are the ones we destroy when a relationship goes wrong; Jack kept the shirts. He goes back to Lightning Flat immediately after the confrontation with Ennsi, but he leaves the shirts where they are. And at least in his room there's no trace of Randall ( or anyone else) - Ennis is the only one he wants to remember.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: aintfoolin on Jul 20, 2006, 06:13 AM
I wonder if Jack actually told his mom about the shirts, or was it something "unspoken" btween them. This would be an interesting conversation.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Jul 20, 2006, 07:34 AM
I wonder if Jack actually told his mom about the shirts, or was it something "unspoken" btween them. This would be an interesting conversation.

I recall a discussion of this possibility in an old thread (perhaps the one dealing with Jack's mom).  If I recall correctly, the concensus then that it was improbable for her NOT to have known about the shirts.  BUt I recall that there was no clear concensus as to whether they did or didn't talk about it.  In my opinion, Jack's mom probably heard about Ennis many times, knew about the shirts, and put two and two together.

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: frances on Jul 20, 2006, 05:43 PM
Sometimes these very "treasures" are the ones we destroy when a relationship goes wrong; Jack kept the shirts. He goes back to Lightning Flat immediately after the confrontation with Ennsi, but he leaves the shirts where they are. And at least in his room there's no trace of Randall ( or anyone else) - Ennis is the only one he wants to remember.

I've imagined Jack so many times, bringing those shirts out of the hidey-hole and caressing them, smelling Ennis's, holding on to them reverently just as Ennis does later on. As long as those shirts were hidden in the back of his closet, it proved Jack still loved Ennis. As long as Jack loved Ennis, he'd hold on to the shirts and keep them safe.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: gimmejack on Jul 20, 2006, 10:28 PM
Sometimes these very "treasures" are the ones we destroy when a relationship goes wrong; Jack kept the shirts. He goes back to Lightning Flat immediately after the confrontation with Ennsi, but he leaves the shirts where they are. And at least in his room there's no trace of Randall ( or anyone else) - Ennis is the only one he wants to remember.
Good point Welshwitch, those shirts are his most prized possession. Nobody else, including Randall or Lureen could ever compare.   Those shirts are golden.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: jeffjoe on Jul 20, 2006, 11:28 PM
Can a material thing show the real nature of love?... well two shirts in a closet may don't say anything for the rest of the people, but we, all in this forum know something about the true love, yes by God if we know it, love is a force of nature, a treasure as welshwitch say and two shirts are the symbol of this real and pure love O0
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 21, 2006, 06:49 AM
I wonder if Christians of whatever complexion have grown up attuned to the idea of material things as symbols and assign the shirts an iconic significance that others might not? I don't know,I'm just curious.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Jul 21, 2006, 07:24 AM
I wonder if Christians of whatever complexion have grown up attuned to the idea of material things as symbols and assign the shirts an iconic significance that others might not? I don't know,I'm just curious.

Not so sure if it is just limited to Christians.  I think people of all creeds and races hunger for symbols.  The shirts are just shirts, but the context that overlays them is universal.

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 21, 2006, 11:22 AM
Yes, but symbol aren't relics. Do other faiths go in for relics? I think we see the shirts in a sort of mediaeval way, like pieces of the True Cross or the handkerchief of St Veronica - I'm not sure whether adherents of other faiths would see them in the same way. There's also the fact that they're blood-stained - blood has powerful resonances in Christianity but does it have the same ones in other cultures? I don't know enough to say.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: TheBoyFromNoWhere on Jul 23, 2006, 11:46 PM
Sometimes these very "treasures" are the ones we destroy when a relationship goes wrong; Jack kept the shirts. He goes back to Lightning Flat immediately after the confrontation with Ennsi, but he leaves the shirts where they are. And at least in his room there's no trace of Randall ( or anyone else) - Ennis is the only one he wants to remember.

I've imagined Jack so many times, bringing those shirts out of the hidey-hole and caressing them, smelling Ennis's, holding on to them reverently just as Ennis does later on. As long as those shirts were hidden in the back of his closet, it proved Jack still loved Ennis. As long as Jack loved Ennis, he'd hold on to the shirts and keep them safe.

oh... i just read your post, frances.  there are things that weren't in the movie.  but if we imagine, it's such the things that we love to see.   <^(  just to imagine that, my heart is beating so hard.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: MississaugaRed on Jul 24, 2006, 08:17 AM
Sometimes these very "treasures" are the ones we destroy when a relationship goes wrong; Jack kept the shirts. He goes back to Lightning Flat immediately after the confrontation with Ennsi, but he leaves the shirts where they are. And at least in his room there's no trace of Randall ( or anyone else) - Ennis is the only one he wants to remember.

I've imagined Jack so many times, bringing those shirts out of the hidey-hole and caressing them, smelling Ennis's, holding on to them reverently just as Ennis does later on. As long as those shirts were hidden in the back of his closet, it proved Jack still loved Ennis. As long as Jack loved Ennis, he'd hold on to the shirts and keep them safe.

 :\'(   :\'(    <^(

Watching BBM yesterday for the first time in almost a month, these moments when Ennis finds the shirts struck me differently than before.

Before had always broken down thinking about what Ennis was feeling at that moment.  His pain, him clinging to the shirts because they were all that was left for him now, physical proof of Jack's love for him from the beginning.

This time, it also felt as if Ennis was claiming Jack, by taking those shirts into his arms. And thinkng of Jack watching Ennis do this, for once it wasn't only the heartbreak coming through.   I could almost feel Jack resting more peacefully, content now because he'd also be thinking "Ennis ... you finally came for me.  You're really here, for me".  The way Ennis had never been able to do for Jack in life.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Jul 24, 2006, 08:41 AM
Yes, but symbol aren't relics. Do other faiths go in for relics? I think we see the shirts in a sort of mediaeval way, like pieces of the True Cross or the handkerchief of St Veronica - I'm not sure whether adherents of other faiths would see them in the same way. There's also the fact that they're blood-stained - blood has powerful resonances in Christianity but does it have the same ones in other cultures? I don't know enough to say.

Actually, the idea of relics in the Christianity of Late Antiquity probably owed a lot (albeit through indirect transmission) to the cult of relics in Buddhism.  Of course, such things as the tooth of the Buddha are one of the most cherished relics in the world.  It should not be lost upon us that the story of the "Christian" Saints Barlaam and Josaphat is actually the Story of the Buddha -- as unkowningly retold by John Damascene in the 6th century.  So technically, Buddha is a Christian saint...

Sorry if a bit OOT.

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: frances on Jul 24, 2006, 12:43 PM


Watching BBM yesterday for the first time in almost a month, these moments when Ennis finds the shirts struck me differently than before.

Before had always broken down thinking about what Ennis was feeling at that moment.  His pain, him clinging to the shirts because they were all that was left for him now, physical proof of Jack's love for him from the beginning.

This time, it also felt as if Ennis was claiming Jack, by taking those shirts into his arms. And thinkng of Jack watching Ennis do this, for once it wasn't only the heartbreak coming through.   I could almost feel Jack resting more peacefully, content now because he'd also be thinking "Ennis ... you finally came for me.  You're really here, for me".  The way Ennis had never been able to do for Jack in life.

It seems right now that all I've ever done in my life is making my way here to you.
(The Bridges of Madison County )


Wonderful post. Thank you

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: MississaugaRed on Jul 24, 2006, 12:54 PM


It seems right now that all I've ever done in my life is making my way here to you.
(The Bridges of Madison County )


Wonderful post. Thank you



I love that quote, frances ...  words to match the image of Ennis embracing the shirts.   ^f^  Thank YOU!
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: aimi15 on Jul 24, 2006, 01:24 PM


Watching BBM yesterday for the first time in almost a month, these moments when Ennis finds the shirts struck me differently than before.

Before had always broken down thinking about what Ennis was feeling at that moment.  His pain, him clinging to the shirts because they were all that was left for him now, physical proof of Jack's love for him from the beginning.

This time, it also felt as if Ennis was claiming Jack, by taking those shirts into his arms. And thinkng of Jack watching Ennis do this, for once it wasn't only the heartbreak coming through.   I could almost feel Jack resting more peacefully, content now because he'd also be thinking "Ennis ... you finally came for me.  You're really here, for me".  The way Ennis had never been able to do for Jack in life.

It seems right now that all I've ever done in my life is making my way here to you.
(The Bridges of Madison County )


Wonderful post. Thank you


MisRed, this is one of the most tearjerking but utterly beautiful posts i have read. It hadn't really occurred to me in that way before, i'm usually in a mess by then, but the way you have put it makes total sense. Thank you for a truly gorgeous post. ^f^
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: browneyes on Jul 24, 2006, 01:27 PM
And to me the shirts prove that Jack would've still saw Ennis, even if he tried to have a life with someone else. The shirts to me is like an unconditional love Jack had for Ennis and no one could change that. In the scene, after the flashback and the look on Jack's face, to me Jack is thinking that his dream with Ennis is dead. So he can try to find someone to share his sweet life. But the shirts prove Jack would've still saw Ennis even after trying to have a life with someone else. That is why I believe the November trip would've been the big ultimatum-the decision that would change the course of their entire relationship. If Ennis knew Jack was having a life w/ someone else, he would've been on fire. However, what Ennis would've done is totally left in the air. He probably would've killed Randall in his sleep. And have that life with Jack.    
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: MississaugaRed on Jul 24, 2006, 02:28 PM
MisRed, this is one of the most tearjerking but utterly beautiful posts i have read. It hadn't really occurred to me in that way before, i'm usually in a mess by then, but the way you have put it makes total sense. Thank you for a truly gorgeous post. ^f^
thanks, aimi15!  ^f^ But it's because of eveyone else here at ej that these things come to mind ...  :^^) 
Reading what everyone else writes here gives me new perspectives and insights, makes it seem like I'm watching BBM with fresh eyes each time ... something you couldn't nornally say about something you've seen 27 times!  ::)

And to me the shirts prove that Jack would've still saw Ennis, even if he tried to have a life with someone else. The shirts to me is like an unconditional love Jack had for Ennis and no one could change that. In the scene, after the flashback and the look on Jack's face, to me Jack is thinking that his dream with Ennis is dead. So he can try to find someone to share his sweet life. But the shirts prove Jack would've still saw Ennis even after trying to have a life with someone else. That is why I believe the November trip would've been the big ultimatum-the decision that would change the course of their entire relationship. If Ennis knew Jack was having a life w/ someone else, he would've been on fire. However, what Ennis would've done is totally left in the air. He probably would've killed Randall in his sleep. And have that life with Jack.    
Interesting point, browneyes, about Ennis being "on fire", and an apt choice of words, I think.   :)   For all that he's often spoken of as being the quiet one, his intensity does burn through, particularly in anything to do with his relationship with our Jack. 

Just the way that he switches the shirts around so that his own is now covering Jack's, speaks to the protective instincts he has always had inside, trying to keep Jack safe.  Ultimately he had been unable to shield Jack from being hurt by the world - and indeed Ennis had a hand in the hurting, mortal blows aside.  Sometimes I see this reversal of the shirts as being an apology to Jack for that hurt he suffered due to Ennis's fears, as well as a promise that Ennis's love would have been there for him always, regardless of those last words spoken.

Don't know that I think Ennis would go as far as to kill Randall in his sleep, though ...  Now, in a bar fight maybe ...  ;)   
Like you, many of us want to believe that Ennis would one day have decided to have that sweet life with Jack ... and we can speculate on what might have one day made him change is mind .... left up in the air, as you say, because of Jack's life being cut short.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: gimmejack on Jul 24, 2006, 02:39 PM
And to me the shirts prove that Jack would've still saw Ennis, even if he tried to have a life with someone else. The shirts to me is like an unconditional love Jack had for Ennis and no one could change that. In the scene, after the flashback and the look on Jack's face, to me Jack is thinking that his dream with Ennis is dead. So he can try to find someone to share his sweet life. But the shirts prove Jack would've still saw Ennis even after trying to have a life with someone else. That is why I believe the November trip would've been the big ultimatum-the decision that would change the course of their entire relationship. If Ennis knew Jack was having a life w/ someone else, he would've been on fire. However, what Ennis would've done is totally left in the air. He probably would've killed Randall in his sleep. And have that life with Jack.    
I do also believe that November would have been ultimatum month...Ennis let so much come to the surface at the final meeting and once you get that all out and show yourself like that...it is a huge relief.  I truly feel those 2 had nowhere to go but up after that last meeting especially with Ennis initiating their next meeting so sweetly. 

Your point of the post is what makes the story all the more tragic    :\'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: browneyes on Jul 24, 2006, 02:41 PM
Just like the tagline "Love is a Force of Nature". They couldn't help loving each other, they could have other lives other relationships but ultimately they were in love with each other and couldn't do anything about it. 
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: gimmejack on Jul 24, 2006, 02:43 PM
So true, they did what they could.  Their time was precious... If it wasn't there is no way Jack would have kept making those 14 hour trips.  And Ennis giving up his jobs.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: LuvJackNasty on Jul 24, 2006, 08:42 PM

And to me the shirts prove that Jack would've still saw Ennis, even if he tried to have a life with someone else. The shirts to me is like an unconditional love Jack had for Ennis and no one could change that. In the scene, after the flashback and the look on Jack's face, to me Jack is thinking that his dream with Ennis is dead. So he can try to find someone to share his sweet life. But the shirts prove Jack would've still saw Ennis even after trying to have a life with someone else. That is why I believe the November trip would've been the big ultimatum-the decision that would change the course of their entire relationship. If Ennis knew Jack was having a life w/ someone else, he would've been on fire. However, what Ennis would've done is totally left in the air. He probably would've killed Randall in his sleep. And have that life with Jack.    
Interesting point, browneyes, about Ennis being "on fire", and an apt choice of words, I think.   :)   For all that he's often spoken of as being the quiet one, his intensity does burn through, particularly in anything to do with his relationship with our Jack. 

Just the way that he switches the shirts around so that his own is now covering Jack's, speaks to the protective instincts he has always had inside, trying to keep Jack safe.   Ultimately he had been unable to shield Jack from being hurt by the world - and indeed Ennis had a hand in the hurting, mortal blows aside.  Sometimes I see this reversal of the shirts as being an apology to Jack for that hurt he suffered due to Ennis's fears, as well as a promise that Ennis's love would have been there for him always, regardless of those last words spoken.
Don't know that I think Ennis would go as far as to kill Randall in his sleep, though ...  Now, in a bar fight maybe ...  ;)   
Like you, many of us want to believe that Ennis would one day have decided to have that sweet life with Jack ... and we can speculate on what might have one day made him change is mind .... left up in the air, as you say, because of Jack's life being cut short.

Great posts browneyes and Miss-Red.  :\'( Ennis' fear was getting the tire iron- I think by finding those shirts he realized there is a fate worse than death.  :(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: browneyes on Jul 25, 2006, 06:13 AM
And what really breaks my heart is that it's possible Jack died thinking Ennis didn't want to see him again "why don't you just let me be". Can u just imagine how overjoyed Jack would've been to realize Ennis didn't mean that and still wanted to meet in November? The circumstances of Jack's dead is just really tragic. He didn't get to have that sweet life with Ennis. I still think bringing up Randall would've been a way to prove to Ennis he's really serious about moving on. And Ennis didn't know how Jack really felt about him until he found the shirts.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: jeffjoe on Jul 25, 2006, 10:48 PM
And what really breaks my heart is that it's possible Jack died thinking Ennis didn't want to see him again "why don't you just let me be". Can u just imagine how overjoyed Jack would've been to realize Ennis didn't mean that and still wanted to meet in November? The circumstances of Jack's dead is just really tragic. He didn't get to have that sweet life with Ennis. I still think bringing up Randall would've been a way to prove to Ennis he's really serious about moving on. And Ennis didn't know how Jack really felt about him until he found the shirts.
It's so sad the Jack dead without Ennis near him and it's worst believe maybe Jack thinking Ennis leave him forever in his last moment, Whem he found the shirts, it's like Jack sould is telling..."Ennis my love, I was so afraid than you will never come back to me, but now you are to my side... I'm still here with you always...Jack i swear..."   
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 26, 2006, 09:24 AM
There's a way of seeing the shirts as Jack's "message in a bottle" to Ennis. He could hardly leave him a letter ( in the careof Lureen or his parents?) but the shirts look on the surface just like two shirts, even if theone inside had been discovered. The only person they have significance for is Enns.I wonder if Jack had a presentimetn or idea that he might die young/be kiiled?
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: keren_b on Jul 26, 2006, 09:34 AM
There's a way of seeing the shirts as Jack's "message in a bottle" to Ennis. He could hardly leave him a letter ( in the careof Lureen or his parents?) but the shirts look on the surface just like two shirts, even if theone inside had been discovered. The only person they have significance for is Enns.I wonder if Jack had a presentimetn or idea that he might die young/be kiiled?

I've never thought about it... but I don't think that was on Jack's mind, or that he expected Ennis to find the shirts. I always thought he kept them together like that because he wanted to remember the way they were together that summer on brokeback, and he put Ennis's shirt inside of his because he felt that Ennis was an inseperable part of him, inside him, like the story says - like two skins, one inside the other, two in one. he arranged the shirts the way he wanted him and Ennis to be in real life - one inside the other, two in one.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: NoReins on Jul 26, 2006, 10:45 AM
There's a way of seeing the shirts as Jack's "message in a bottle" to Ennis. He could hardly leave him a letter ( in the careof Lureen or his parents?) but the shirts look on the surface just like two shirts, even if theone inside had been discovered. The only person they have significance for is Enns.I wonder if Jack had a presentimetn or idea that he might die young/be kiiled?

I've never thought about it... but I don't think that was on Jack's mind, or that he expected Ennis to find the shirts. I always thought he kept them together like that because he wanted to remember the way they were together that summer on brokeback, and he put Ennis's shirt inside of his because he felt that Ennis was an inseperable part of him, inside him, like the story says - like two skins, one inside the other, two in one. he arranged the shirts the way he wanted him and Ennis to be in real life - one inside the other, two in one.

Yeah, that's my take on it too Keren - beautifully put ^f^
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 26, 2006, 10:48 AM
Of course you're right but there's more than one way of looking at things. What kind of surprises me is the way the shirts are left - not put away as ( in the movie) Ennis does but not very well hidden - even a casual look in the closet is enough for Ennis to find them. Of course Jack assumed he'd be back himself and the shirts would be safe enough where they were.

I also see them as his ideal vision of what he wanted the realtionship to be, not what it was. They were emotionally inseparable perhaps, but not physically so or in Jack's case sexually either. If anything the shirts were a reminder of that Brokeback summer, yet they also demonstrate how it ended.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: MississaugaRed on Jul 26, 2006, 10:59 AM
Aside from the postcards (and we're not sure if either man kept those) the shirts are the only token either ever had from the other (that we know of).  It's not surprising to me that Jack would have kept them all those years. He was the romantic.  Ennis was always a part of him from those days on Brokeback, even while he was doing those things Ennis would have killed him for had he come to know them.  As you say ... inseparable, be it in love or in hurt.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: NoReins on Jul 26, 2006, 11:07 AM
That's an interesting question about the postcards MissRed. The hopeless romantic in me says that they would both have kept the cards, hidden away somewhere safe. This seems to be the view that most fanfic writers have too - I've read bits about Jack finding the postcards that Ennis kept in quite a few fics (sorry, I know that's *o))

I actually just realised something: when Ennis goes to send the "you bet" postcard to Jack, he has Jack's address written on a scrap of paper but Jack wrote his address on the postcard so Ennis could have just taken that with him to the post office. Did he leave it behind because he didn't want anyone to see the card and think there was anything odd about it? Or did he leave it behind in order to avoid it getting damaged in any way, because it meant too much to him?

Ahdunno :s)
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: MississaugaRed on Jul 26, 2006, 12:18 PM
That's an interesting question about the postcards MissRed. The hopeless romantic in me says that they would both have kept the cards, hidden away somewhere safe. This seems to be the view that most fanfic writers have too - I've read bits about Jack finding the postcards that Ennis kept in quite a few fics (sorry, I know that's *o))

I actually just realised something: when Ennis goes to send the "you bet" postcard to Jack, he has Jack's address written on a scrap of paper but Jack wrote his address on the postcard so Ennis could have just taken that with him to the post office. Did he leave it behind because he didn't want anyone to see the card and think there was anything odd about it? Or did he leave it behind in order to avoid it getting damaged in any way, because it meant too much to him?

Ahdunno :s)

as you say ... ahdunno, either ...  :s)  pieces of the puzzel we can fill in to best suit our own wishes, I guess - and I'm with you on the romantic part, being hopeful they were kept ...

The shirts have become everything to us, just as they became everything to Ennis, because they are the one token we do KNOW.   <^(

Now I'm starting to prefer thinking of the shirts has being protected in that part of Jack's closet rather than hidden.  Hidden would imply to me that maybe they were never meant to be found.  Where they had rested all that time says to me they were being shielded from careless eyes, but were not meant to be so concealed that they couldn't be claimed when the right person, the one worthy, came seeking  ...
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 26, 2006, 02:43 PM
So Ennis becomes the knight, the one worthy to find the grail, and the shirts become the chalice, the receptacle for the blood, and his journey to Lightning Flat the quest. And Jack is the dead knight, killed by the dragon of hatred.

I love the Arthur myths and legends - sorry for dragging my obsessions into this. It just seems to fit.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: MississaugaRed on Jul 26, 2006, 03:12 PM
So Ennis becomes the knight, the one worthy to find the grail, and the shirts become the chalice, the receptacle for the blood, and his journey to Lightning Flat the quest. And Jack is the dead knight, killed by the dragon of hatred.

I love the Arthur myths and legends - sorry for dragging my obsessions into this. It just seems to fit.

Works well for me, ww ... drag away.  It does fit, disconcertingly well ... 

Although now I'm seeing Brokeback as Camelot, their quarter horses as noble steeds, their campfire as the round table, picture Ennis's simple garments as a suit of armor ...  was this a take on the Arthurian legend in disguise??  ww, I think you may have opened a whole new thread with that analogy!  O0
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: gimmejack on Jul 26, 2006, 04:28 PM
Quote
Now I'm starting to prefer thinking of the shirts has being protected in that part of Jack's closet rather than hidden.  Hidden would imply to me that maybe they were never meant to be found.  Where they had rested all that time says to me they were being shielded from careless eyes, but were not meant to be so concealed that they couldn't be claimed when the right person, the one worthy, came seeking  ...
   :\'(  So true and well said
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: LuvJackNasty on Jul 26, 2006, 07:31 PM
There's a way of seeing the shirts as Jack's "message in a bottle" to Ennis. He could hardly leave him a letter ( in the careof Lureen or his parents?) but the shirts look on the surface just like two shirts, even if theone inside had been discovered. The only person they have significance for is Enns.I wonder if Jack had a presentimetn or idea that he might die young/be kiiled?

I've never thought about it... but I don't think that was on Jack's mind, or that he expected Ennis to find the shirts. I always thought he kept them together like that because he wanted to remember the way they were together that summer on brokeback, and he put Ennis's shirt inside of his because he felt that Ennis was an inseperable part of him, inside him, like the story says - like two skins, one inside the other, two in one. he arranged the shirts the way he wanted him and Ennis to be in real life - one inside the other, two in one.

Beautiful posts everyone.  :\'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Jul 27, 2006, 07:37 AM
So Ennis becomes the knight, the one worthy to find the grail, and the shirts become the chalice, the receptacle for the blood, and his journey to Lightning Flat the quest. And Jack is the dead knight, killed by the dragon of hatred.

I love the Arthur myths and legends - sorry for dragging my obsessions into this. It just seems to fit.

It took me a while to find this passage.  Read it as you see fit. 

"Sir," saith he, "The knight that assieged them maimed me in this fashion, but was himself maimed in such sort that he is dead thereof. But the wounds that he dealt me are so cruel and so raging, that they may not be healed save his sword toucheth them and if be not bound with some of the winding-sheet wherein he was shrouded, that he had displayed about him, all bloody."

(The History of the Holy Graal)



Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Patriot1 on Jul 27, 2006, 04:04 PM
I actually just realised something: when Ennis goes to send the "you bet" postcard to Jack, he has Jack's address written on a scrap of paper but Jack wrote his address on the postcard so Ennis could have just taken that with him to the post office.

Not sure if it matters to the discussion NoReins, but Jack's address was not on the post card he sent to Ennis.  On the one side was a picture of a mountain and on the other was Ennis' address, albeit General Delivery, and the words, "Friend, this letter is long overdue. Coming through on the 24th. Drop me a line say if you're there. Jack". Ennis did have Jack's address written on brown paper.  In another thread we discussed how Ennis would have gotten Jack's address seeing he was so thoughtless and did not put it on the postcard. I believe the concensus was that Ennis got it from the telephone company. Back in those days the telephone company would not only give you the number, but would give you the address the telephone was registered to, if that information was available. Jack owned a house, he had a telephone, so that information was easy to get. Of course it would have been better if he had put it on the post card, but...

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Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: NoReins on Jul 28, 2006, 02:49 AM
I actually just realised something: when Ennis goes to send the "you bet" postcard to Jack, he has Jack's address written on a scrap of paper but Jack wrote his address on the postcard so Ennis could have just taken that with him to the post office.

Not sure if it matters to the discussion NoReins, but Jack's address was not on the post card he sent to Ennis.  On the one side was a picture of a mountain and on the other was Ennis' address, albeit General Delivery, and the words, "Friend, this letter is long overdue. Coming through on the 24th. Drop me a line say if you're there. Jack". Ennis did have Jack's address written on brown paper.  In another thread we discussed how Ennis would have gotten Jack's address seeing he was so thoughtless and did not put it on the postcard. I believe the concensus was that Ennis got it from the telephone company. Back in those days the telephone company would not only give you the number, but would give you the address the telephone was registered to, if that information was available. Jack owned a house, he had a telephone, so that information was easy to get. Of course it would have been better if he had put it on the post card, but...

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D'oh %&) You know, I'd never even noticed that the address wasn't on the card....think I'm always too caught up with watching Ennis' face when he's reading it to actually look at the card.

Thanks, Patriot1.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 28, 2006, 08:09 AM
There are so many details that demand the willing suspension of disbelief - how Ennis got to Lightning Flat to find the shirts is another one, since I can't imagine Jack gave him the address.I suppose we have to assume the existence of phone books, mail services, directories, etc - it's just that neither seems the type to use reference sources or ask other people for info - Ennis certainly wouldn't want to draw attention to himself that way.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: MississaugaRed on Jul 28, 2006, 08:44 AM
There are so many details that demand the willing suspension of disbelief - how Ennis got to Lightning Flat to find the shirts is another one, since I can't imagine Jack gave him the address.I suppose we have to assume the existence of phone books, mail services, directories, etc - it's just that neither seems the type to use reference sources or ask other people for info - Ennis certainly wouldn't want to draw attention to himself that way.

True, ww ...

Although ... he drew attention to himself by calling Lureen ... ???  so just the suspicion of Jack's death was already causing Ennis to act in ways he might not have thought he could before ...

As to how they were finding each other, I guess why waste precious film/story time on mundane details like how they worked out the getting addresses when we just want to see the results of address-getting.   :) 

Can't imagine LF was a very big place in terms of population; may have been conversations with Jack during all those times when details of his home came out, anyway.  Think maybe these country men were used to finding their way around these empty spaces with little to go on, given that time and place. 

This was important to Ennis, I like to think he would have steeled himself to ask directions if need be.  Important thing is Ennis found his way to LF, and those shirts were waiting .. Ennis journey to the shirts actaully started the minute he made that call to Lureen, the call we wouldn't have believed him capable of making.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: welshwitch on Jul 28, 2006, 02:39 PM
He didn't know what he was going to find, but he must have known it wouldn't be easy going to Jack's parents' home. Having made himself make the call, he then had to make himself make the journey - the shirts were by way of a reward and perhaps showed him that the unexpected can follow if you break your patterns. Which he does again when he agrees to go to Alma Jr's wedding.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: BBBOY on Jul 30, 2006, 11:12 PM
He didn't know what he was going to find, but he must have known it wouldn't be easy going to Jack's parents' home. Having made himself make the call, he then had to make himself make the journey - the shirts were by way of a reward and perhaps showed him that the unexpected can follow if you break your patterns. Which he does again when he agrees to go to Alma Jr's wedding.

 O0 Spot on pretty lady.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: jeffjoe on Jul 27, 2007, 11:20 PM
He didn't know what he was going to find, but he must have known it wouldn't be easy going to Jack's parents' home. Having made himself make the call, he then had to make himself make the journey - the shirts were by way of a reward and perhaps showed him that the unexpected can follow if you break your patterns. Which he does again when he agrees to go to Alma Jr's wedding.

 <^( more than right
Title: what the shirts symbolise to you in the final scene(s)
Post by: Matt Nasty on Feb 22, 2008, 02:46 PM
hi the title practically sums up what im asking. to me when ennis finds his blood stained shirt in jacks closet inside one of jacks jackets its not just symbolical because it shows jack craved ennis so much he needed to keep something with him at all times the main thing the shirts symbolise to me is in the final scene with ennis saying jack i swear i noticed that he had switched the to be over the jacket to me the shirt and jacket were a metaphor in jacks room when the jacket was over the shirt it was in away embrasing the shirt a metaphor for jack embrassing his love for ennis and the fact that ennis put the jacket over the shirt for me was a metaphor that ennis had finally embrasses his love for jack. if i didnt make sence there please ask me to elaborate i feel strongly about this and would hate for people to not understand what im saying
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: chameau on Feb 22, 2008, 05:47 PM
We merged your thread to this existing one so you could read what was discussed before :)
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Matt Nasty on Feb 22, 2008, 05:52 PM
We merged your thread to this existing one so you could read what was discussed before :)

thanks again ive made a habit of that today sorry for the inconveinience
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: chameau on Feb 22, 2008, 06:12 PM
No need to be sorry, there are so many threads here to explore :P
Title: Re: what the shirts symbolise to you in the final scene(s)
Post by: keren_b on Feb 23, 2008, 04:32 AM
hi the title practically sums up what im asking. to me when ennis finds his blood stained shirt in jacks closet inside one of jacks jackets its not just symbolical because it shows jack craved ennis so much he needed to keep something with him at all times the main thing the shirts symbolise to me is in the final scene with ennis saying jack i swear i noticed that he had switched the to be over the jacket to me the shirt and jacket were a metaphor in jacks room when the jacket was over the shirt it was in away embrasing the shirt a metaphor for jack embrassing his love for ennis and the fact that ennis put the jacket over the shirt for me was a metaphor that ennis had finally embrasses his love for jack. if i didnt make sence there please ask me to elaborate i feel strongly about this and would hate for people to not understand what im saying

Thank you zankou1991 for this post, and I think I understand what you're saying and it's beautiful. I've never thought about it quite this way.

When Annie proulx wrote about Ennis finding the shirts in her short story she described them "like two skins, one inside the other, two in one". The shirts symbolised what the boys were to each other. Jack had tucked Ennis' shirt inside his, and I have always seen it as Jack embracing Ennis, holding him inside of him. And then when Ennis switched the shirts I've always seen it as Ennis embracing Jack, keeping his memory inside him (because now Jack's memory is all he's got left), keeping him safe. Like it was his way to say that he will always carry Jack inside of him, in his heart. But what you said makes sense and I think it's a beautiful way to see it, Ennis embracing his love for Jack, maybe finally accepting it.

And btw, switching the shirts like that wasn't in the story nor in the screenplay, it was Heath's idea to do that.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Tony on Feb 23, 2008, 09:26 AM
     It was Heath's idea to do that?  Switch the shirts?  Damn, Keren, just take out a gun and shoot me.  Get it over with.  That little piece of
information is absolute proof Heath understood the love, became a part of it, and developed it with extreme respect.  There goes any theory
he was just a brilliant actor exploring a difficult role.  He was a lover.  He knew what a deep love could provoke.  I wonder how much more of
the final vision of enduring love--was Heath's?
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: keren_b on Feb 23, 2008, 09:40 AM
Yes, I think it was Diana Ossana who said in an interview that it was Heath's idea to switch the shirts. And I agree with you Tony, he understood the deep love in the story and became a part of it, completely. Who else would've thought of something like that? Such sensitivity, such insight, such depth.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Emzan on Feb 23, 2008, 11:28 AM
all the posts make me cry :\'(

Yes, I think it was Diana Ossana who said in an interview that it was Heath's idea to switch the shirts. And I agree with you Tony, he understood the deep love in the story and became a part of it, completely. Who else would've thought of something like that? Such sensitivity, such insight, such depth.

nobody would have thought of that If Heath hadn't done it. Just the thought of It makes me love him more but It hurts to love him, because his gone :\'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: lamusica on Feb 23, 2008, 12:45 PM
     It was Heath's idea to do that?  Switch the shirts?  Damn, Keren, just take out a gun and shoot me.  Get it over with.  That little piece of
information is absolute proof Heath understood the love, became a part of it, and developed it with extreme respect.  There goes any theory
he was just a brilliant actor exploring a difficult role.  He was a lover.  He knew what a deep love could provoke.  I wonder how much more of
the final vision of enduring love--was Heath's?

I wonder, too, Tony.  I always wondered who set up the scene in the motel where Ennis is leaning back on Jack's chest with Jack's arm around him so Ennis could continually stroke Jack's arm.  To me, that is one of the most erotic actions in the film.  I don't know if it was Heath's idea, or Ang's, or who, but it sure got to me.  It's another instance of that little something extra that raises that scene to unscalable heights.  If we ever doubted their love for one another, that position and little action proved it.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: jackster on Feb 23, 2008, 01:08 PM
Yes, I think it was Diana Ossana who said in an interview that it was Heath's idea to switch the shirts. . . .

Yes, Diana was quoted (again) in the recent Heath Ledger tribute issue of the Advocate:

"One of my most endearing memories of working with Heath on the set was the day we filmed the final scene in Brokeback. Before the first take, Heath walked over to me, a big smile on his face, and said, "I think you're going to like what I've done with this scene" . . . I watched the monitors roll . . . and realized that Heath had chosen to reverse the order of those shirts . . . Such was Heath's commitment to the truth of our story and to the rawness and depth of his portrayal."

It will never get any better than this, this dedication and understanding to ones craft. How fortunate we are to have seen (and felt) this level of commitment. I think we can all see Heath walking over to Diana with that big smile, his energy radiating from that small trailer onto screens around the world.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Emzan on Feb 23, 2008, 01:12 PM
Yes, Diana was quoted in the recent Heath Ledger tribute issue of the Advocate:

"One of my most endearing memories of working with Heath on the set was the day we filmed the final scene in Brokeback. Before the first take, Heath walked over to me, a big smile on his face, and said, "I think you're going to like what I've done with this scene" . . . I watched the monitors roll . . . and realized that Heath had chosen to reverse the order of those shirts . . . Such was Heath's commitment to the truth of our story and to the rawness and depth of his portrayal."

It will never get any better than this, this dedication and understanding to ones craft. How fortunate we are to have seen (and felt) this level of commitment. I think we can all see Heath walking over to Diana with that big smile, his energy radiating from that small trailer onto screens around the world.

I love reading things like this. Yes I can see his big beautiful smile and now I think I'm gonna cry :(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Matt Nasty on Feb 23, 2008, 01:19 PM
I love reading things like this. Yes I can see his big beautiful smile and now I think I'm gonna cry :(

yer hearing all the wonderful things about heath is nice because he was such a great guy and its a great way to remember him but at the same time its sad because it reminds you of the loss. :\'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Emzan on Feb 23, 2008, 01:24 PM
yer hearing all the wonderful things about heath is nice because he was such a great guy and its a great way to remember him but at the same time its sad because it reminds you of the loss. :\'(

I'm happy for a wile but then I remeber that he's no longer with us and that just feels wrong. It wasn't his time, just like It wasn't Jack's time in the movie, he should have lived a happy life with Ennis. and Heath should have lived a happy life with Matilda :\'(
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Matt Nasty on Feb 23, 2008, 01:30 PM
I'm happy for a wile but then I remeber that he's no longer with us and that just feels wrong. It wasn't his time, just like It wasn't Jack's time in the movie, he should have lived a happy life with Ennis. and Heath should have lived a happy life with Matilda :\'(

too true enzam i'd like to say to you what ellen said to jake. "your so thoughtful, your cute and thooughtful to, you could just be cute but thoughtful" this is what i say to you, lol
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Emzan on Feb 23, 2008, 01:37 PM
too true enzam i'd like to say to you what ellen said to jake. "your so thoughtful, your cute and thooughtful to, you could just be cute but thoughtful" this is what i say to you, lol

I say the same thing about you :)
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Matt Nasty on Feb 23, 2008, 01:39 PM
I say the same thing about you :)

lol cheers.

i might post a pic of myself on hear im just worried i scare people lol
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Emzan on Feb 23, 2008, 01:45 PM
lol cheers.

i might post a pic of myself on hear im just worried i scare people lol

I would love to see what you look like, I don't think you will scare anyone
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Matt Nasty on Feb 23, 2008, 01:50 PM
I would love to see what you look like, I don't think you will scare anyone

i wouldnt be so sure i will get a photo put up later and you'll see what i mean lol i have a webcam but i always look like a dofus on the photos it takes lol
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Emzan on Feb 23, 2008, 01:52 PM
i wouldnt be so sure i will get a photo put up later and you'll see what i mean lol i have a webcam but i always look like a dofus on the photos it takes lol

this is  *o) but I don't think you do
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Matt Nasty on Feb 23, 2008, 01:57 PM
this is  *o) but I don't think you do

sorry ive flicking back and forth in between the photo one and this one got conused lol
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: chameau on Feb 23, 2008, 08:51 PM
Brokies the last posts here are really off topic.  There are plenty of places to chat on this forum but please not here.  Thanks! :)
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: aintfoolin on Feb 24, 2008, 03:55 AM
Until Ennis saw the two shirts in Jacks room do you think he really knew how much Jack loved him and that it was more than a deep sexual friendship?

Inquiring minds want to know.


 I really feel that Ennis knew Jack loved him before the shirts. 20 years is a long time not to know this or at least have a strong suspicion. I think for Ennis it was more of the discovery of the depth  of the love, but just as impotantly Ennis finally making the silent confession to himself that he loved Jack just as much.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Emzan on Feb 24, 2008, 04:01 AM
Brokies the last posts here are really off topic.  There are plenty of places to chat on this forum but please not here.  Thanks! :)

we know,  ~) for that
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: keren_b on Feb 24, 2008, 10:34 AM
I really feel that Ennis knew Jack loved him before the shirts. 20 years is a long time not to know this or at least have a strong suspicion. I think for Ennis it was more of the discovery of the depth of the love, but just as impotantly Ennis finally making the silent confession to himself that he loved Jack just as much.

beautifuly said.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Matt Nasty on Feb 24, 2008, 10:37 AM
ennis deffinately knew jack loved him and i think jack new ennis loved him its just ennis was less showing of the fact
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Emzan on Feb 25, 2008, 06:50 AM
ennis deffinately knew jack loved him and i think jack new ennis loved him its just ennis was less showing of the fact

I agree with you :)
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Feb 25, 2008, 09:04 AM
ennis deffinately knew jack loved him and i think jack new ennis loved him its just ennis was less showing of the fact

I think Jack only became truly aware of this in the last confrontation.

I think Ennis only became truly aware of this when he found the shirts inside the closet.

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Emzan on Feb 25, 2008, 09:52 AM
I think Jack only became truly aware of this in the last confrontation.

I think Ennis only became truly aware of this when he found the shirts inside the closet.

I think so too. Ennis never showed any feelings like that before and in a way I think that it ment something for Jack.

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: myprivatejack on Feb 25, 2008, 10:51 AM
I wonder, too, Tony.  I always wondered who set up the scene in the motel where Ennis is leaning back on Jack's chest with Jack's arm around him so Ennis could continually stroke Jack's arm.  To me, that is one of the most erotic actions in the film.  I don't know if it was Heath's idea, or Ang's, or who, but it sure got to me.  It's another instance of that little something extra that raises that scene to unscalable heights.  If we ever doubted their love for one another, that position and little action proved it.
Yes,I've always wanted to know in what measure actors contribute with their own ideas in these little actions and signals that initially aren't in the book and,perhaps,in the script either.I've already know that that one was Heath's idea and I find it superb,because for me it's a kind of showing his love for Jack,even if he's not already by his side.But also a kind of giving him the protection in death than he wasn't able to give him in live.For me it's as if he swear he's going to protect his love's memory for the Eternity,I don't know if this makes sense...
By the way,and speaking about love,I don't find the little strokes on Jack's arm in the motel scene particularilly erotic;when Jack asked Ennis "What about you?"-during those four years of separation-,this doesn't find an answer,as always,but it seems as if his eyes get full with tears and the ONLY he can do is stroke his lover's arm.For me it's a love's proof without words,and Jack also find it so,because he realises by saying "Old Brokeback got us good...".JMO.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Feb 26, 2008, 09:03 AM
I think so too. Ennis never showed any feelings like that before and in a way I think that it ment something for Jack.



It was a part of Ennis's stoicism not to show his emotions, no?  He thought it was a way to show strength, when in fact it showed a fundamental weakness...

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Emzan on Feb 26, 2008, 09:07 AM
It was a part of Ennis's stoicism not to show his emotions, no?  He thought it was a way to show strength, when in fact it showed a fundamental weakness...



you're right :) ;)
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Matt Nasty on Feb 26, 2008, 02:27 PM
It was a part of Ennis's stoicism not to show his emotions, no?  He thought it was a way to show strength, when in fact it showed a fundamental weakness...



ermm i dont know what stoicism is lol is it like a facade? i understand what you are saying though and i totally agree. i cant beleive english is my first language and im having trouble understanding a word  :8 :8
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Feb 27, 2008, 07:54 AM
Stoicism is showing and indifference to either pleasure or pain -- i.e., taking life as it comes.  Ennis tries to show this many times, but we do know that it is all a facade, by the way he breaks down in the alley, or the way he breaks down in the final confrontation.

Relating to the scene in the closet with the shirts, we see the true Ennis, engulfed in a quiet sea of sadness.  That's what he truly was inside, and not the stoic he wanted people to see.

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: Matt Nasty on Feb 27, 2008, 10:54 AM
Stoicism is showing and indifference to either pleasure or pain -- i.e., taking life as it comes.  Ennis tries to show this many times, but we do know that it is all a facade, by the way he breaks down in the alley, or the way he breaks down in the final confrontation.

Relating to the scene in the closet with the shirts, we see the true Ennis, engulfed in a quiet sea of sadness.  That's what he truly was inside, and not the stoic he wanted people to see.



oh right thanks for clearing that up lol. yer i agree with what your saying then  :)
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: myprivatejack on Feb 27, 2008, 11:03 AM
Stoicism is showing and indifference to either pleasure or pain -- i.e., taking life as it comes.  Ennis tries to show this many times, but we do know that it is all a facade, by the way he breaks down in the alley, or the way he breaks down in the final confrontation.

Relating to the scene in the closet with the shirts, we see the true Ennis, engulfed in a quiet sea of sadness.  That's what he truly was inside, and not the stoic he wanted people to see.
Ennis was building a kind of indifference wall around him to protect him from his social environment that was aggressive against same-sex relationship.But at the end,this wall turned into a way of protecting against himself:against his inner feelings and wishes,against his own fear of "getting mad" and throw stones against this wall until break it down.That's to say,letting all behind and living the sweet life with Jack,what he really wished in spite of himself...But all the walls,as high and strong they could be,fall before evidences,as in the closet scene.What a great struggle with himself had this manˇ.
Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: tpe on Feb 28, 2008, 10:57 AM
Ennis was building a kind of indifference wall around him to protect him from his social environment that was aggressive against same-sex relationship.But at the end,this wall turned into a way of protecting against himself:against his inner feelings and wishes,against his own fear of "getting mad" and throw stones against this wall until break it down.That's to say,letting all behind and living the sweet life with Jack,what he really wished in spite of himself...But all the walls,as high and strong they could be,fall before evidences,as in the closet scene.What a great struggle with himself had this manˇ.

Very beautifully stated.

Title: Re: Until the shirts / the shirts in the closet
Post by: myprivatejack on Feb 28, 2008, 12:46 PM
Very beautifully stated.



Thanks,Thomas.I´ve got a good teacher... :)