Oh NoReins, this is so not fair! You want your DVD, you need your DVD!!! Hope it's not too long before you get it. :-\
I watched it last night. Would you believe that this viewing had me crying longer and harder than any of the million other times I've watched it? I usually start filling up during the alleyway scene, but this time I started during the SNIT scene, and pretty much carried on crying until the credits. It just hit me the impossible sadness of the story, of Ennis and Jack's love, and I completely lost it! :'( :'( :'(
I watched some of the extras too which are good. I have only ever seen the making of documentary, so the other features were a nice surprise. Still wants lots of deleted scenes/outtakes though.