Its gotta be the Biker/fairground scene. I don't like obscene use of words,and i just feel that the scene was pointless and not well done, They should of took it out and put in more of Ennis and Jack together,IMO.
I can see why you don't like the scene, cause it's not exactly pleasant to watch, but I don't agree that it's pointless. I think it illustrates very well the sort of person Ennis was, and how he struggled to cope with the world around him. He's trying to be a regular family guy,taking his wife and kids out for a special occasion, even though he hates social events like that, and we see the side of him that wants to do the right thing,all the people around the bikers are obviously offended and intimidated by the bikers, but Ennis is the only one with the guts to tell them to pack it in. Junior and Jenny are too small to really understand what the bikers are saying, so when Ennis tells them to keep it down cause of his girls, it's not just about them, he's speaking for everyone there. We also see how Ennis will only tolerate so much,trying to keep control of himself, but with the violent side of him simmering away quietly until it finally becomes to much, and he explodes in a violent rage. Also, if you look closesly, it's the biker's comment about Ennis not giving it to his wife after the kids were born, that is the trigger that sets him off, you see Alma look nervously at him too, it's clear that she knows the biker's hit a nerve.The biker's comment probably made Ennis feel that paranoia he has about people suspecting, cause his and Alma's sex life clearly isn't particularly satisfying for either of them so, in a way, that scene is about Ennis and Jack, even though Jack isn't there,or even mentioned. In fact, just about every non-Ennis and Jack scene is about the two of them on some level, cause their whole lives are defined by their relationship, and the hardships they endure because of it. Of course, I wish there had been more scenes of Ennis and Jack together (the whole movie could be Ennis and Jack together, and it still wouldn't be enough for me!

), but as someone summed it up perfectly in another thread, by not seeing enough Ennis and Jack on screen, we get a real sense of what it was like for them, to never have enough time with each other
