Just noticed this great cinematic play the other night . . . . goodbyes in '63 and '82.
The first leaving or breakup scene in Signal '63 and the last breakup scene after the argument in '82. Maybe this has been mentioned before, but an amazingly clever mirror image of Jack at his truck getting ready to go and Ennis stammering around not being able to verbalize anything about their departure. Both heartbreaking and difficult scenes and showing how little had changed in their verbal communication skill in twenty years.
Jacks posture almost the same, Ennis's facial expressions very similar too.

Thanks, Jackster, I love this insight. It shows how after twenty fricking years, the two of them are still in the same old stuck rut, and Jack was ready to move on, while Ennis was still feeling powerless to change, feeling stuck. Their communications skills haven't changed; their responses to each other haven't changed; and more importantly, their social standing relative to each other haven't changed. Ennis was still the poor guy to Jack's well off glamor.
There is a subtle difference, however, in that the '63 Ennis wasn't beaten down by poverty, failure in marriage, and twenty years of love denied. And Jack wasn't frustrated by twenty years of loved unrequited, put-downs by father-in-law, and liberated by the new sense of freedom and self-respect after the Thanksgiving scene.
The sense of equilibrium in '63 was missing and in '82, it felt like Ennis was afraid of Jack.
Just my two cents worth, for two wonderful actors in two wonderful scenes.
