I know I am quite the bitch here, and I am sorry for being mean, but I am always honest or at least I try to be, and I have this powerful need to speak my mind right now so I won’t lie just to be gentle.
I still have mixed feelings about this all.
Andrew, friend, you say that Terry had good intentions and I don’t have doubts about that, but, babe, you English speaker people have a saying that goes “hell is paved with good intentions”, right?
You also say that he wanted to give Heath's last movie the best publicity possible to launch it successfully, but I wonder if he wanted to do that for Heath’s movie or for HIS movie. We can not forget that it’s his movie, he is the director, so maybe he is doing this for himself and his own work, don’t you think?
Anyway, I don’t wanna believe that he did it to give The Parnassus publicity. I want to believe Keren’s words. Because if he did it to get publicity, now that’s plain stupid. I mean, I went to see BBM because I read what it was about, I read that it was genius Ang Lee last movie, I saw the trailer, and not because I read that Jake G had a hard time after breaking up with KD, the Spiderman babe. People go to see a film or buy a book if they hear good things about them, or even if the plot or the characters are controversial and can awake some kind of polemic or discussion. But no one goes to see a film just because one of its actors, here Heath, had a hard time dealing with the custody process of his daughter. What kind of publicity that can give to a film? It’s not gonna make people go and see the film. I am not gonna see Russel C new film just because I read in a magazine that he likes to throw cell phones to paps and he does drugs too!!!!! And sure I didn’t watch Tom C last film even if I read that he had serious issues in his marriage because he kinda wanted his wife to do things the way that church of his tells him!!! How crazy and totally stupid is that? That’s why I don’t think that Terry did that to give the film publicity, because he’d have lost his mind if he thinks that speaking about Heath smoking marijuana could make people go and see his film.
And I honestly think that Heath’d never have talked about his private life to give his film the opportunity to get a distributor.
I know I am being very intolerant right now, but I can’t help it. This is how I feel. You can make that kind of mistakes if Heath had spent his life giving mixed signals about what he thought about work and private life, you can do that if Heath had talked to the media more about his life and marriage and stuff. But, damn, Heath spent his life refusing to talk about his private relationships, his family life, and he showed lots of times what he thought about paps and aggressive media, so Terry knew/knows well enough what Heath had thought about that VF article, and still he did it, he said all that. And, yeah, he can speak out of pain and bitterness, but he’s talking about other people business, not his, he’s talking about Michelle and Matilda, and they are not his family, so he had not right to talk about if Michells and Heath were different or what kinda life they had. And what about Heath and drugs? Is it out the pain too? I mean, for Christ sake, what kind of image of Heath is gonna have some people now? Were those two guys making Heath a favor talking about the stuff Heath smoked? My ex boss called me after he read the article (he clicks in the Parnassus forum because I asked him to help us) and he said to me “told you, he was a junkie. When he died I told you so and you refused to believe it, now you have the proof”. See? What Terry and that guy have done is not good for Heath.
You can have a slip, say something out of desperation and sadness, I do that, but A THING, or two, but a whole article saying things that Heath wouldn’t have liked?
Sorry, Keren, but I can not buy that. And I know that he'd never hurt Heath's memory on purpose. I don't think that he wanted to hurt his friend. But I think he was just only thinking about himself and HIS movie when he did that. He was not thinking about Heath at all. He ignored what Heath'd have felt if he could read the article. THAT is what have me this mad and disappointed.