I know I'm about to be crucified here, but I have a bit of a different take on the dozy embrace scene. I know Annie says Ennis came to Jack from behind because he didn't want to realize he was holding a man. She's the boss, of course, and I'm sure that's how she saw it when she wrote it. However, I think Ang and our boys saw it differently. If you look at the stills, you see that Ennis does not shut his eyes or look away. He turns his head towards Jack and looks at him ( albeit from the side). He is fully cognizant of whom he is holding. When I first saw the movie, I expected him to lean in more and kiss Jack on the neck, or nuzzle his ear or hair. I am convinced Ennis was well aware that it was Jack he held, and that's just where he wanted to be at that time. Perhaps it was the very first time he was overtly affectionate with Jack without it leading to sex -- don't know, but it was deliberate, in my most humble opinion.