The RELIEF I feel at this scene is part of its brilliance. The first time I saw it, I was surprised, relieved, and understood for the first time the depth of their love. The way the film works up to this, showing that the men APPEAR to go on with their lives, and then - OH, they so haven't!
I can only imagine how many times I will watch this scene when I get my dvd. It's the epitome of yearning, passion, deception (dare I say it? to self and others), love!. God this movie is incredible! I am just fine throughout the day, until I get on this site and start reading posts. Then, I just want to get myself to the theater!